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[quote=Anonymous]For me, the number and type of compliments (or insults) I receive is entirely dependent on my weight. Sad to say, but in my 20s I put on 40lbs and was able to walk through life as if I were invisible. After my dad died I lost so much weight that people started asking concerned questions. I was in my early 30s and the attention was unrelenting. I could have slept with a different guy (hot, wealthy, or both) every night of the week. And while I agree that my gay men friends were the most objective observers and complimenters, I also noticed that women became much, much meaner the thinner I got. To me, this is the surest sign that you are nice looking. (I generally get along very well with other women and it was never an issue when I was fat.) In my 50s now and am back to being invisible again. It doesn't matter what I weigh anymore. 50 + thin or not thin = invisible (in general). And although I really enjoyed my 30s as a hottie and would not trade those memories for the world, I also really enjoy the freedom that comes with being 50 and not giving a sh*t.[/quote]
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