Wife Just Physically Assaulted Me

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'm the guy whose wife called 911.

She didn't make partner. I got full custody and it took her two years to get unsupervised visits after that. Not surprisingly, she isn't in her kid's life. She's moved to Richmond and the kids and I are doing very well. Much better than before

I took her for palimony and I got the house and the condo we owned first.

To the poster that tried to malign time spent watching movies with their kids. Wow, just wow. You're especially gross.

And the cherry on top for all you sad women out there:

My new wife is 14 tears younger, way, way hotter and is actually a decent person. My kids like her more than they like their birth mother.

Merry Christmas!

Troll. It’s not called palimony if you were married. It’s alimony whether you are the DH or DW.

Yeah. It sure is a convenient outcome. But, whatever.

Right. Because everyone on DCUM has a JD in family law

No one needs a JD in family law to know that it’s not called palimony when you are divorced. All you need to do is go through the process of fighting for or against alimony to know what it is called. PP claims he “took her for palimony”. If he’d ever received even a single payment, he would know that it is called alimony because he fought like hell to get it. No one automatically gets spousal support these days. You go though legal hell to get it and you damn sure know what it is called.

Palimony is for couples never legally married.

Aren't you supposed to be counting toothpicks or something?

Is the trollspeak for don’t introduce facts into this thread?

I believe s/he was pointing out your fascination with inconsequential details. That's a benchmark characteristic in the DSM for people on the Auspergers spectrum.

[Anonymous]

^ TFW when someone tries to cite the DSM for a condition that was removed years ago

[Anonymous]

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^ TFW when someone tries to cite the DSM for a condition that was removed years ago

NP. You’re doing it again. That inconsequential detail thing. Please stop and just let it go.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:So OP never came back to say if she is a woman? I strongly suspect she is in a lesbian relationship. We had many posts from a woman in a lesbian marriage here, and each post was showing some escalation of issues. OP was constantly unhappy, her spouse was ignoring her, and that OP always came out as extremely needy, and picking on every single thing. Still does not make OP not a victim. If this is that same OP, here is my advice for you. Your marriage is not working, you hate her parents, you hate the lack of intimacy and you need to get out of this relationship. If you are not her, same advice goes.

OP here. I’m a man. It’s obvious from my post. I wrote upthread that I’m going to speak to a lawyer. I’m not calling the police THIS TIME. But if she goes off the rails again, I get a PO to get her out of my house and have grounds to divorce her for cruelty.

So what happened exactly? Unless I missed it somewhere, you’ve not said.

OP hasn’t been back. Probably a troll.

I was back upthread. Said I was maki g an appointment with a lawyer. Will do so ASAP. What happened? DW assaulted me. Why? She’s unhappy and does t want me in “her house.” I pissed her off because I lost my glasses and couldn’t find them, so I “ruined her morning.” Later shes’s texting me why I’m not home. She needs therapy. I need out. Answer your question?

[Anonymous]

Haha. Np. You answered my question: you sound like a psychotic pretty little man who is a slob at home. Why are you a slob at home? Entitled, misogynist?, lazy?, ADHd?, fat and slow?, narcissistic?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Haha. Np. You answered my question: you sound like a psychotic pretty little man who is a slob at home. Why are you a slob at home? Entitled, misogynist?, lazy?, ADHd?, fat and slow?, narcissistic?

WTF?

[Anonymous]

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^ TFW when someone tries to cite the DSM for a condition that was removed years ago

NP. You’re doing it again. That inconsequential detail thing. Please stop and just let it go.

Okay, your creative prose was more interesting anyways.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:So OP never came back to say if she is a woman? I strongly suspect she is in a lesbian relationship. We had many posts from a woman in a lesbian marriage here, and each post was showing some escalation of issues. OP was constantly unhappy, her spouse was ignoring her, and that OP always came out as extremely needy, and picking on every single thing. Still does not make OP not a victim. If this is that same OP, here is my advice for you. Your marriage is not working, you hate her parents, you hate the lack of intimacy and you need to get out of this relationship. If you are not her, same advice goes.

OP here. I’m a man. It’s obvious from my post. I wrote upthread that I’m going to speak to a lawyer. I’m not calling the police THIS TIME. But if she goes off the rails again, I get a PO to get her out of my house and have grounds to divorce her for cruelty.

So what happened exactly? Unless I missed it somewhere, you’ve not said.

OP hasn’t been back. Probably a troll.

I was back upthread. Said I was maki g an appointment with a lawyer. Will do so ASAP. What happened? DW assaulted me. Why? She’s unhappy and does t want me in “her house.” I pissed her off because I lost my glasses and couldn’t find them, so I “ruined her morning.” Later shes’s texting me why I’m not home. She needs therapy. I need out. Answer your question?

Listen, she didn’t assault you. Even if she had, most judges do not care. You still get 50% of the assets and 50% time with the children.

Seriously. I’ve known women who were hospitalized with broken bones after their husbands went into a rage. Nobody cares. They get half of everything. If you think it’s going to be different because you almost got a bruise, you’re delusional.

Grow up.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:So OP never came back to say if she is a woman? I strongly suspect she is in a lesbian relationship. We had many posts from a woman in a lesbian marriage here, and each post was showing some escalation of issues. OP was constantly unhappy, her spouse was ignoring her, and that OP always came out as extremely needy, and picking on every single thing. Still does not make OP not a victim. If this is that same OP, here is my advice for you. Your marriage is not working, you hate her parents, you hate the lack of intimacy and you need to get out of this relationship. If you are not her, same advice goes.

OP here. I’m a man. It’s obvious from my post. I wrote upthread that I’m going to speak to a lawyer. I’m not calling the police THIS TIME. But if she goes off the rails again, I get a PO to get her out of my house and have grounds to divorce her for cruelty.

So what happened exactly? Unless I missed it somewhere, you’ve not said.

OP hasn’t been back. Probably a troll.

I was back upthread. Said I was maki g an appointment with a lawyer. Will do so ASAP. What happened? DW assaulted me. Why? She’s unhappy and does t want me in “her house.” I pissed her off because I lost my glasses and couldn’t find them, so I “ruined her morning.” Later shes’s texting me why I’m not home. She needs therapy. I need out. Answer your question?

Listen, she didn’t assault you. Even if she had, most judges do not care. You still get 50% of the assets and 50% time with the children.

Seriously. I’ve known women who were hospitalized with broken bones after their husbands went into a rage. Nobody cares. They get half of everything. If you think it’s going to be different because you almost got a bruise, you’re delusional.

Grow up.

You would never say that to a woman.

[Anonymous]

If this was a woman posting about a first assault, then every single response would be to involve the police and lock him up.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:So OP never came back to say if she is a woman? I strongly suspect she is in a lesbian relationship. We had many posts from a woman in a lesbian marriage here, and each post was showing some escalation of issues. OP was constantly unhappy, her spouse was ignoring her, and that OP always came out as extremely needy, and picking on every single thing. Still does not make OP not a victim. If this is that same OP, here is my advice for you. Your marriage is not working, you hate her parents, you hate the lack of intimacy and you need to get out of this relationship. If you are not her, same advice goes.

OP here. I’m a man. It’s obvious from my post. I wrote upthread that I’m going to speak to a lawyer. I’m not calling the police THIS TIME. But if she goes off the rails again, I get a PO to get her out of my house and have grounds to divorce her for cruelty.

So what happened exactly? Unless I missed it somewhere, you’ve not said.

OP hasn’t been back. Probably a troll.

I was back upthread. Said I was maki g an appointment with a lawyer. Will do so ASAP. What happened? DW assaulted me. Why? She’s unhappy and does t want me in “her house.” I pissed her off because I lost my glasses and couldn’t find them, so I “ruined her morning.” Later shes’s texting me why I’m not home. She needs therapy. I need out. Answer your question?

Listen, she didn’t assault you. Even if she had, most judges do not care. You still get 50% of the assets and 50% time with the children.

Seriously. I’ve known women who were hospitalized with broken bones after their husbands went into a rage. Nobody cares. They get half of everything. If you think it’s going to be different because you almost got a bruise, you’re delusional.

Grow up.

You would never say that to a woman.

Yes I would. My friends who were hospitalized are the ones who tell me that nobody cares. Judges do not factor in domestic violence into custody or asset division.

I tell my other friends who have delusions that their husband giving them a black eye would lead to him losing custody of their children. It doesn’t.

The world sucks for domestic violence survivors.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So OP never came back to say if she is a woman? I strongly suspect she is in a lesbian relationship. We had many posts from a woman in a lesbian marriage here, and each post was showing some escalation of issues. OP was constantly unhappy, her spouse was ignoring her, and that OP always came out as extremely needy, and picking on every single thing. Still does not make OP not a victim. If this is that same OP, here is my advice for you. Your marriage is not working, you hate her parents, you hate the lack of intimacy and you need to get out of this relationship. If you are not her, same advice goes.

OP here. I’m a man. It’s obvious from my post. I wrote upthread that I’m going to speak to a lawyer. I’m not calling the police THIS TIME. But if she goes off the rails again, I get a PO to get her out of my house and have grounds to divorce her for cruelty.

So what happened exactly? Unless I missed it somewhere, you’ve not said.

OP hasn’t been back. Probably a troll.

I was back upthread. Said I was maki g an appointment with a lawyer. Will do so ASAP. What happened? DW assaulted me. Why? She’s unhappy and does t want me in “her house.” I pissed her off because I lost my glasses and couldn’t find them, so I “ruined her morning.” Later shes’s texting me why I’m not home. She needs therapy. I need out. Answer your question?

Listen, she didn’t assault you. Even if she had, most judges do not care. You still get 50% of the assets and 50% time with the children.

Seriously. I’ve known women who were hospitalized with broken bones after their husbands went into a rage. Nobody cares. They get half of everything. If you think it’s going to be different because you almost got a bruise, you’re delusional.

Grow up.

You would never say that to a woman.

Yes I would. My friends who were hospitalized are the ones who tell me that nobody cares. Judges do not factor in domestic violence into custody or asset division.

I tell my other friends who have delusions that their husband giving them a black eye would lead to him losing custody of their children. It doesn’t.

The world sucks for domestic violence survivors.

You sound like a miserable human being.

OP, do what you need to do. No one should put up with that.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So OP never came back to say if she is a woman? I strongly suspect she is in a lesbian relationship. We had many posts from a woman in a lesbian marriage here, and each post was showing some escalation of issues. OP was constantly unhappy, her spouse was ignoring her, and that OP always came out as extremely needy, and picking on every single thing. Still does not make OP not a victim. If this is that same OP, here is my advice for you. Your marriage is not working, you hate her parents, you hate the lack of intimacy and you need to get out of this relationship. If you are not her, same advice goes.

OP here. I’m a man. It’s obvious from my post. I wrote upthread that I’m going to speak to a lawyer. I’m not calling the police THIS TIME. But if she goes off the rails again, I get a PO to get her out of my house and have grounds to divorce her for cruelty.

So what happened exactly? Unless I missed it somewhere, you’ve not said.

OP hasn’t been back. Probably a troll.

I was back upthread. Said I was maki g an appointment with a lawyer. Will do so ASAP. What happened? DW assaulted me. Why? She’s unhappy and does t want me in “her house.” I pissed her off because I lost my glasses and couldn’t find them, so I “ruined her morning.” Later shes’s texting me why I’m not home. She needs therapy. I need out. Answer your question?

Listen, she didn’t assault you. Even if she had, most judges do not care. You still get 50% of the assets and 50% time with the children.

Seriously. I’ve known women who were hospitalized with broken bones after their husbands went into a rage. Nobody cares. They get half of everything. If you think it’s going to be different because you almost got a bruise, you’re delusional.

Grow up.

You would never say that to a woman.

True because if that’s all an abuser had done to a woman, she would be insisting it was no big deal, and “look! No bruises! See, he barely touched me and I was being REALLY annoying.”

OP was nit abused. He was not assaulted.

He needs to grow the F up.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So OP never came back to say if she is a woman? I strongly suspect she is in a lesbian relationship. We had many posts from a woman in a lesbian marriage here, and each post was showing some escalation of issues. OP was constantly unhappy, her spouse was ignoring her, and that OP always came out as extremely needy, and picking on every single thing. Still does not make OP not a victim. If this is that same OP, here is my advice for you. Your marriage is not working, you hate her parents, you hate the lack of intimacy and you need to get out of this relationship. If you are not her, same advice goes.

OP here. I’m a man. It’s obvious from my post. I wrote upthread that I’m going to speak to a lawyer. I’m not calling the police THIS TIME. But if she goes off the rails again, I get a PO to get her out of my house and have grounds to divorce her for cruelty.

So what happened exactly? Unless I missed it somewhere, you’ve not said.

OP hasn’t been back. Probably a troll.

I was back upthread. Said I was maki g an appointment with a lawyer. Will do so ASAP. What happened? DW assaulted me. Why? She’s unhappy and does t want me in “her house.” I pissed her off because I lost my glasses and couldn’t find them, so I “ruined her morning.” Later shes’s texting me why I’m not home. She needs therapy. I need out. Answer your question?

Listen, she didn’t assault you. Even if she had, most judges do not care. You still get 50% of the assets and 50% time with the children.

Seriously. I’ve known women who were hospitalized with broken bones after their husbands went into a rage. Nobody cares. They get half of everything. If you think it’s going to be different because you almost got a bruise, you’re delusional.

Grow up.

You would never say that to a woman.

True because if that’s all an abuser had done to a woman, she would be insisting it was no big deal, and “look! No bruises! See, he barely touched me and I was being REALLY annoying.”

OP was nit abused. He was not assaulted.

He needs to grow the F up.

UNREAL!

[Anonymous]

Thanks. I will involve the police if my lawyer advises or if I feel unsafe. Thank god, we don’t have guns in the house. In the meantime, I’ll work I’m in my exit plan.