Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP, the father is out of line. It is very annoying that he outsources parenting to your family and nanny and then tries to give you all orders about what activities his son should/should not engage in. I’d definitely want to tell him that if he doesn’t want his son to engage in activities your kids engage in, he should not send his son over to your house (or should work it out with his son that son has to come home when whatever activity is taking place).
Sounds like you can’t tell this dad off because you feel it will hurt the kid. So you might have to just let the dad’s presumptuous attitude go. But I totally get why the dad’s behavior is irking you.
A father is not out of line saying he does not want his boy being treated as a girl.