My neighbor is having an affair

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP is a bigger B$itch

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Why? This woman isn’t a friend or family member. Why would she think that someone who happened to buy a house near hers would keep her secrets? That’s her mistake.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:MYOB

What if you tell him and he kills his whole family or something?

Not your problem. MYOB

What if he finds out on his own and kills the whole family?

I'm sure some people will think this post is overly dramatic but it's a possibility. I'd never take this chance. Maybe I'm naive but I tend to believe that people will get what's coming to them. I don't need to be an integral part of that.

[Anonymous]

OP- how did you originally know they were having an affair?

Since Del Ray is a small community, why would it be weird enough for her and Tom to be seen together that it would lead to this other person mentioning it to the DH?

We’re they seen in Target together or in their car in the Target parking lot? Regardless, that’s right too close to the neighborhood. She’s insane to think she wouldn’t be seen by someone in the neighborhood.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP is a bigger B$itch

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Why? This woman isn’t a friend or family member. Why would she think that someone who happened to buy a house near hers would keep her secrets? That’s her mistake.

Because it’s none of her business. She she could cause an acrimonious divorce that might never happen if she keeps her mouth shut. Because it’s not her business because she could damage children worse finding out like this and because he might already know and they might even have an open marriage. Maybe the affair is the only thing keeping the marriage together and maybe they would be financially devastated in a divorce which would hurt everybody. People shouldn’t have affairs but some people do and it’s none of anybody else’s business to get involved. No one really knows what goes on in a marriage behind closed doors. No one should interfere and anybody else’s family or anybody else’s business. Honestly think people who get involved with other people‘s marriages are worse than people who cheat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP is a bigger B$itch

+1

Why? This woman isn’t a friend or family member. Why would she think that someone who happened to buy a house near hers would keep her secrets? That’s her mistake.

Because it’s none of her business. She she could cause an acrimonious divorce that might never happen if she keeps her mouth shut. Because it’s not her business because she could damage children worse finding out like this and because he might already know and they might even have an open marriage. Maybe the affair is the only thing keeping the marriage together and maybe they would be financially devastated in a divorce which would hurt everybody. People shouldn’t have affairs but some people do and it’s none of anybody else’s business to get involved. No one really knows what goes on in a marriage behind closed doors. No one should interfere and anybody else’s family or anybody else’s business. Honestly think people who get involved with other people‘s marriages are worse than people who cheat.

Shut up cheater. I 100% would have liked to know that my STBX was having unprotected sex with a whore he met on the Internet. And all the other risks that are involved with having an affair with somebody also in a committed marriage. And, no, only a tiny minority are actually in open marriages. That’s a BS excuse and it’s something cheaters lie about anyways.

If you cheat, you are setting your family up for this type of explosive damage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP is a bigger B$itch

+1

Why? This woman isn’t a friend or family member. Why would she think that someone who happened to buy a house near hers would keep her secrets? That’s her mistake.

Because it’s none of her business. She she could cause an acrimonious divorce that might never happen if she keeps her mouth shut. Because it’s not her business because she could damage children worse finding out like this and because he might already know and they might even have an open marriage. Maybe the affair is the only thing keeping the marriage together and maybe they would be financially devastated in a divorce which would hurt everybody. People shouldn’t have affairs but some people do and it’s none of anybody else’s business to get involved. No one really knows what goes on in a marriage behind closed doors. No one should interfere and anybody else’s family or anybody else’s business. Honestly think people who get involved with other people‘s marriages are worse than people who cheat.

If they would be financially devastated due to a divorce, maybe they shouldn’t be actively lying and cheating and doing things that will end up in divorce. They are banking on their spouses never finding out (or anyone else) which is dumb as sh@t.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP is a bigger B$itch

+1

Why? This woman isn’t a friend or family member. Why would she think that someone who happened to buy a house near hers would keep her secrets? That’s her mistake.

Because it’s none of her business. She she could cause an acrimonious divorce that might never happen if she keeps her mouth shut. Because it’s not her business because she could damage children worse finding out like this and because he might already know and they might even have an open marriage. Maybe the affair is the only thing keeping the marriage together and maybe they would be financially devastated in a divorce which would hurt everybody. People shouldn’t have affairs but some people do and it’s none of anybody else’s business to get involved. No one really knows what goes on in a marriage behind closed doors. No one should interfere and anybody else’s family or anybody else’s business. Honestly think [b]people who get involved with other people‘s marriages[b] are worse than people who cheat.

Ha! Can’t you see the irony?!?!! APs/cheaters ARE people getting involved in somebody else’s marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote: And I want to let her husband know, simply because she is a b@tch.

She thinks she’s little miss perfect yoga mom of two athletes in Del Ray

How do I do it without her finding out that it was me ?

Is she hot?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I want to know if any of the pps know who this woman is.

Somebody in Del Ray might. The rest of us don't care.

OP gave a lot of identifying information.

I wouldn’t say it’s a lot of information. From what I gather, it’s a woman whose name starts with L and has two children. That could be a whole bunch of people in Delray

OP- come get and give us the information we need

Laura is cheating!

[Anonymous]

Maybe she's repented since you last saw her

[Anonymous]

OP, please mind your own business. If you want to expose the affair because you don't like the wife, your motivations are not coming from a place of care. The fact that you want to be anonymous as a source shows that you may cause harm and anxiety without any accountability or follow-through. It is the definition of passive aggressive behavior. Take a breath and question your motivations. How well do you know this couple? Do you know if the husband would want to know (there are various opinions as to whether people want someone else to tell them their spouse is having an affair...just because you would want to know does not mean the husband would...and moreover, even if someone would want to know, hearing it from a nameless source could be seen as unaccountable and unverifiable troublemaking (and could be used as a counterargument by a savvy cheater)). How invested are you in the outcome? Where do you fit in anything they are going through other than locational proximity? These are things caring people contemplate before blowing stuff up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote: And I want to let her husband know, simply because she is a b@tch.

She thinks she’s little miss perfect yoga mom of two athletes in Del Ray

How do I do it without her finding out that it was me ?

The bold section says "check yourself" in my eyes, OP. You write more things that make you sound jealous of the cheater than you do about caring about her husband and/or kids. Would I want to know if my spouse was cheating? Of course. Would I want the person informing me to delight in the pain of even the cheating spouse being caught? No. Check yourself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP is a bigger B$itch

+1

Why? This woman isn’t a friend or family member. Why would she think that someone who happened to buy a house near hers would keep her secrets? That’s her mistake.

Because it’s none of her business. She she could cause an acrimonious divorce that might never happen if she keeps her mouth shut. Because it’s not her business because she could damage children worse finding out like this and because he might already know and they might even have an open marriage. Maybe the affair is the only thing keeping the marriage together and maybe they would be financially devastated in a divorce which would hurt everybody. People shouldn’t have affairs but some people do and it’s none of anybody else’s business to get involved. No one really knows what goes on in a marriage behind closed doors. No one should interfere and anybody else’s family or anybody else’s business. Honestly think [b]people who get involved with other people‘s marriages[b] are worse than people who cheat.

Ha! Can’t you see the irony?!?!! APs/cheaters ARE people getting involved in somebody else’s marriage.

+1,000

[Anonymous]

my spouse and I have a sexless marriage so about a year ago we decided to have a don't ask don't tell relationship. neither one of us want a nosey neighbor butting into this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:my spouse and I have a sexless marriage so about a year ago we decided to have a don't ask don't tell relationship. neither one of us want a nosey neighbor butting into this.

How nice . This couple did not have an open marriage, nor do most.