My neighbor is having an affair

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP back to deliver.

He found out. They were seen together parked at Target by another friend that didn't know the two knew each other. That person bumped into husband at Giant and said "Hey- how does Susie know Tom? I just saw them at Target!"

Didn't realize she was outing them.

Yay!!!!!!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would tell him. He deserves to know there are 3 people in his marriage. And it puts his health at risk

I would just be factual. This is a neighbour. Why does it matter if she knows it was you. Don't tell him she is having an affair, tell him what you have seen and heard with no assumption as to what it means. He can do as he wishes with that objective information. If he knows or they have an open marriage then he will so nothing with it.

It is the affair blowing up the marriage, not the husband being made aware that he is being cheated on.

I wish somebody had told me. I’m disgusted they had unprotected sex the first time they f@cked. And didn’t even know each other IRL prior.

[Anonymous]

OP is a bigger B$itch

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hate people who cheat on their spouses (even more so when children are in the picture) ans she deserves any malice and misfortune that comes her way. I hope her husband finds out.

Me too. I hope they all suffer horribly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Email him anonymously

Lame. If you are going to tattle at least own it

DP. I told the husband. In person. But- it was my husband she was f@cking.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Mind your business OP. Take a look inside yourself, I'm sure there are things you are neglecting in your own self care and self development. I'm sure you can spend more time with your family and less time hating yourself (which is obvious that you do from your perfect yoga mom jab). Start there. Once you feel at peace and happy with who you are, if you still feel and overwhelming desire to destroy someone else's life and your own relationship with your neighbors (and not just this household), then see a therapist to process those feelings. Best wishes.

+1000 nicely and kindly said.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP back to deliver.

He found out. They were seen together parked at Target by another friend that didn't know the two knew each other. That person bumped into husband at Giant and said "Hey- how does Susie know Tom? I just saw them at Target!"

Didn't realize she was outing them.

Wow. They were at least almost 2 years into this affair since you first posted May 2019. Is he a dad in the same neighborhood? Sounds like it since your friend knew both of them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Mind your business OP. Take a look inside yourself, I'm sure there are things you are neglecting in your own self care and self development. I'm sure you can spend more time with your family and less time hating yourself (which is obvious that you do from your perfect yoga mom jab). Start there. Once you feel at peace and happy with who you are, if you still feel and overwhelming desire to destroy someone else's life and your own relationship with your neighbors (and not just this household), then see a therapist to process those feelings. Best wishes.

+1000 nicely and kindly said.

Give me a f@cking break.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do it! I know a 50-year old hag in N.Bethesda that’s been doing the same to her husband for YEARS. She thinks she’s a real do-gooder. Awful and nasty to the core, but puts in a little Miss Sunshine act and big social media presence.

This is exactly like the ow with my exh. Crazy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP back to deliver.

He found out. They were seen together parked at Target by another friend that didn't know the two knew each other. That person bumped into husband at Giant and said "Hey- how does Susie know Tom? I just saw them at Target!"

Didn't realize she was outing them.

Wow. They were at least almost 2 years into this affair since you first posted May 2019. Is he a dad in the same neighborhood? Sounds like it since your friend knew both of them.

Does anyone know the AP’s wife? Seems like she’s the only one that doesn’t know. As somebody that was the victim of a spouse’s long affair—somebody please do the right thing and le her know. How humiliating for her to be in the dark when the entire town in gossiping behind her back and her kids might find out before she does. She needs to be prepared to handle that with them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do it! I know a 50-year old hag in N.Bethesda that’s been doing the same to her husband for YEARS. She thinks she’s a real do-gooder. Awful and nasty to the core, but puts in a little Miss Sunshine act and big social media presence.

This is exactly like the ow with my exh. Crazy.

I bet it was the same woman!! She wasn’t my husband’s first affair.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP back to deliver.

He found out. They were seen together parked at Target by another friend that didn't know the two knew each other. That person bumped into husband at Giant and said "Hey- how does Susie know Tom? I just saw them at Target!"

Didn't realize she was outing them.

Wow. They were at least almost 2 years into this affair since you first posted May 2019. Is he a dad in the same neighborhood? Sounds like it since your friend knew both of them.

OP again. Apparently the affair ended about a year ago but they were spotted together recently (Thanksgiving) and the husband put together the pieces, asked her about it, and she confessed. Now they don't know what they are doing. I feel so bad for the husband. His own wife humiliated him and Del Ray is a small community. It would have been better if she'd cheated with a coworker

[Anonymous]

Nothing.

That’s what I would do.

You don’t know the whole story, OP. Don’t meddle.

[Anonymous]

OP you should have given the DH a sympathy F.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP back to deliver.

He found out. They were seen together parked at Target by another friend that didn't know the two knew each other. That person bumped into husband at Giant and said "Hey- how does Susie know Tom? I just saw them at Target!"

Didn't realize she was outing them.

Wow. They were at least almost 2 years into this affair since you first posted May 2019. Is he a dad in the same neighborhood? Sounds like it since your friend knew both of them.

OP again. Apparently the affair ended about a year ago but they were spotted together recently (Thanksgiving) and the husband put together the pieces, asked her about it, and she confessed. Now they don't know what they are doing. I feel so bad for the husband. His own wife humiliated him and Del Ray is a small community. It would have been better if she'd cheated with a coworker

What about the other man’s wife?!! Poor woman. Does she know yet? Do they live there too?