How do you feel about cleaning your S/O’s toilet mess?

[Anonymous]

I love my magic cleaning fairy. My Mom.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are any of you people who are so grossed out by poop in the toilet the same people who said it’s totally fine to have poop in the kitchen sink in the parenting discussion?

WTF that's disgusting. Link?

Baby poop is NOT adult poop. So much less offensive. Humans aren't as grossed out at their baby's excreta as they are by their spouses.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are any of you people who are so grossed out by poop in the toilet the same people who said it’s totally fine to have poop in the kitchen sink in the parenting discussion?

WTF that's disgusting. Link?

Baby poop is NOT adult poop. So much less offensive. Humans aren't as grossed out at their baby's excreta as they are by their spouses.

If I’m eating at your house my disgust is equal

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are any of you people who are so grossed out by poop in the toilet the same people who said it’s totally fine to have poop in the kitchen sink in the parenting discussion?

WTF that's disgusting. Link?

Baby poop is NOT adult poop. So much less offensive. Humans aren't as grossed out at their baby's excreta as they are by their spouses.

If I’m eating at your house my disgust is equal

How do you survive in the world? The sink thread postulates that one time poop got in the kitchen sink. Do you really walk around the world thinking no one has puked/bled on/spit/sneezed on/peed on/pooped on anything you encounter? Because omg you are wrong. And you touch those things too. But you know what? They've probably been cleaned up so its FINE.

I have a potty training toddler in my house. There has been poop and pee in a sh#$ ton of places in my house recently. It is immediately cleaned up with a germ killing product and properly disposed of. I can't just set my house on fire so bleach will do. I mean do I want you to be waxing on about that time your toddler had diarrhea on the counter where you're chopping fruit? No I do not. But if, after a few drinks and dinner had been consumed, we were trading parent horror stories and you were like, 'omg this one time Larla was standing on the counter getting ready for a bath in the sink when poop just EXPLODED EVERYWHERE it was horrible, I almost puked and we had to bleach the entire kitchen 4 times and throw away grandma's cookie jar because it was a lost cause!' I would join you in laughter and trade you the one where my baby puked his entire stomach up onto me while I was holding him in bed in formal wear about to leave for a party!

Because we can CLEAN THINGS UP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are any of you people who are so grossed out by poop in the toilet the same people who said it’s totally fine to have poop in the kitchen sink in the parenting discussion?

WTF that's disgusting. Link?

Baby poop is NOT adult poop. So much less offensive. Humans aren't as grossed out at their baby's excreta as they are by their spouses.

If I’m eating at your house my disgust is equal

How do you survive in the world? The sink thread postulates that one time poop got in the kitchen sink. Do you really walk around the world thinking no one has puked/bled on/spit/sneezed on/peed on/pooped on anything you encounter? Because omg you are wrong. And you touch those things too. But you know what? They've probably been cleaned up so its FINE.

I have a potty training toddler in my house. There has been poop and pee in a sh#$ ton of places in my house recently. It is immediately cleaned up with a germ killing product and properly disposed of. I can't just set my house on fire so bleach will do. I mean do I want you to be waxing on about that time your toddler had diarrhea on the counter where you're chopping fruit? No I do not. But if, after a few drinks and dinner had been consumed, we were trading parent horror stories and you were like, 'omg this one time Larla was standing on the counter getting ready for a bath in the sink when poop just EXPLODED EVERYWHERE it was horrible, I almost puked and we had to bleach the entire kitchen 4 times and throw away grandma's cookie jar because it was a lost cause!' I would join you in laughter and trade you the one where my baby puked his entire stomach up onto me while I was holding him in bed in formal wear about to leave for a party!

Because we can CLEAN THINGS UP.

Your problem here is that your normalizing completely disgusting incidents and behavior. Feces do not belong in the same preparation area/kitchen as food or anything going in your mouth.

You want to bath your kid, do it in a bathroom like normal adults.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are any of you people who are so grossed out by poop in the toilet the same people who said it’s totally fine to have poop in the kitchen sink in the parenting discussion?

WTF that's disgusting. Link?

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/738149.page

I am one of the people that said to take a chill pill on the kitchen. It was an emergency, happened one time, and a sink is cleanable. I would assume the person who put the toddler in the sink was amenable to cleaning the sink with bleach afterwards.

This situation is entirely different. It is being forced to deal with gross poopy bathrooms every day. It probably smells, is just generally squicky and its rude. I can deal with almost anything one time in an emergency, asking someone to live with poop on the daily is a different story.

My reaction in the kitchen sink thread would have been very different if the question was, 'DD has poop accidents every day and DH washes her off in the kitchen sink every day and then doesn't clean up the fecal matter he left behind'.

Exactly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are any of you people who are so grossed out by poop in the toilet the same people who said it’s totally fine to have poop in the kitchen sink in the parenting discussion?

WTF that's disgusting. Link?

Baby poop is NOT adult poop. So much less offensive. Humans aren't as grossed out at their baby's excreta as they are by their spouses.

If I’m eating at your house my disgust is equal

How do you survive in the world? The sink thread postulates that one time poop got in the kitchen sink. Do you really walk around the world thinking no one has puked/bled on/spit/sneezed on/peed on/pooped on anything you encounter? Because omg you are wrong. And you touch those things too. But you know what? They've probably been cleaned up so its FINE.

I have a potty training toddler in my house. There has been poop and pee in a sh#$ ton of places in my house recently. It is immediately cleaned up with a germ killing product and properly disposed of. I can't just set my house on fire so bleach will do. I mean do I want you to be waxing on about that time your toddler had diarrhea on the counter where you're chopping fruit? No I do not. But if, after a few drinks and dinner had been consumed, we were trading parent horror stories and you were like, 'omg this one time Larla was standing on the counter getting ready for a bath in the sink when poop just EXPLODED EVERYWHERE it was horrible, I almost puked and we had to bleach the entire kitchen 4 times and throw away grandma's cookie jar because it was a lost cause!' I would join you in laughter and trade you the one where my baby puked his entire stomach up onto me while I was holding him in bed in formal wear about to leave for a party!

Because we can CLEAN THINGS UP.

Well there's one big difference: Your husband cleans up poop, and OP's husband does not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are any of you people who are so grossed out by poop in the toilet the same people who said it’s totally fine to have poop in the kitchen sink in the parenting discussion?

WTF that's disgusting. Link?

Baby poop is NOT adult poop. So much less offensive. Humans aren't as grossed out at their baby's excreta as they are by their spouses.

If I’m eating at your house my disgust is equal

How do you survive in the world? The sink thread postulates that one time poop got in the kitchen sink. Do you really walk around the world thinking no one has puked/bled on/spit/sneezed on/peed on/pooped on anything you encounter? Because omg you are wrong. And you touch those things too. But you know what? They've probably been cleaned up so its FINE.

I have a potty training toddler in my house. There has been poop and pee in a sh#$ ton of places in my house recently. It is immediately cleaned up with a germ killing product and properly disposed of. I can't just set my house on fire so bleach will do. I mean do I want you to be waxing on about that time your toddler had diarrhea on the counter where you're chopping fruit? No I do not. But if, after a few drinks and dinner had been consumed, we were trading parent horror stories and you were like, 'omg this one time Larla was standing on the counter getting ready for a bath in the sink when poop just EXPLODED EVERYWHERE it was horrible, I almost puked and we had to bleach the entire kitchen 4 times and throw away grandma's cookie jar because it was a lost cause!' I would join you in laughter and trade you the one where my baby puked his entire stomach up onto me while I was holding him in bed in formal wear about to leave for a party!

Because we can CLEAN THINGS UP.

Your problem here is that your normalizing completely disgusting incidents and behavior. Feces do not belong in the same preparation area/kitchen as food or anything going in your mouth.

You want to bath your kid, do it in a bathroom like normal adults.

I'm not normalizing it. I very much look forward to not having a small unpredictable human leaving human waste around my house. How did you potty train? No accidents? I agree that it is less than ideal to have poop in your kitchen. I'm also not going to fly off the handle if something gross and weird and cleanable happens one time in my kitchen.