What is it about my friend that attracts men?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's the energy. I have some friends who I consider to be very unattractive and they always have a handsome successful guy. I have friends who are gorgeous who can't buy a date. It's their energy.
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Another is a very plain looking brunette. Largish nose and short. But she grew into her looks in her early twenties. She learned to take care of her skin, learn to do her hair, workout and build her body, and dress in a clean, preppy put together way. She is also super quiet, has a calm, confident collected vibe about her. She’s content and doesn’t have to try hard to impress anyone. Instead of being the talker, she is the listener and puts people at ease. She was very intensely pursued by a rich preppy high quality guy for a year before she said yes. Now they’re like the model couple.

The post above shows how *women* think "short" is a bad thing because all fashion models in magazines are tall. However, it isn't, when men are concerned.

[Anonymous]

OP here. Her eyes are brown.

A ha, it's her brown eye. Case closed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:NP here. I understand. I have a friend who describes herself as the “ ugly duckling”. She’s not the hottest, but most men describe her as “ cute girl next door”. She is 28 and still looks early 20’s, nice blue eyes ( but small), and a cute smile. She has an incredible petite body at 5’1. I think men stare Nabataeans she’s so tiny with c cup boobs, a flat stomach, and a nice big butt. I’m of equal attractiveness, but without the body. I don’t get nearly as much attention.

Totally off topic, but I'm always interested in the very specific autocorrects you sometimes see on these boards, and what it says about the population of people who post here.i had to Google Nabataens -- are you a scholar of ancient civilizations or something?

* because not Nabateans.

[Anonymous]

The post above shows how *women* think "short" is a bad thing because all fashion models in magazines are tall. However, it isn't, when men are concerned.

Height is pretty irrelevant, though tall is good. Intelligence: not a factor too much in this town.
Cute, fun, and shows up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:NP here. I understand. I have a friend who describes herself as the “ ugly duckling”. She’s not the hottest, but most men describe her as “ cute girl next door”. She is 28 and still looks early 20’s, nice blue eyes ( but small), and a cute smile. She has an incredible petite body at 5’1. I think men stare Nabataeans she’s so tiny with c cup boobs, a flat stomach, and a nice big butt. I’m of equal attractiveness, but without the body. I don’t get nearly as much attention.

Totally off topic, but I'm always interested in the very specific autocorrects you sometimes see on these boards, and what it says about the population of people who post here.i had to Google Nabataens -- are you a scholar of ancient civilizations or something?

* because not Nabateans.

I had no idea how much men are mesmerized by the Nabateans.

Who knew?

[Anonymous]

Haters gonna hate!

[Anonymous]

I'm sure many men have plain vanilla men friends who date/merry hotties too

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, men love petite women, and if she has a fit but curvy figure that is enough to make her "super hot" to them. They don't care how much money she makes, or her personality (in the short term) they only care about a very small woman who looks young and has a "hot" figure.

Believe me, I've had friends like this as well. I'm over 5'9", with a small bust and great hair, and at the time was fit. I was almost like I was invisible when I was with them.

THIS! It's true, all sizes of men loooove petite figures.

So freaking true. Petite and cute is not threatening, and most men want that. I was screwed whenever I'd go out with my super petite, cute friends--I'm 5'8 and built like a swimmer.

Not when "petite" just means "short." Love around 5'6, slender, small frame over short and round any day. Under 5'4 or so is usually not attractive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

The post above shows how *women* think "short" is a bad thing because all fashion models in magazines are tall. However, it isn't, when men are concerned.

Height is pretty irrelevant, though tall is good. Intelligence: not a factor too much in this town.
Cute, fun, and shows up.

x10000

[Anonymous]

She has good (shiny, medium length+, bouncy) hair, good skin, attractive walk, and is well proportioned with a genuine smile. She also has mannerisms that are attractive—eg, hair toss, open body language. Her clothing doesn’t distract from her face or body.

[Anonymous]

If men are constantly checking her out, it could be that she has a very nice figure.

Many men have told me that overall, body trumps face when it comes to overall feminine beauty.

They have said that if a woman has an average-looking face, but a banging body then she is hot in their eyes.

By the way, there is nothing wrong w/being a Nanny.
Nannies can still attract men just as a corporate attorney can.
Men are just visual creatures.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, men love petite women, and if she has a fit but curvy figure that is enough to make her "super hot" to them. They don't care how much money she makes, or her personality (in the short term) they only care about a very small woman who looks young and has a "hot" figure.

Believe me, I've had friends like this as well. I'm over 5'9", with a small bust and great hair, and at the time was fit. I was almost like I was invisible when I was with them.

THIS! It's true, all sizes of men loooove petite figures.

So freaking true. Petite and cute is not threatening, and most men want that. I was screwed whenever I'd go out with my super petite, cute friends--I'm 5'8 and built like a swimmer.

Not when "petite" just means "short." Love around 5'6, slender, small frame over short and round any day. Under 5'4 or so is usually not attractive.

But Kim Kardashian is only 5’2.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

The post above shows how *women* think "short" is a bad thing because all fashion models in magazines are tall. However, it isn't, when men are concerned.

Height is pretty irrelevant, though tall is good. Intelligence: not a factor too much in this town.
Cute, fun, and shows up.

x10000

Whattt??? Not in my experience. Plus, you assume a nanny isn't intelligent, which is ridiculous.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

The post above shows how *women* think "short" is a bad thing because all fashion models in magazines are tall. However, it isn't, when men are concerned.

Height is pretty irrelevant, though tall is good. Intelligence: not a factor too much in this town.
Cute, fun, and shows up.

x10000

Whattt??? Not in my experience. Plus, you assume a nanny isn't intelligent, which is ridiculous.

In this area, most women are relatively educated and informed. Finding a woman intelligent enough is not an issue.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If men are constantly checking her out, it could be that she has a very nice figure.

Many men have told me that overall, body trumps face when it comes to overall feminine beauty.

They have said that if a woman has an average-looking face, but a banging body then she is hot in their eyes.

By the way, there is nothing wrong w/being a Nanny.
Nannies can still attract men just as a corporate attorney can.
Men are just visual creatures.

This. If she is petite, with a great figure, that's what matters most for initial attraction for a large number of men.