Someone created a negative site about me

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:http://www.mommyish.com/i-had-to-fire-my-nanny-after-finding-out-about-her-trouble-with-the-law-996/

This is not it. OP said there were text message screen shots

[Anonymous]

I bet OP regrets ever posting this on DCUM. she should have known better....there are some serious sleuths on here, no way she's getting out "anonymously"!

[Anonymous]

I am not sure it’s that easy to find. Sorry about the situation you are in OP. I hope you have truly changed. I hope you have apologized to this person sincerely. I am not sure that would do any good as far as the blog post goes but I think she deserves it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:http://www.mommyish.com/i-had-to-fire-my-nanny-after-finding-out-about-her-trouble-with-the-law-996/

This is not it. OP said there were text message screen shots

It could be referring to the same person. At the it says she googled her name and found another website with damaging info.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:http://www.mommyish.com/i-had-to-fire-my-nanny-after-finding-out-about-her-trouble-with-the-law-996/

This is not it. OP said there were text message screen shots

It could be referring to the same person. At the it says she googled her name and found another website with damaging info.

That story is crazy. I can't even get over her dirtiness - even if she were the best chef/nanny in the world. I'm not the neatest, but do people really live like that?

[Anonymous]

Question for OP...(since I haven't seen a a response than "when I was younger...)

How long ago were the issues and firing?

If it wast 6 months ago, that's one thing...but, if it was 6 years (or 10 years) then that is a whole different set of conditions.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You did something terrible that involved her kids. You deserve to be blasted for it. You sound nuts, especially if a few years have already passed.

You sound like a moron with poor reading comprehension skills.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Question for OP...(since I haven't seen a a response than "when I was younger...)

How long ago were the issues and firing?

If it wast 6 months ago, that's one thing...but, if it was 6 years (or 10 years) then that is a whole different set of conditions.

Are you ever coming back OP. There are a ton of questions here. And the fact you aren't even coming back says a lot of about you. It's hard to sympathsize and help if you can't even post back.

The guess is you were a nanny who totally broke everyone's trust and really sucked big time. The mom made sure no other family goes through what you put them through by posting about you - on a stand alone website OR did the mom just vent about you on, for example, her blog or on her moms' group message board, or something like Nextdoor or FB?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I seriously wonder if I know you, OP.

I know someone who got a nanny job when she was 21 by lying about her experience. She faked her resume and had her friends vouch as fake references. All she saw was the $$$ in the ad for the nanny job and did whatever she had to in order to land the job.

Then she did things like lose one of the kids and bribe them with junk food to keep quiet. Forget to pick them up at the correct time. Work while stoned, including driving them around. She’d tell the mom the dry cleaner lost pieces of clothing and then sell them on eBay. She also stole other items from them and sold them on eBay. She finally got caught when she was in an accident with the kids in the car while stoned. The police called the parents and it came out that her license was actually suspended.

I know the mom blasted her all over social media. This mom posted in every mommy group FB page and every list serv for the surrounding areas. Never made her own website that I know of, though.

This person has a unique name, so if you Google her, the on-blast posts come up first. This person eventually got herself together and work in a corporate environment now but b*tches from time to time that the negative old stuff holds her back in getting better jobs and dating.

Whoa.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:http://www.mommyish.com/i-had-to-fire-my-nanny-after-finding-out-about-her-trouble-with-the-law-996/

The nanny in this link above sounds like a hoarder.

[Anonymous]

Create websites with your name on it. Link them to other sites so that they get priority during a search. There are companies that do this for you. You can start with a public twitter account.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would see if one of those "reputation defender" websites could help you. Maybe get results down to page 2 on Google. A more drastic measure might be to start using a nickname, or your middle name. Something to break the association.

These sites are jokes and absolutely don't work

[Anonymous]

Did op say whether she is interested in continuing to work with children?

[Anonymous]

I hesitate to even post this because I'm troubled by what you've already shared, OP, but how is it that after a few years this is still the top hit for your name? Do you have no other internet presence, because if not, that seems like an obvious first step.

My name is also very distinctive (google search turns up literally no one else with my name), and a couple of years ago my name was included in a local news/gossip blog post, nothing embarrassing but I was irritated that the thing was considered "news" at all and put out on a blog. You can still find it if you keep reading down my search results, but it's buried below all of my social media pages (FB, linkedin, twitter), a couple of those background/public record sites, and some 5Ks I've run, even though the blog post got lots of views at the time. The blog post you mentioned aside, as a propsective employer I would consider it a red flag if someone your age had absolutely no internet presence because it seems like you may be trying to hide something.

[Anonymous]

Were you a childcare provider who abused or put her kids in jeopardy?

I would not imagine going this ballistic about anything but danger to my family.