Are curves...”low class”?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It seems that we live in a society where thinness is associated with wealth and status and being curvy is a sign of lower class masses.




Here are two white wealthy women. Does one look higher class side to body type?

You sound a tad crazy.

Fat too?

The second one is much more attractive to men.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It’s not classy in any way to sleep with a married man- so I guess you have your answer as to class and body type. You’re saying that thin and white gets privileges and money and security but curvy gets sloppy seconds with a married father.

Assistant PP here. I used to think the wives had it made until I had a front row seat to a nasty divorce one too many times. A lot of these wives live insecure lives because the money comes and goes with the man's favor. When I first started, it was unheard of for men to get custody, so the wives at least got child support. Now, men are fighting for custody of children they barely see and I can discern no reason beyond sticking it to the ex-wife. At least mistresses get lucrative gifts with no strings or children attached.

All of this is to say that whether mistress or wife, the women in rich, white men's lives are in precarious positions and I don't envy any of them. I don't see much that is classy about putting up with an asshole because your lifestyle will end if you don't.

I take it you think women in rich brown or black men's lives are stable and secure?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I say this as a curvy woman (big boobs/ass, small waist, size 4/6, not fat):

Yes, absolutely. Everything else (clothes, clothing size, weight) equal, a woman with a slim/athletic/boyish build is going to look "higher status" than the same woman with big hips and big breasts. A more athletic body type fits a certain WASPy aesthetic. Curves don't work with that look. Look around: how many curvy women do you see living in the biggest houses, driving the best cars, married to the highest earning men?

Those men's loss.

Perhaps. Or maybe they're attracted to that type of woman.

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They marry the bony type to fulfill the image and cheat with curvy women.

This. I have been an assistant in financial services and legal services firms for 30 years. These offices are full of wealthy white men and, almost without exception, these men all have bone-thin, white wives. All the mistresses and flings are curvaceous, sexy, and often of color. The skinny wife is as much for image as the big house is. And she is viewed as a possession, not a valued human being, which is why these men cheat so flagrantly and use every excuse to avoid their wives, while spending a lot of time with their other women.

I call BS on this. This is something a lot of bigger women WANT to believe is true, but it isn’t.

[Anonymous]

Butt reduction and breast reduction surgery are the most desired surgeries. I would strongly urge people to do that.

[Anonymous]

Healthy and confident are very in. Stop being fake.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I say this as a curvy woman (big boobs/ass, small waist, size 4/6, not fat):

Yes, absolutely. Everything else (clothes, clothing size, weight) equal, a woman with a slim/athletic/boyish build is going to look "higher status" than the same woman with big hips and big breasts. A more athletic body type fits a certain WASPy aesthetic. Curves don't work with that look. Look around: how many curvy women do you see living in the biggest houses, driving the best cars, married to the highest earning men?

Those men's loss.

Perhaps. Or maybe they're attracted to that type of woman.

-1

They marry the bony type to fulfill the image and cheat with curvy women.

This. I have been an assistant in financial services and legal services firms for 30 years. These offices are full of wealthy white men and, almost without exception, these men all have bone-thin, white wives. All the mistresses and flings are curvaceous, sexy, and often of color. The skinny wife is as much for image as the big house is. And she is viewed as a possession, not a valued human being, which is why these men cheat so flagrantly and use every excuse to avoid their wives, while spending a lot of time with their other women.

I call BS on this. This is something a lot of bigger women WANT to believe is true, but it isn’t.

Yeah, its up there with "but she has a pretty face".


Frankly, men are men, and a man who would view a white woman as a "possession" yet marries her and provide her with that big house........would be the very same man who looks at his mistress like a "possession" and she only gets some PIV, not the house or legal protection or anything else? I know which route I'm going. I'd rather be a possession (obviously something valued and worth possessing) than a side piece to a man who would treat his wife that way.

Don't forget, you think you know all this about white marriages or white men, but all you are saying is that curvy women aren't worth marrying, they will hang around and accept the seconds that their looks bring them.

Now, I don't believe any of that, I'm just summing up for you.

[Anonymous]

C size the best. big enough for men to be attracted and small enough that most clothes (assuming the rest of the body is slender; there is a small waist etc) will look good.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:C size the best. big enough for men to be attracted and small enough that most clothes (assuming the rest of the body is slender; there is a small waist etc) will look good.

Off topic, but I’m a bit surprised that so many of you believe cup size = breast size. Cup size represents how much bigger they are than the rib cage (the band). I wear a 34D, and do not have particularly large breasts. I suspect many of you are wearing the wrong sized bra.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s not classy in any way to sleep with a married man- so I guess you have your answer as to class and body type. You’re saying that thin and white gets privileges and money and security but curvy gets sloppy seconds with a married father.

Assistant PP here. I used to think the wives had it made until I had a front row seat to a nasty divorce one too many times. A lot of these wives live insecure lives because the money comes and goes with the man's favor. When I first started, it was unheard of for men to get custody, so the wives at least got child support. Now, men are fighting for custody of children they barely see and I can discern no reason beyond sticking it to the ex-wife. At least mistresses get lucrative gifts with no strings or children attached.

All of this is to say that whether mistress or wife, the women in rich, white men's lives are in precarious positions and I don't envy any of them. I don't see much that is classy about putting up with an asshole because your lifestyle will end if you don't.

I take it you think women in rich brown or black men's lives are stable and secure?

Assistant PP here. Please point out where I wrote that.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I say this as a curvy woman (big boobs/ass, small waist, size 4/6, not fat):

Yes, absolutely. Everything else (clothes, clothing size, weight) equal, a woman with a slim/athletic/boyish build is going to look "higher status" than the same woman with big hips and big breasts. A more athletic body type fits a certain WASPy aesthetic. Curves don't work with that look. Look around: how many curvy women do you see living in the biggest houses, driving the best cars, married to the highest earning men?

Those men's loss.

Perhaps. Or maybe they're attracted to that type of woman.

-1

They marry the bony type to fulfill the image and cheat with curvy women.

This. I have been an assistant in financial services and legal services firms for 30 years. These offices are full of wealthy white men and, almost without exception, these men all have bone-thin, white wives. All the mistresses and flings are curvaceous, sexy, and often of color. The skinny wife is as much for image as the big house is. And she is viewed as a possession, not a valued human being, which is why these men cheat so flagrantly and use every excuse to avoid their wives, while spending a lot of time with their other women.

I call BS on this. This is something a lot of bigger women WANT to believe is true, but it isn’t.

Yeah, its up there with "but she has a pretty face".


Frankly, men are men, and a man who would view a white woman as a "possession" yet marries her and provide her with that big house........would be the very same man who looks at his mistress like a "possession" and she only gets some PIV, not the house or legal protection or anything else? I know which route I'm going. I'd rather be a possession (obviously something valued and worth possessing) than a side piece to a man who would treat his wife that way.

Don't forget, you think you know all this about white marriages or white men, but all you are saying is that curvy women aren't worth marrying, they will hang around and accept the seconds that their looks bring them.

Now, I don't believe any of that, I'm just summing up for you.

Reading is very hard on you, isn't it? None of your conclusions follow from PP's post.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:All of this is subjective. I am black and curvy. Nothing short of an eating disorder is getting rid of this ass and these ta-tas. I just roll with it and try to avoid rolls.

I have a couple of black women friends who are naturally very thin and they complained that black men weren't especially interested in them they got more attention from white men so that's who they dated and married.

I have also seen the phenom above where the rich guy is married to the thin white woman but cheating with curvy/shapely women. Not sure if the wife is a trophy and the other women are what he is attracted to OR more open to being side chicks, but for sure he is a cheating piece of trash.

Interesting perspective! Love it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I say this as a curvy woman (big boobs/ass, small waist, size 4/6, not fat):

Yes, absolutely. Everything else (clothes, clothing size, weight) equal, a woman with a slim/athletic/boyish build is going to look "higher status" than the same woman with big hips and big breasts. A more athletic body type fits a certain WASPy aesthetic. Curves don't work with that look. Look around: how many curvy women do you see living in the biggest houses, driving the best cars, married to the highest earning men?

Those men's loss.

Perhaps. Or maybe they're attracted to that type of woman.

-1

They marry the bony type to fulfill the image and cheat with curvy women.

This. I have been an assistant in financial services and legal services firms for 30 years. These offices are full of wealthy white men and, almost without exception, these men all have bone-thin, white wives. All the mistresses and flings are curvaceous, sexy, and often of color. The skinny wife is as much for image as the big house is. And she is viewed as a possession, not a valued human being, which is why these men cheat so flagrantly and use every excuse to avoid their wives, while spending a lot of time with their other women.

Rich men have thin wives not because they want a woman with a boy body but because the women are expected to look that way in their circle. The men wouldn't care if their wives gained a few pounds and would actually prefer it.

It's a no brained that their affair partners tend to be curvy. Men like curves. Women don't like curves on each other.

It's because the curvy women are easier. Most thin beautiful women prefer to be married and have legal protection. Not to be in a secret relationship and second fiddle to a wife.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I say this as a curvy woman (big boobs/ass, small waist, size 4/6, not fat):

Yes, absolutely. Everything else (clothes, clothing size, weight) equal, a woman with a slim/athletic/boyish build is going to look "higher status" than the same woman with big hips and big breasts. A more athletic body type fits a certain WASPy aesthetic. Curves don't work with that look. Look around: how many curvy women do you see living in the biggest houses, driving the best cars, married to the highest earning men?

Those men's loss.

Perhaps. Or maybe they're attracted to that type of woman.

-1

They marry the bony type to fulfill the image and cheat with curvy women.

This. I have been an assistant in financial services and legal services firms for 30 years. These offices are full of wealthy white men and, almost without exception, these men all have bone-thin, white wives. All the mistresses and flings are curvaceous, sexy, and often of color. The skinny wife is as much for image as the big house is. And she is viewed as a possession, not a valued human being, which is why these men cheat so flagrantly and use every excuse to avoid their wives, while spending a lot of time with their other women.

Rich men have thin wives not because they want a woman with a boy body but because the women are expected to look that way in their circle. The men wouldn't care if their wives gained a few pounds and would actually prefer it.

It's a no brained that their affair partners tend to be curvy. Men like curves. Women don't like curves on each other.

It's because the curvy women are easier. Most thin beautiful women prefer to be married and have legal protection. Not to be in a secret relationship and second fiddle to a wife.

Holy sh**.

Curvy women are easier. Wow.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Butt reduction and breast reduction surgery are the most desired surgeries. I would strongly urge people to do that.

This is the biggest crock of shit I’ve ever heard. Butt reduction? No.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s not classy in any way to sleep with a married man- so I guess you have your answer as to class and body type. You’re saying that thin and white gets privileges and money and security but curvy gets sloppy seconds with a married father.

Mic drop!

Someone needs to do a tutorial on how to use this term properly. That inane comment was NOT a mic drop moment. Jesus.

A mic drop signifies a statement so definitive, there is no follow up that can top it. Mic drop statement: It's not classy in any way to sleep with a married man.