Best revenge you ever got on someone?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Revenge served hot:

1. I aired all our dirty laundry to one of the executive admins at his job knowing she would spread anything I told her.

Revenge served warm:

2. Told him I wanted to work things out and got him into marriage counseling and just when he thought things were settled down I served him papers while he was at lunch with clients. Awkward!

Revenge served cold:

3. Years after the divorce I found out he was getting remarried so I sued for a custodial modification by serving him on the morning of the wedding and also asking for more child support.
4. I also saved up all the medical bills for months and had a few thousand dollars of reimbursement receipts delivered to him the day they returned from their honeymoon.
5. A month into the case I dropped my attorney and started calling his attorney every day to discuss various things because I knew his lawyer was charging $500 per hour. I did that for several months until just before the hearing and I dropped the case. It cost him around 20 grand. I know this caused a lot of problems for him during their first year of marriage. It also made the kids upset with him because he didn't have money for their Christmas and birthdays.
6. Occasionally I'll agree to extended summer vacations for the kids and then play "hard to get" concerning the pickup and drop off dates. This really pisses him off when he needs to buy airline tickets because he can't really make reservations for anything until that gets worked out. He likes to make reservations in advance.

It sounds like he got rid of you for a good reason.

[Anonymous]

The best revenge I have had is living a happy life in spite of what people have done to me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Looked amazing when his new GF had put on a LOT of weight.

Aww... He didn't dump you cause you were fat, hon

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:And please don't say "living my best life." YES I know that is the best, but its not applicable to me right now. Tell me the worst sh*t you did to an ex. Whether it was immediately after a break up or years later. And if not you, someone you knew who did it.

Best revenge on crazy "progressives" -- seeing Trump elected.

Enjoy your taxes going up for your so called revenge!

I'll pay to hear you whimper

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote: Before the birth of our second child I knew I planned to divorce her so after the birth I convinced her to get her tubes tied. She won’t be giving another man children.

For real? This may be this most awful thing I have ever heard of. I can't believe everyone seems to be focusing instead on how it wouldn't even work.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:And please don't say "living my best life." YES I know that is the best, but its not applicable to me right now. Tell me the worst sh*t you did to an ex. Whether it was immediately after a break up or years later. And if not you, someone you knew who did it.

Best revenge on crazy "progressives" -- seeing Trump elected.

Enjoy your taxes going up for your so called revenge!

I'll pay to hear you whimper

You wanted to irritate liberals so much that you put a man baby in charge of the nuclear codes when there is a despot in North Korea developing intercontinental ballistic missiles? Uh ok that makes sense.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote: Before the birth of our second child I knew I planned to divorce her so after the birth I convinced her to get her tubes tied. She won’t be giving another man children.

For real? This may be this most awful thing I have ever heard of. I can't believe everyone seems to be focusing instead on how it wouldn't even work.

Damn. That's Game of Thrones tier cold-blooded.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Best revenge I ever got was actually my ex’s revenge that backfired on her.

We divorced and we shared custody. She would bad mouth me to the kids. Flake out on drop-offs. She tried to do things to sabotage my relationships with my kids – telling me that event/game times had changed. Hauled me into court at every turn. Very similar to what PP did. It is irrelevant here but, on the advice of my lawyer, I saved and documented EVERYTHING and formalized every communication. Kids got older and openly questioned why the math was not adding up – things she was saying about me were not the same things they saw. Still, I never said a bad word about her to them. Just did the best I could. Final straw was she lost her mind when my oldest DD (who was a teen) accused her of manipulating her relationship with me. They had a big blow up and, although they have made peace, their relationship has been changed forever. She now sees her mom differently. They all do.

Moral of the story: Move on and try to find happiness. Revenge is not all is cracked up to be and can bite you in the behind if you are not careful.

I don't understand how this plays out in practice. When the kids are older do you just pull out a binder full of e-mails and texts and let them read through them? I'm not in this situation so I can't relate to how kids think but it just seems like it would be weird having them read historical information and connecting all the dots. Like, her telling you that the time of an event changed so you missed it. Just seems like an older kid wouldn't remember that specific event and what time it was or whatever.

I am not the PP but I will be doing the same thing. I have about 1,000 pages of journals, financial spread sheets, and other significant written evidence. I also have recordings. I saved everything, and made copies for the executor of my estate. (My lawyer loved me, and she loved reading exDW's nasty emails to me in court)

When they are adults, I'll tell the children "As a one time event, you can see the material I have, and ask me any questions you like. I'll try to explain to you why the divorce happened, and show you mother's behavior before and after the divorce." And after that I'll shut my mouth, just as I have for the last 10 years about their mother's behavior toward me.

A friend did just that when his kids became adults over 10 years ago, and it really helped him have a close relationship to them as adults.

[Anonymous]

Awful idea. Your kids don't want to hear negative crap about their mother. Take the high road.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Awful idea. Your kids don't want to hear negative crap about their mother. Take the high road.

I've been taking the high road. But if they want the truth one day, I'll have it for them along with reams of documentation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:And please don't say "living my best life." YES I know that is the best, but its not applicable to me right now. Tell me the worst sh*t you did to an ex. Whether it was immediately after a break up or years later. And if not you, someone you knew who did it.

Best revenge on crazy "progressives" -- seeing Trump elected.

Enjoy your taxes going up for your so called revenge!

Mine won't be going up, they'll be going down. I'm a member of the forgotten lower middle class and I can't wait.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Revenge served hot:

1. I aired all our dirty laundry to one of the executive admins at his job knowing she would spread anything I told her.

Revenge served warm:

2. Told him I wanted to work things out and got him into marriage counseling and just when he thought things were settled down I served him papers while he was at lunch with clients. Awkward!

Revenge served cold:

3. Years after the divorce I found out he was getting remarried so I sued for a custodial modification by serving him on the morning of the wedding and also asking for more child support.
4. I also saved up all the medical bills for months and had a few thousand dollars of reimbursement receipts delivered to him the day they returned from their honeymoon.
5. A month into the case I dropped my attorney and started calling his attorney every day to discuss various things because I knew his lawyer was charging $500 per hour. I did that for several months until just before the hearing and I dropped the case. It cost him around 20 grand. I know this caused a lot of problems for him during their first year of marriage. It also made the kids upset with him because he didn't have money for their Christmas and birthdays.
6. Occasionally I'll agree to extended summer vacations for the kids and then play "hard to get" concerning the pickup and drop off dates. This really pisses him off when he needs to buy airline tickets because he can't really make reservations for anything until that gets worked out. He likes to make reservations in advance.

You are going to hell, if one exists. You are a miserable person and a bad human being. Luckily for him, karma is a real thing and you have some bad shit lurking. Might want to get screened for cancer.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Revenge served hot:

1. I aired all our dirty laundry to one of the executive admins at his job knowing she would spread anything I told her.

Revenge served warm:

2. Told him I wanted to work things out and got him into marriage counseling and just when he thought things were settled down I served him papers while he was at lunch with clients. Awkward!

Revenge served cold:

3. Years after the divorce I found out he was getting remarried so I sued for a custodial modification by serving him on the morning of the wedding and also asking for more child support.
4. I also saved up all the medical bills for months and had a few thousand dollars of reimbursement receipts delivered to him the day they returned from their honeymoon.
5. A month into the case I dropped my attorney and started calling his attorney every day to discuss various things because I knew his lawyer was charging $500 per hour. I did that for several months until just before the hearing and I dropped the case. It cost him around 20 grand. I know this caused a lot of problems for him during their first year of marriage. It also made the kids upset with him because he didn't have money for their Christmas and birthdays.
6. Occasionally I'll agree to extended summer vacations for the kids and then play "hard to get" concerning the pickup and drop off dates. This really pisses him off when he needs to buy airline tickets because he can't really make reservations for anything until that gets worked out. He likes to make reservations in advance.

And every single day this guy smiles at night because he gets to sleep with the love of his life while his bitter ex wastes her life away in a stew of anger. Congrats!

I agree that PP's revenge is over the top. However, what is with people on here assuming every remarriage is with "the love of his/her life." Like this is the same man that married his psycho ex. Is he suddenly a great judge of character? Don't most second marriages have almost a 70% divorce rate?

The first divorce is the "practice divorce". What you learn doing it makes the second divorce go much better.

But as far as picking women, mine was sane and decent when she was in her 20s. She got worse after marriage, and much, much worse in her 40s. People, their brains, and their characters do change during life. Mental illness might not be detectable at 25 but is raging at 45.

I have learned as an older man dating older women, that I can tell really quickly if a woman is "difficult" or just plain nuts. And "difficult" or "nuts" describes about 90 percent of the divorced women. The other 10 percent are fantastic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This was pretty childish but when I was younger I signed up an ex's .edu account for every porn and spam website I could find.

Childish but funny.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Revenge served hot:

1. I aired all our dirty laundry to one of the executive admins at his job knowing she would spread anything I told her.

Revenge served warm:

2. Told him I wanted to work things out and got him into marriage counseling and just when he thought things were settled down I served him papers while he was at lunch with clients. Awkward!

Revenge served cold:

3. Years after the divorce I found out he was getting remarried so I sued for a custodial modification by serving him on the morning of the wedding and also asking for more child support.
4. I also saved up all the medical bills for months and had a few thousand dollars of reimbursement receipts delivered to him the day they returned from their honeymoon.
5. A month into the case I dropped my attorney and started calling his attorney every day to discuss various things because I knew his lawyer was charging $500 per hour. I did that for several months until just before the hearing and I dropped the case. It cost him around 20 grand. I know this caused a lot of problems for him during their first year of marriage. It also made the kids upset with him because he didn't have money for their Christmas and birthdays.
6. Occasionally I'll agree to extended summer vacations for the kids and then play "hard to get" concerning the pickup and drop off dates. This really pisses him off when he needs to buy airline tickets because he can't really make reservations for anything until that gets worked out. He likes to make reservations in advance.

It sounds like he got rid of you for a good reason.

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