Best revenge you ever got on someone?

[Anonymous]

For the PP who pulled all the stupid crap listed (e.g., making sure her XH had trouble buying Christmas gifts for her kids): Every time you tried to hurt him you sent the message of just how hung up on him you still are.

Everyone but you can see it. Including your kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:For the PP who pulled all the stupid crap listed (e.g., making sure her XH had trouble buying Christmas gifts for her kids): Every time you tried to hurt him you sent the message of just how hung up on him you still are.

Everyone but you can see it. Including your kids.

+1
Now OP do you get why it's better to be above it all?
Now go in peace.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Revenge served hot:

1. I aired all our dirty laundry to one of the executive admins at his job knowing she would spread anything I told her.

Revenge served warm:

2. Told him I wanted to work things out and got him into marriage counseling and just when he thought things were settled down I served him papers while he was at lunch with clients. Awkward!

Revenge served cold:

3. Years after the divorce I found out he was getting remarried so I sued for a custodial modification by serving him on the morning of the wedding and also asking for more child support.
4. I also saved up all the medical bills for months and had a few thousand dollars of reimbursement receipts delivered to him the day they returned from their honeymoon.
5. A month into the case I dropped my attorney and started calling his attorney every day to discuss various things because I knew his lawyer was charging $500 per hour. I did that for several months until just before the hearing and I dropped the case. It cost him around 20 grand. I know this caused a lot of problems for him during their first year of marriage. It also made the kids upset with him because he didn't have money for their Christmas and birthdays.
6. Occasionally I'll agree to extended summer vacations for the kids and then play "hard to get" concerning the pickup and drop off dates. This really pisses him off when he needs to buy airline tickets because he can't really make reservations for anything until that gets worked out. He likes to make reservations in advance.

And every single day this guy smiles at night because he gets to sleep with the love of his life while his bitter ex wastes her life away in a stew of anger. Congrats!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I killed the Six-fingered man to avenge my father’s death.

Welcome to DCUM, Inigo Montoya!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:For the PP who pulled all the stupid crap listed (e.g., making sure her XH had trouble buying Christmas gifts for her kids): Every time you tried to hurt him you sent the message of just how hung up on him you still are.

Everyone but you can see it. Including your kids.

you don't know what you are talking about. I have a great relationship with my kids. They prefer me over their father. They wouldn't do that if he was a good guy. He deserves what he gets and don't try to shame me for sticking up for myself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Revenge served hot:

1. I aired all our dirty laundry to one of the executive admins at his job knowing she would spread anything I told her.

Revenge served warm:

2. Told him I wanted to work things out and got him into marriage counseling and just when he thought things were settled down I served him papers while he was at lunch with clients. Awkward!

Revenge served cold:

3. Years after the divorce I found out he was getting remarried so I sued for a custodial modification by serving him on the morning of the wedding and also asking for more child support.
4. I also saved up all the medical bills for months and had a few thousand dollars of reimbursement receipts delivered to him the day they returned from their honeymoon.
5. A month into the case I dropped my attorney and started calling his attorney every day to discuss various things because I knew his lawyer was charging $500 per hour. I did that for several months until just before the hearing and I dropped the case. It cost him around 20 grand. I know this caused a lot of problems for him during their first year of marriage. It also made the kids upset with him because he didn't have money for their Christmas and birthdays.
6. Occasionally I'll agree to extended summer vacations for the kids and then play "hard to get" concerning the pickup and drop off dates. This really pisses him off when he needs to buy airline tickets because he can't really make reservations for anything until that gets worked out. He likes to make reservations in advance.

And every single day this guy smiles at night because he gets to sleep with the love of his life while his bitter ex wastes her life away in a stew of anger. Congrats!

100% this. Plus, you've confirmed to everyone that you are indeed the psycho bitch he describes. And write this down - Your kids will turn against you. I've watched it happen several times. Get therapy. Your ex has moved on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For the PP who pulled all the stupid crap listed (e.g., making sure her XH had trouble buying Christmas gifts for her kids): Every time you tried to hurt him you sent the message of just how hung up on him you still are.

Everyone but you can see it. Including your kids.

you don't know what you are talking about. I have a great relationship with my kids. They prefer me over their father. They wouldn't do that if he was a good guy. He deserves what he gets and don't try to shame me for sticking up for myself.

You’re not sticking up for yourself , you are just screwing over your kids emotionally and financially.
Your relationship with this guy has been over for years but you’ve still been putting much time and effort into it?
Very useless, weird and a huge waste of time. Why don’t you do something meaningful with your life instead of just embarrassing yourself all the time?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For the PP who pulled all the stupid crap listed (e.g., making sure her XH had trouble buying Christmas gifts for her kids): Every time you tried to hurt him you sent the message of just how hung up on him you still are.

Everyone but you can see it. Including your kids.

you don't know what you are talking about. I have a great relationship with my kids. They prefer me over their father. They wouldn't do that if he was a good guy. He deserves what he gets and don't try to shame me for sticking up for myself.

Lol. You continue to embarrass yourself.

What does your new husband think of this?

Yeah. I thought so. Maybe you'll find love again when you get some help, you desperately need it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For the PP who pulled all the stupid crap listed (e.g., making sure her XH had trouble buying Christmas gifts for her kids): Every time you tried to hurt him you sent the message of just how hung up on him you still are.

Everyone but you can see it. Including your kids.

you don't know what you are talking about. I have a great relationship with my kids. They prefer me over their father. They wouldn't do that if he was a good guy. He deserves what he gets and don't try to shame me for sticking up for myself.

Ruining Christmas and birthdays for your children is not sticking up for yourself.

Serving the papers on his wedding and honeymoon just shows him that you’re still obsessed with him. It’s not about requesting the modifications, but the timing shows you’re not over him.

I feel bad for your kids.

[Anonymous]

When I left him, I made sure to tell some neighborhood moms she was his mistress. We all live in the same neighborhood and our kids will go to the same elementary school. I wasn't going to let them pretend their relationship started after I left. So now the whole neighborhood knows she is a lying slut and that he is a cheating jerk. There were half a dozen birthday parties she didn't get invited to this year. Whoops.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For the PP who pulled all the stupid crap listed (e.g., making sure her XH had trouble buying Christmas gifts for her kids): Every time you tried to hurt him you sent the message of just how hung up on him you still are.

Everyone but you can see it. Including your kids.

you don't know what you are talking about. I have a great relationship with my kids. They prefer me over their father. They wouldn't do that if he was a good guy. He deserves what he gets and don't try to shame me for sticking up for myself.

You sound unhinged. I don’t think anyone wonders why he cheated on such wonderful person.

[Anonymous]

This was pretty childish but when I was younger I signed up an ex's .edu account for every porn and spam website I could find.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Revenge served hot:

1. I aired all our dirty laundry to one of the executive admins at his job knowing she would spread anything I told her.

Revenge served warm:

2. Told him I wanted to work things out and got him into marriage counseling and just when he thought things were settled down I served him papers while he was at lunch with clients. Awkward!

Revenge served cold:

3. Years after the divorce I found out he was getting remarried so I sued for a custodial modification by serving him on the morning of the wedding and also asking for more child support.
4. I also saved up all the medical bills for months and had a few thousand dollars of reimbursement receipts delivered to him the day they returned from their honeymoon.
5. A month into the case I dropped my attorney and started calling his attorney every day to discuss various things because I knew his lawyer was charging $500 per hour. I did that for several months until just before the hearing and I dropped the case. It cost him around 20 grand. I know this caused a lot of problems for him during their first year of marriage. It also made the kids upset with him because he didn't have money for their Christmas and birthdays.
6. Occasionally I'll agree to extended summer vacations for the kids and then play "hard to get" concerning the pickup and drop off dates. This really pisses him off when he needs to buy airline tickets because he can't really make reservations for anything until that gets worked out. He likes to make reservations in advance.

And every single day this guy smiles at night because he gets to sleep with the love of his life while his bitter ex wastes her life away in a stew of anger. Congrats!

100% this. Plus, you've confirmed to everyone that you are indeed the psycho bitch he describes. And write this down - Your kids will turn against you. I've watched it happen several times. Get therapy. Your ex has moved on.

Yup. 1000 million times. Your kids "prefer" you now b.c they see how much of an emotional black hole of bitterness you are and they are trying to be nice in a kid way. But the time will come when they get sick of your psycho crap and turn against you.

OP do not become this whacko. Really I had revenge fantasies when my ex cheated and screwed me out of money bit literally what actually pissed him off was moving on and getting even more hot by working out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For the PP who pulled all the stupid crap listed (e.g., making sure her XH had trouble buying Christmas gifts for her kids): Every time you tried to hurt him you sent the message of just how hung up on him you still are.

Everyone but you can see it. Including your kids.

you don't know what you are talking about. I have a great relationship with my kids. They prefer me over their father. They wouldn't do that if he was a good guy. He deserves what he gets and don't try to shame me for sticking up for myself.

Ruining Christmas and birthdays for your children is not sticking up for yourself.

Serving the papers on his wedding and honeymoon just shows him that you’re still obsessed with him. It’s not about requesting the modifications, but the timing shows you’re not over him.

I feel bad for your kids.

+1

[Anonymous]

I took the high ground and never said a bad thing about him to our children and he went the other way. It didn't take long for them to not want to spend time with him because he was always mean and saying bad things about me. Eventually a judge reduced his visitation rights.