LOL. Are you the poster on the neighborhood FB page or listserv who makes a request about what service to use, then without fail states that any having such information should email you? Do you know what the purpose of neighborhood FB and neighborhood listserv is? "Email me!" negates these purposes - you are supposed to share information as a community, that is the whole idea. A few of us get a good chuckle each time we see you pop up. You need to ask for resources somewhere else, if you don't understand his it works. |
Oh and p.s. this doesn't have to be about money at all, but expecting someone to just give you something that they worked hard on or was passed onto them by family is still entitled and disgusting. |
That is great that you would, but I moved several times and asked new friends and my kid's friends parents to recommend and all they would say is that their stylist is fully booked. Happened many times. |
Such a weird attitude. I went to culinary school (am a lawyer, too) and always share recipes and techniques. Food is meant to be shared. At its best, it is a communal activity that brings people together. Whenever I make something that someone else originally developed, I always think about that person. I like thinking of others doing the same with my stuff. Creates a web of connections that is lasting. |
Yuck? What are you, five? Demanding things of your host would be entitled; asking is not. I guess I just have generous family and friends who take being asked for a recipe (or a knitting pattern or advice on how they managed to get a home project to turn out so nicely) as a compliment and love to take a moment to talk about how many times they had to unravel that cable pattern to get it right or the magic secret to refinishing the antique they've been working on for a month. Some people actually see this as being interested in them and a pleasant conversation, even. And bless my wonderful mother-in-law who has so patiently walked me through more than one family recipe over the years for something my husband loves to eat because his enjoyment is more important to her than being the only person who can fix it for him. (I have a friend whose MIL won't share family recipes with her or her husband because she has to have something she can do for her son that my friend can't. Don't be that MIL.) And your analogies suck. Presumably, if Chef Artiste, JD has invited guests over for a meal, she is giving her "art" away for free. Do you charge people for dinner when you invite them over? I hope not, that would be yucky. My cousin, the concert pianist, has friends over and is known to bust out a tune or two without charging them as well. Hell, he gave one of my sister's kids a free copy a piano exercise he wrote when he found out the kid had started lessons - I hope he wrote his name on it in big letters so he gets full credit for that etude sitting in his cousin's piano bench. Because we're talking about friends and family, not a bunch of strangers. If you can't be gracious with your friends and family, then I do find you weird and petty and suspect you're rather tiresome to be around. |
Not a problem if she created them and takes great pride in them. Yes, it's a bit strange but not worth getting bothered by. |
She's a miserable, selfish human being -- she would lose nothing by giving people the recipe -- but yes, it is her right. |
Asking and being told no, then bitching about it is absolutely entitled. |
The analogies are fine; you're just pretending to be or you are stupid. If I'm a chef and I want to have you over to my house, there's nothing wrong with that. If you have a friend who's a chef and you feel entitled to either their cooking or their recipes, then that's absolutely entitled. Heck it doesn't even have to be a chef. If you think someone owes you a meal or a recipe just because you asked politely, it means you're a brat. |
She's miserable for only wanting to share her recipes she created with her children and their spouses. Wow. I have to agree with pp who said that anyone pitching a fit about not getting a recipe someone else created and chooses to hold close to pass on is entitled. Some people pass money, heirlooms and oh what is that....Secret Family Recipes!! |
You don't see a difference between sharing material goods or access to services and sharing knowledge? Wow. The next time you're lost, don't ask me for directions. I took the time to learn my way around. If you learn an efficient way to talk to Pret, that ruins my life. |
I'm so confused. You aren't making any sense. A person isn't selfish because they choose to guard a recipe or recipes so that they might pass them down to close family members. People have been doing this forever!! It's not selfish at all. I actually find it sweet that this person said she would keep her recipes for her children and their spouses. Does anyone not have an uncle or a dad who makes the best BBQ sauce or some other special food that is all theirs. They only tend to share that recipe when they pass it on to their kids. I'm not sure why people in this thread are acting as if it's so wrong. |
| Chef Artiste, JD is going to be in a world of hurt when she is informed by a publisher that, in 2017, there is absolutely zero market for a recipe book by someone who isn't already famous. Wish I could be the fly on the wall of that conversation! |
Why? I'm the poster you speak of. I never stated that I was going to try and get my recipes published for sale. I want to memorialize and get credit by having my name accompany my recipes. That's good enough for me. I will go the self publish route more than likely or perhaps one of these days I'll start a blog and blow up. Hahaha, who knows, in 2017 I can be whoever I want to be. Gasp! Yes, that even means famous. People are famous these days for doing and or contributing absolutely nothing to society. Shouldn't be too hard!! I may even use the moniker Chef Artiste, JD. ; ) I'll be sure to give Dcum credit. |