Male salary/ income is a deal breaker to women?

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Anonymous wrote:It is a deal breaker to me since I am a teacher. If you make less than I do, how do you think you can provide for a family? I don't want to be the breadwinner as a teacher.

In most parts of the country two teachers could live comfortably. DC is just nuts with cost of living and a general sense of entitlement.

But I don't live in most parts of the country. I live in DC.

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Ok then. So maybe you can answer: who does a Burger King employee date? Do fast food workers just tend to date other fast food workers?

Most fast food employees are young. The older ones obviously are not dating your typical DCUMer. Some of them are between jobs, have addiction issues, dealt with adversity, or are simply from a modest walk of life where having a modest job is nothing to be ashamed of.

I can't express enough how out of touch people in DC are. There is a whole world of people that make under $40k per year and don't consider themselves poor or losers. Many of you would be at a loss to live outside of the affluent cocoons of DC/Boston/NYC/SF etc.

But then who do fast food workers in DC date? And FWIW, $40K goes a lot further just about anywhere in the US than DC/Boston/NYC/SF.

[Anonymous]

OP here , to the poster who made recent comment about people on here not daying your average fastfood employee.i dont know if youre right or not but i kind of get that draft seeing some of the figures and occupations some people have mentioned in this section.im apart of the "regular people" crowd no 3 figure jobs amongst me my family or friends.so now im even more curious to know if women with this big paying jobs would give a mcdonalds employee (of moderate age) the time of day or automatically consider him to be a loser just because of his occupation.

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Ok then. So maybe you can answer: who does a Burger King employee date? Do fast food workers just tend to date other fast food workers?

Most fast food employees are young. The older ones obviously are not dating your typical DCUMer. Some of them are between jobs, have addiction issues, dealt with adversity, or are simply from a modest walk of life where having a modest job is nothing to be ashamed of.

I can't express enough how out of touch people in DC are. There is a whole world of people that make under $40k per year and don't consider themselves poor or losers. Many of you would be at a loss to live outside of the affluent cocoons of DC/Boston/NYC/SF etc.

But then who do fast food workers in DC date? And FWIW, $40K goes a lot further just about anywhere in the US than DC/Boston/NYC/SF.

OP here , honestly people that i see who are of age that work fastfood jobs usually date other " normal " to below wage people.i never seen a female doctor or female lawyer dating a manager at mcdonalds or a wal mart stocker.it would be cool to see it happen but alot of people judge off occupation before personality sadly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If the size of my tits is a deal breaker for you, then it's only fair the size of your wallet is a deal breaker for me. Easy-peasy.

Sorry that you have no boobs and no skills to make enough $$ for yourself.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Ok then. So maybe you can answer: who does a Burger King employee date? Do fast food workers just tend to date other fast food workers?

Most fast food employees are young. The older ones obviously are not dating your typical DCUMer. Some of them are between jobs, have addiction issues, dealt with adversity, or are simply from a modest walk of life where having a modest job is nothing to be ashamed of.

I can't express enough how out of touch people in DC are. There is a whole world of people that make under $40k per year and don't consider themselves poor or losers. Many of you would be at a loss to live outside of the affluent cocoons of DC/Boston/NYC/SF etc.

But then who do fast food workers in DC date? And FWIW, $40K goes a lot further just about anywhere in the US than DC/Boston/NYC/SF.

Fast food workers date other fast food workers or maybe retail workers.

[Anonymous]

Find a job OP

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My income requirement was that he make at least more than me. This is simply because I knew that I could not carry a family on my teacher's salary. I didn't know how much Dh made until a few days before the wedding. However, I knew that he fit the criteria based on his profession.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here i appreciate all the women honest opinions.i hear some women say they could careless about how much a guy makes long as he is good to them overall and i wondered how true that statement was to majority of women.

Depends if she wants to outsource the early childcare (0-3), or not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:To the ladies . If a man is not making a high paying salary or even employed at the moment is it a deal breaker to you even if the guy has good qualities overall?

I'm not dating an unemployed man.

He does not need to be making 6 figures, but I wouldn't go for anything under 65k. I don't live in Oklahoma, and shit is expensive even when you downsize.

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Ok then. So maybe you can answer: who does a Burger King employee date? Do fast food workers just tend to date other fast food workers?

Most fast food employees are young. The older ones obviously are not dating your typical DCUMer. Some of them are between jobs, have addiction issues, dealt with adversity, or are simply from a modest walk of life where having a modest job is nothing to be ashamed of.

I can't express enough how out of touch people in DC are. There is a whole world of people that make under $40k per year and don't consider themselves poor or losers. Many of you would be at a loss to live outside of the affluent cocoons of DC/Boston/NYC/SF etc.

But then who do fast food workers in DC date? And FWIW, $40K goes a lot further just about anywhere in the US than DC/Boston/NYC/SF.

Fast food workers date other fast food workers or maybe retail workers.

Hot female fast food workers date upper class men.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It is a deal breaker to me since I am a teacher. If you make less than I do, how do you think you can provide for a family? I don't want to be the breadwinner as a teacher.

In most parts of the country two teachers could live comfortably. DC is just nuts with cost of living and a general sense of entitlement.

But I don't live in most parts of the country. I live in DC.

Whatever happened to doing things together? You two can put you're money together and raise a family together.why does he have to make more then you?

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I don't need $$ but I need a functional adult. A guy who jumps around from job to job and lacks ambition and tenacity wouldn't do it for me. I need someone responsible.

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Ok then. So maybe you can answer: who does a Burger King employee date? Do fast food workers just tend to date other fast food workers?

Most fast food employees are young. The older ones obviously are not dating your typical DCUMer. Some of them are between jobs, have addiction issues, dealt with adversity, or are simply from a modest walk of life where having a modest job is nothing to be ashamed of.

I can't express enough how out of touch people in DC are. There is a whole world of people that make under $40k per year and don't consider themselves poor or losers. Many of you would be at a loss to live outside of the affluent cocoons of DC/Boston/NYC/SF etc.

But then who do fast food workers in DC date? And FWIW, $40K goes a lot further just about anywhere in the US than DC/Boston/NYC/SF.

OP here , honestly people that i see who are of age that work fastfood jobs usually date other " normal " to below wage people.i never seen a female doctor or female lawyer dating a manager at mcdonalds or a wal mart stocker.it would be cool to see it happen but alot of people judge off occupation before personality sadly.

I don't think it's about money or status when it comes down to it. I think it's about what they have in common, shared interests, intellectual compatibility, etc... A walmart stocker isn't going to have much in common with a lawyer. A writer, for example, who doesn't make much money, but is intellectually on par with a lawyer, for example, could have a lot in common. So, while the writer may not make much money, the lawyer could still be interested in the writer.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here i appreciate all the women honest opinions.i hear some women say they could careless about how much a guy makes long as he is good to them overall and i wondered how true that statement was to majority of women.

Also OP this board is full of a lot of petty, spoiled people who think a HHI of 400K is "middle class" ... It may be representative of DC but it isn't representative of the world at large.

Exactly. Head about 40 miles outside of the radius and you will find plenty of women who have no problem with Burger King guy...

You think a woman in Leesburg is going to be happy with a guy that works at BK? Ummmmm, I grew up in the Shenandoah Valley and a good job was working for the state or county. BK and Walmart was for losers who were going nowhere fast. We're not as low rent as your petty fantasies.

Ok then. So maybe you can answer: who does a Burger King employee date? Do fast food workers just tend to date other fast food workers?

They don't get married to each other, studies have shown that low income women do not see the need to marry low income men, "they can do bad on their own".