Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?

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I feel like you are oddly obsessed with his happiness and sexual preferences..I wouldn't even put two and two together to think someone was unhappy because of a spouses weight gain...you're kinda creeping me out OP.

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I pretty much never say "Mind your own business" on this board, but definitely in this case that's my response: MYOB. Unless one of them reaches out to you, that's not the kind of thing you should say anything about.

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Anonymous wrote:I feel like you are oddly obsessed with his happiness and sexual preferences..I wouldn't even put two and two together to think someone was unhappy because of a spouses weight gain...you're kinda creeping me out OP.

This. OP has an agenda.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A lot of women look forward to letting themselves go after marriage. I've heard women comment about other newly married women, "now she doesn't have to work out." Pigs

This shit needs to stop. I am all for open immigration for attractive females from various countries to make american women think outside before destroying this country.

There are so many things wrong with this thread I can't even... would you be using Roosh's chart determine hotness? Or the MRA's 1 to 10 scale? Or just put pics up on hot or not and let them immigrate if they reach a 7?

Ps they probably still won't sleep with you.

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Anonymous wrote:So if I'm understanding this correctly, the problem for the OP is that this family member is unhappy in his marriage, but leaving his wife means that she'll get half of a $500K house that is appreciating.

What I don't understand is what outcome the OP would advise toward.

Also not sure what supporting Trump has to do with any of it, but the nonsensical nature of that little detail made some sense of the support he has. It's all about putting value on all the wrong things because it's the right thing to do.

Given Trump's nasty attitude towards women, especially ones he deems as unattractive it's not surprising.


The problem is that the op is projecting and sssuming that her relative is unhappy due to his wife's weight gain. And OP assumes they will divorce over the weight gain and if they do she'd get half of the house. Because fat people don't deserve to be married or get an even split of property in a divorce. Obvious solution is to divorce and make the trophy wife sign a prenup stating how much weight she was allowed to gain. /sarcasm

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Anonymous wrote:If he leaves her she would likely walk away with half of his net worth including the house.
It is very obvious he does not look happy.
Should I say something to him about it.

Excuse me? His net worth? Oh my...

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Having dealt with my MIL, I can say people like this do exist. At some point, she observed her son was unhappy, and had no idea why, but blamed me, who happens to be overweight. In her opinion, beauty is the most important thing a woman has to offer a man. (Along with subservience to him and the MIL.) She took it upon herself to find him a "better" woman.