How much do men really spend on engagement rings?

[Anonymous]

It really depends on you... All I can say is this, you know her best. As for me, I spent 40K on a 2+ carat Galia. If her close friends have a ring of certain size and ..., you cannot be way off. You will not hear the end of it.

[Anonymous]

If your woman is worth proposing to, she won't want a ring.

[Anonymous]

When is this foolish tradition going to go away.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When is this foolish tradition going to go away.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:To the women that don't wear a ring at all, aren't you worried about being hit on? Most men look at the ring finger first. I get not wearing a diamond in some circumstances, but give the men an idea by looking if you are potentially available or not.

I've never had this problem. I think I generally give off "eff off" vibes though. Maybe bubbly women need to worry.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The biggest issue you will have is finding a quality diamond in those cuts. I wanted a cushion cut, but there was virtually nothing to choose from that was a quality diamond. I ended up with a really high quality round diamond instead.

Untrue. There are quality diamonds in those cuts but you are paying more. I bought my wife an Asscher cut diamond from Blue Nile. 2 carat, VVS2 clarity, D color, and excellent symmetry. I paid a little under 50k for the ring.

Op, go to Blue Nile. They have great quality diamonds in your price range. Congrats

This, all day long. You can’t afford not to go there.

[Anonymous]

I have a vintage sapphire and diamond ring that was about 4500? Our HHI at the time of marriage was bout 140k, DH made 80k or so...oh, but he didn't have a ring when he proposed. He just proposed and asked if I wanted a ring. I picked one out. I didn't want to spend a lot of money--it was already 'our' money.

I also have 3.4 carat diamond/platinum ring from my grandmother and I really never ever wear it. Too big, and I worry about it getting stolen.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:To the women that don't wear a ring at all, aren't you worried about being hit on? Most men look at the ring finger first. I get not wearing a diamond in some circumstances, but give the men an idea by looking if you are potentially available or not.

I wear my wedding band. My engagement ring is sitting pretty in a jewelry box.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If your "girl" is worth her salt, she won't want or need an engagement ring.

I can’t stand it when people refer to their SO as my “girl” or my “man.” It feels very tacky and unsophisticated.

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Anonymous wrote:If your "girl" is worth her salt, she won't want or need an engagement ring.

I can’t stand it when people refer to their SO as my “girl” or my “man.” It feels very tacky and unsophisticated.

It’s just the same dude over and over trying to sound like it’s a consensus that “worthy” women don’t want engagement rings.

[Anonymous]

Head over to this post and have some fun.

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1051821.page

[Anonymous]

Mine was 14k at Blue Nile 13 years ago. I'm divorced. I never wore it after I had a kid.

don't spend more than 20k on a ring!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I spent 40K on a 2+ carat Galia.

Mine was 14k at Blue Nile 13 years ago.

Bwahahaha you guys are idiots.

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Anonymous wrote:Really? What kind of circles do you run in? Most women I know don't even wear their engagement rings every day.

WTF? I've worn my engagement ring every day since DH proposed! What circles are you running with where ladies don't wear both the rings? That's uncommon

Wrong. I don't know anyone who wears both rings every day.

[Anonymous]

This guide re clarity is great!

https://www.diamonds.pro/education/clarity/