Not picked as the guardian

[Anonymous]

Would you choose her to raise your kids? If so, call it even and count your stars.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am not sure picking a guardian who will keep her children from their family is a good call.

Anyway, it doesn't help with my extremely low self-esteem. It makes me think my child is better off with someone else.

But this is why she did not choose you. You don't seem stable! The fact that you cannot put yourself in her shoes, and understand she is making the best decision. Are you saying that your sister should worry about your self esteem and hurt feelings over her own concerns about her kids welfare? If you are..your narcissism alone would make me say, "no way".

If you bend with the wind, you wouldn't be stable enough to raise my kids. Talk to your therapist about these feelings in order to process it.

Plus, the way your sister and mother slip little gems to you about who said what... they may not be healthy for you to be around anyway.