Stepdaughter wants a nose job

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well, there might be more to this than the mother's anti-plastic surgery position and with that her daughter embraced it. She might be nervous that it will not be a good one. (I can spot a bad one a hallway away. A new colleague has one!) She might resent your money. Who knows.

Where is the daughter living now? Still with you and DH?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your stepdaughter has been discussing this with her therapist for a while now and the therapist is supporting her - do it, OP. She is ready.

The mother is being controlling and probably still angry that the stepdaughter went so out of control on her watch. And having her ex marry a woman with money doesn't help her disposition any either. If the bitch mother gets too vindictive with the youngest stepdaughter, DH could take her back to court.

This, 100%.

[Anonymous]

What's really life changing is learning to except and love yourself just the way you are.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is the stepdaughter's decision. If she wants a nose job and you can afford it and get her into to see one of the best plastic surgeons in the country - go for it. Screw the mother.

Unnecessary.

[Anonymous]

She is 18. Hire her to do a job for you over the summer and pay her whatever the plastic surgery will cost. She is free to use the money for plastic surgery or not.

She should be emotionally ready.

Good luck!

[Anonymous]

Get her the nose job. Maybe all her previous bad actions was due to low self esteem based on her appearance.