S/O are sleepovers normal in your culture?

[Anonymous]

Just a thought: if you think having brothers is "bad", could it be that you are from a culture that values boys more than girls? Maybe you have no boys, so you are jealous? Maybe deflecting makes you feel better - but in reality, exacerbates your problems? You might want to address your own insecurities.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Faithful Catholics, no. Not in our circles.

wtf?

My kid attended Catholic school, and there were sleepovers all the fucking time! passed around quite a bit of lice, too!

yuck

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:American - Orthodox Jewish - we did/ do sleepovers all the time.

Part of it is that we cant drive/travel on Friday night, so I would go stay with my friends who didnt live in walking distance from Friday after school until Sat night (sometimes even Sunday).

Even as adults, we have friends stay with us for Shabbat as well.

but with other Orthodox Jews, yes?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Italian - and hell no! My mom used to say "you have a house and a bed, yuo dont sleep at other people's homes".
Was allowed to stay with cousins every once in a while, and even then it was like pulling teeth.

really?

also Italian - both parents, bilingual household, pasta Sundays

lots of sleepovers with friends and cousins

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just reading the sleepover thread and wanted to hear from folks on whether this was a usual practice in their culture. I'll start- from West Africa and we do not do sleep overs. For fear of daughters being molested and sons being accused or mixed up in something and I guess because it's just not done.

Michael Gardener and his wife, who by the way is sticking by him no matter what she says, is one reason why you shouldn't allow your kids to have sleep overs and I'll even go so far as play dates with strangers.

http://www.wusa9.com/story/news/local/falls-church/2014/10/01/michael-gardner-child-molester-arrest-falls-church/16527679/

http://www.wusa9.com/story/news/local/2014/12/16/michael-gardner-child-molestation-falls-church/20495779/

[Anonymous]

From the South, it was quite common.

[Anonymous]

Grew up in NYC and it was definitely normal.

Did it several times when I was a kid and did it very often as a HS teen.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Just reading the sleepover thread and wanted to hear from folks on whether this was a usual practice in their culture. I'll start- from West Africa and we do not do sleep overs. For fear of daughters being molested and sons being accused or mixed up in something and I guess because it's just not done.

Michael Gardener and his wife, who by the way is sticking by him no matter what she says, is one reason why you shouldn't allow your kids to have sleep overs and I'll even go so far as play dates with strangers.

http://www.wusa9.com/story/news/local/falls-church/2014/10/01/michael-gardner-child-molester-arrest-falls-church/16527679/

http://www.wusa9.com/story/news/local/2014/12/16/michael-gardner-child-molestation-falls-church/20495779/

Ack-this story upsets me, but it sucks because this is my dad's name and I hate that it comes up in this context.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Just reading the sleepover thread and wanted to hear from folks on whether this was a usual practice in their culture. I'll start- from West Africa and we do not do sleep overs. For fear of daughters being molested and sons being accused or mixed up in something and I guess because it's just not done.

Michael Gardener and his wife, who by the way is sticking by him no matter what she says, is one reason why you shouldn't allow your kids to have sleep overs and I'll even go so far as play dates with strangers.

http://www.wusa9.com/story/news/local/falls-church/2014/10/01/michael-gardner-child-molester-arrest-falls-church/16527679/

http://www.wusa9.com/story/news/local/2014/12/16/michael-gardner-child-molestation-falls-church/20495779/

Ack-this story upsets me, but it sucks because this is my dad's name and I hate that it comes up in this context.

Ew. He looks like my previous very, very creepy neighbor. Good riddance!

PP, we have a common name, in our country, so if one does a certain kind of search, it looks like related, but we are not. I think this happens with many different kinds of names. They may sound "unusual" to most people here, if they are not educated about the name. Not everything is found or explained on line. Don't worry about it. You have more recourse if you are mistaken.

[Anonymous]

You need to know the family, and not just ship your children off to strangers homes. Do you not know your children's friends' families?

[Anonymous]

Pennsylvania - sleepovers all the time when growing up. Normal and expected. Just part of the american culture growing up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Just reading the sleepover thread and wanted to hear from folks on whether this was a usual practice in their culture. I'll start- from West Africa and we do not do sleep overs. For fear of daughters being molested and sons being accused or mixed up in something and I guess because it's just not done.

Michael Gardener and his wife, who by the way is sticking by him no matter what she says, is one reason why you shouldn't allow your kids to have sleep overs and I'll even go so far as play dates with strangers.

http://www.wusa9.com/story/news/local/falls-church/2014/10/01/michael-gardner-child-molester-arrest-falls-church/16527679/

http://www.wusa9.com/story/news/local/2014/12/16/michael-gardner-child-molestation-falls-church/20495779/

Ack-this story upsets me, but it sucks because this is my dad's name and I hate that it comes up in this context.

Ew. He looks like my previous very, very creepy neighbor. Good riddance!

PP, we have a common name, in our country, so if one does a certain kind of search, it looks like related, but we are not. I think this happens with many different kinds of names. They may sound "unusual" to most people here, if they are not educated about the name. Not everything is found or explained on line. Don't worry about it. You have more recourse if you are mistaken.

Oh, I know it's not an uncommon name. It just sucks that my dad shares a name with this creep.

[Anonymous]

I grew up in the South and the Midwest.

Totally common to do sleepovers. They were really fun and some of my best memories. Everybody even had brothers -- and fathers! Gasp!

No one was molested.