s/o - Aborting because a child is "disabled"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
11:09 that makes me weep. I cannot imagine hearing those words, and the fact that the OP is so unbelievably unseeing that this is the case for many parents struggling with this information is just beyond the pale.

OP, you need to shut up when you don't know what you're talking about.


I am not the OP, but it makes me weep too. But the only difference is, the fact that you and the above PP are so unbelievably unseeing that killing your own child yourself just to save it from being killed? What? I don't get that?


Of course you wouldn't "get that." Have you been through it?

I'm not the PP, but yes, I have been through it and I also "don't get it." I forever will be grateful for the 20 wonderful days with my baby who had T18.

[Anonymous]

Hey! Its a martyr! Thanks for showing up to the party.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
11:09 that makes me weep. I cannot imagine hearing those words, and the fact that the OP is so unbelievably unseeing that this is the case for many parents struggling with this information is just beyond the pale.

OP, you need to shut up when you don't know what you're talking about.


I am not the OP, but it makes me weep too. But the only difference is, the fact that you and the above PP are so unbelievably unseeing that killing your own child yourself just to save it from being killed? What? I don't get that?


Of course you wouldn't "get that." Have you been through it?

I'm not the PP, but yes, I have been through it and I also "don't get it." I forever will be grateful for the 20 wonderful days with my baby who had T18.

But understand that other people might feel about it differently. It's not your job to judge.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
11:09 that makes me weep. I cannot imagine hearing those words, and the fact that the OP is so unbelievably unseeing that this is the case for many parents struggling with this information is just beyond the pale.

OP, you need to shut up when you don't know what you're talking about.


I am not the OP, but it makes me weep too. But the only difference is, the fact that you and the above PP are so unbelievably unseeing that killing your own child yourself just to save it from being killed? What? I don't get that?


Of course you wouldn't "get that." Have you been through it?

I'm not the PP, but yes, I have been through it and I also "don't get it." I forever will be grateful for the 20 wonderful days with my baby who had T18.

You were blessed with your dear child, PP, and God bless you now. What a beautiful post.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
11:09 that makes me weep. I cannot imagine hearing those words, and the fact that the OP is so unbelievably unseeing that this is the case for many parents struggling with this information is just beyond the pale.

OP, you need to shut up when you don't know what you're talking about.


I am not the OP, but it makes me weep too. But the only difference is, the fact that you and the above PP are so unbelievably unseeing that killing your own child yourself just to save it from being killed? What? I don't get that?


Of course you wouldn't "get that." Have you been through it?

I'm not the PP, but yes, I have been through it and I also "don't get it." I forever will be grateful for the 20 wonderful days with my baby who had T18.

But understand that other people might feel about it differently. It's not your job to judge.

What is all this focus on "judging" in today's society? Everything is so relativistic. Guess what, people judge, and they judge all the time. You ran a red light? We judge in society that you did so, and that is wrong. You didn't hold a door for someone who was just walking behind you and it slammed in their face? We judge: "You were rude." Yet in this one issue, everyone goes around repeating hook line and sinker the PP/NARAL line, "Don't judge, don't judge, don't judge." Boy, they really sent a lot of folks down the river on this one.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hey! Its a martyr! Thanks for showing up to the party.

I judge you: you're rude.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
11:09 that makes me weep. I cannot imagine hearing those words, and the fact that the OP is so unbelievably unseeing that this is the case for many parents struggling with this information is just beyond the pale.

OP, you need to shut up when you don't know what you're talking about.


I am not the OP, but it makes me weep too. But the only difference is, the fact that you and the above PP are so unbelievably unseeing that killing your own child yourself just to save it from being killed? What? I don't get that?


Of course you wouldn't "get that." Have you been through it?

I'm not the PP, but yes, I have been through it and I also "don't get it." I forever will be grateful for the 20 wonderful days with my baby who had T18.

But understand that other people might feel about it differently. It's not your job to judge.

No judgment in my post, I was just sharing my personal experience as other PPs have done. I did what I needed to do. That's all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
11:09 that makes me weep. I cannot imagine hearing those words, and the fact that the OP is so unbelievably unseeing that this is the case for many parents struggling with this information is just beyond the pale.

OP, you need to shut up when you don't know what you're talking about.


I am not the OP, but it makes me weep too. But the only difference is, the fact that you and the above PP are so unbelievably unseeing that killing your own child yourself just to save it from being killed? What? I don't get that?


Of course you wouldn't "get that." Have you been through it?

I'm not the PP, but yes, I have been through it and I also "don't get it." I forever will be grateful for the 20 wonderful days with my baby who had T18.

PP, thank you for speaking for the T18 mothers. Please tell us about your baby.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hey! Its a martyr! Thanks for showing up to the party.

I was wondering where they were, the martyrs are very late today.

[Anonymous]

You know what I don't get? Why people feel the need to argue about this. It's a personal choice.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You know what I don't get? Why people feel the need to argue about this. It's a personal choice.

Everything in life is a personal choice but that doesn't mean you agree with everyone's choices.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hey! Its a martyr! Thanks for showing up to the party.

I was wondering where they were, the martyrs are very late today.

Not as late as the haters, apparently.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
11:09 that makes me weep. I cannot imagine hearing those words, and the fact that the OP is so unbelievably unseeing that this is the case for many parents struggling with this information is just beyond the pale.

OP, you need to shut up when you don't know what you're talking about.


I am not the OP, but it makes me weep too. But the only difference is, the fact that you and the above PP are so unbelievably unseeing that killing your own child yourself just to save it from being killed? What? I don't get that?


Of course you wouldn't "get that." Have you been through it?

I'm not the PP, but yes, I have been through it and I also "don't get it." I forever will be grateful for the 20 wonderful days with my baby who had T18.

PP, thank you for speaking for the T18 mothers. Please tell us about your baby.

Yes, that would be lovely, if you care to, of course.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hey! Its a martyr! Thanks for showing up to the party.

I was wondering where they were, the martyrs are very late today.

Not as late as the haters, apparently.

Oh, we've been here all along. Maybe you weren't paying attention.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You know what I don't get? Why people feel the need to argue about this. It's a personal choice.

Everything in life is a personal choice but that doesn't mean you agree with everyone's choices.

Why do you have to agree/approve of someone else's choice?