BITE YOUR TONGUE. You are CRAZY? Really? I still think he is so hot. Admittedly maybe not in candid papparazi shots but his recent magazine cover I saw at the store the other day (I'm thinking it was for Details or GQ or something - if those magazines are still even published, it was one of those types of mags) where he was all groomed and made up have him lookin' good. And same with the previews for his new movie - I was amazed at how young he looks! But just goes to show you, you can't please everyone. |
| My co-worker won't even consider dating a woman under 30, no matter her attractive. Too much drama and pettiness he says. He finds women over 30 more attractive partly due to absence of those downers. |
I know you asked for men's opinions, but I have to say, maybe you just need more time. I am better looking and more confident and happy with myself now at 37 than I ever was in my younger years. Now my boobs, well that's another story but DH remembers them from the good old days
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He'd probably scream in ecstasy if that happened. |
| I'm jealous of black women and Asian women because they always look 10 years younger than they really are. |
I think a little extra weight is good for an older woman's looks (I'm def not talking obese). It plumps out your skin. I've seen many older woman who are too thin. Trying to look chic and young but gaunt with wrinkles, crepey decolletage, veiny hands. Ew. Some extra weight can deflect those things. You know it's either your ass or your face as you grow older. What do you show to the world most often? |
That's right! "Black don't crack!" |
I agree, BUT this is the difference between a 2 and a 6. Not a 2 and a 10. We've all seen the anorexic 40 somethings, it looks horrible. If it were not for all the work Demi Moore has done to herself, she'd be in that hideous category. |
OMG did you actually write N3ggr3ss??? We have a president of African descent and still the racism continues...SMH. |
| Wow, OP - I didn't feel old, or even think about my looks going downhill, at 31. I looked great on my wedding day at 31. I'm only now starting to feel it at 41 (though thankfully my DH is still as attracted to me as he was all those years ago (though he appreciates older women's beauty in general). |
Sign. I'm not even going to bother addressing this poster, he/she is so lost on this one. Any takers? |
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The sorority, blond-loving man is only one person. He doesn't speak for all men, mercifully.
Some like blond, some like dark. Some like tall and thin. Some like voluptuous. That doesn't mean that what you don't prefer is not attractive. It's just that it may be not attractive to you (in general). |
| 30 yr old dad again. Please don't paint me as the racist one. I said fetish because I'm married and obviously can't go out and just sleep with a woman and tell my wife "I did it because I always wanted to sleep with a black woman". I've never used the N word and contrary to the opinion on this board I've never heard any of my fraternity brothers say it. Southerner in a Greek organization doesn't equal racist. I thought you all were the "tolerant" ones. |
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to 30 yr dad --
Come back to LNS.. we will be your friends and you can cheat there |
Oh, young dad...you are not getting any anymore, right?
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