| all these discussions sound more like parents ego |
While my kid learned a lot and enjoyed working with the mentor and other interns, my kid ended up NOT enjoying the actual research bits so it helped them eliminate some career options. So it was beneficial in a few ways. |
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Just like extracurriculars — many of them serve a purpose that only your family truly understands.
That still doesn’t change the fact that intrinsic value and real talent don’t need validation through vanity metrics. There’s no point trying to convince other people. Just because you can or cannot do something doesn’t make it anyone else’s business |
True for the rest of the world, but this is planet USA. And a published paper on the migration patterns of mosquitoes in suburban environments will go pretty darn far. It demonstrates smarts, discipline, passion. Every selective school would be interested in this high school student. High test scores and GPA are a dime a dozen. Every selective university could fill their classes ten times over with kids with perfect stats. But here is someone with a compelling interest in mosquitos in the suburbs and is bringing the chops. This is why American universities are generally the best universities in the world. They will take the mosquito kid. Whereas the test oriented countries like Korea, China, Japan, the UK and so on won't. That mosquito kid is the separation American universities have from universities elsewhere. And consequentially, nearly all important innovation happens in the US and not elsewhere. |
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I’ll give you a hint. There’s research programs and opportunities given out to highly talented first gen low income students. The people here don’t know about them because they’re mostly upper middle class or even wealthy.
It’s the reason this forum never talks about Thrive or Questbridge (other than to disparage it) or LEDA or CollegematchLA or Hamilton |
I am not sure people outside of US still agree the highlighted line. (ok but if that's the coping mechanism for Americans). Ironically media keeps telling everyone US universities ranking is slipping when compared to non-US colleges. |
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Reading this thread — and honestly this forum in general — makes me question what the mission and purpose of college really is anymore.
I keep thinking about what kids are being put through from K–12. Are we helping them become competent adults, or just stressed, selfish, and resentful ones? If students are already taking endless AP classes in high school, what exactly are they supposed to learn in college? If a child is doing research and taking Calculus III at an incredibly young age, why is college even necessary? And if someone is already deeply committed to sports or music at a professional level, how much additional value does college really add to their life? Shouldn’t they just focus on becoming professionals in their field instead? |
Olympiads can be, and most often are, self-studied with free resources. From an IPhO gold medalist:
Source: https://knzhou.github.io/handouts/FAQ.pdf |
Of course colleges are necessary. Stanford and MIT have put all their classes online, so anyone can learn any topic free of tuition. Obviously you don't just go there to take classes. Kids still go to college for like-minded peers, opportunities provided by top colleges, and a social environment during their formative years. You'd be surprised that these kids are not "stressed, selfish, and resentful", quite the opposite. |
This is what I read yesterday from NYTimes about Stanford. If this is the learning you are talking about. ``` Money in Silicon Valley has become a game of almost meaningless numbers bandied about in a breathtakingly casual manner. It contributes to the whirlpool effect students at Stanford have felt around tech and lucre — if your roommate can drop out and start a nine-figure company, why shouldn’t you profit, too? Why put all your energy into being a student when it seems like everyone around you is getting rich? One time during sophomore year, I was working on homework in my dorm common room with an acquaintance when she offhandedly remarked, “I bought a house in Las Vegas last week.” She continued, “It’s good for taxes.” It’s hard to put your earbuds in and get right back to your problem set when someone says something like that. ``` |
Are they the "stressed, selfish, and resentful" kids you described? And if you don't like Stanford, what kind of learning environment you would like your kids to have? |
I am indifferent. Everyone should pursue what they want. As long as it is ethical and legal. |
So were the SATs dumbed down for the rich parents or was TJ standards loosened to break up the rich kid monopoly on TJ seats? The SATs were dumbed down because people didn't like the racial profile of the kids getting the best test scores. Sure there were plenty of white kids getting top test scores but not enough. Sure there were some URM getting high test scores but not enough. Same thing at TJ. |
American universities aren't among the best in the world because of the quality of the American students. Are you freaking kidding me? American university dominance is almost entirely about money and the job opportunities available to our graduates. Are you under the impression that most of the innovation we see in America is coming from the "mosquito kids?" It's mostly coming from high scoring immigrants or the children of immigrants. |
| The fact that we still lay off Americans and increase h1b or outsource. |