3rd Graders Witness S*x in Dunbar Locker Room

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I love all the people trying to excuse a 4-way witnessed by small children during the school day.

Literally what is wrong with you?

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My kids in APS do swimming field trips to Yorktown and have to change in the locker room. The teachers specifically solicit parents of both genders referencing the need for adults to monitor locker rooms.

I’m a pretty laid back parent about a lot of things (I’ve always been open about talking with my kids about the basics of sex, consent, gay marriage, respecting pronouns, etc. but I hope there is never a day that my response to 9 year olds witnessing other minors have sex in a school locker room is “meh.”

Well I would not want some unknown father to be “chaperoning” my perfectly capable 9 year old changing out of his swimsuit. No. I’d rather the teacher did a check of the Locker room to make sure no teenagers were making out or having sex in the showers and then I’d like them to change in privacy. Not under the watchful eye of Brayden’s father.

A parent would have to have DCPS volunteer clearance, which includes a background check.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My daughter goes to another docs high school. Sex in bathrooms happens. The kids all know about it. So does drug use. I think it’s incredibly sad and dumb that dcps thought it was a good idea to have little kids swim lessons at Dunbar.[/quote]

Er, that's where the swimming pools are located. The problem is not kids learning to swim or using a community resource. The problem is DCPS's management of their high school students.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I went it to public school in NYC in the ‘90s. Of course kids snuck off to have sex. But doing it in the public area of a bathroom with an audience and/or 4 participants? No. That would get you expelled in a heartbeat. That’s not a normal thing to be happening in a HS or for kids to think is normal.

And there is actually zero evidence that actually happened, other than one anonymous mother of ONE of the kids , in a news article. And the one kids moms story differs significantly from the statement released to the parents from the school.

And hopefully it's not actually what happened... but people in *this* thread are acting like it would be no big deal if it did. I disagree.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I went it to public school in NYC in the ‘90s. Of course kids snuck off to have sex. But doing it in the public area of a bathroom with an audience and/or 4 participants? No. That would get you expelled in a heartbeat. That’s not a normal thing to be happening in a HS or for kids to think is normal.

And there is actually zero evidence that actually happened, other than one anonymous mother of ONE of the kids , in a news article. And the one kids moms story differs significantly from the statement released to the parents from the school.

And hopefully it's not actually what happened... but people in *this* thread are acting like it would be no big deal if it did. I disagree.

I don’t think anyone said viewing public group sex in locker room is no big deal. People at first were thinking two kids having sex and saying you can talk to your kids about it and it doesn’t have to be a huge trauma. that is something that sometimes happens with kids. You are twisting the words unless posts were deleted that I can’t see.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My friend works here. This isn’t actually what happened.

An 8 year old might have embellished a story and then it got blown out of proportion? You don’t say….

(It’s amazing me to that everyone in this thread for the most part, just believed this without any evidence to support it.) should we believe children? Yes, but we should also investigate their claims. The story already had inconsistencies from just the number of people involved.

What’s more realistic? A kid heard clapping sounds that were likely older kids hitting each other with towels and wasn’t used to seeing naked teenagers walking around or there was a 10:30 homosexual orgy in a public school shower?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I went it to public school in NYC in the ‘90s. Of course kids snuck off to have sex. But doing it in the public area of a bathroom with an audience and/or 4 participants? No. That would get you expelled in a heartbeat. That’s not a normal thing to be happening in a HS or for kids to think is normal.

And there is actually zero evidence that actually happened, other than one anonymous mother of ONE of the kids , in a news article. And the one kids moms story differs significantly from the statement released to the parents from the school.

And hopefully it's not actually what happened... but people in *this* thread are acting like it would be no big deal if it did. I disagree.

I don’t think anyone said viewing public group sex in locker room is no big deal. People at first were thinking two kids having sex and saying you can talk to your kids about it and it doesn’t have to be a huge trauma. that is something that sometimes happens with kids. You are twisting the words unless posts were deleted that I can’t see.

Of course no one is saying that; anyone with a brain and basic reading comprehension can see that, but this is DCUM. If you don't immediately have conniptions about something it means you support it and you're a troll or you don't have kids.

[Anonymous]

Wow

[Anonymous]

Firstly, my son attends there, they were not having sex, they were horseplaying, what about movies , tv that our kids are exposed too? Stop blowing this thread up! With false ideas.

[Anonymous]

It wasnt an orgy, the instructor was clapping his hands to get the children to hurry up. The other kids were running around with excitement, if the dunbar teens were or gave him a kiss so what!

[Anonymous]

Have you seen some of the newer books in the DCPS school libraries?

[Anonymous]

Horrendous

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Firstly, my son attends there, they were not having sex, they were horseplaying, what about movies , tv that our kids are exposed too? Stop blowing this thread up! With false ideas.

My middle schoolers don't see movies with naked 'horseplay' now. They certainly didn't see them in 3rd grade.

[Anonymous]

This story isn't true. So irresponsible anyone printed this as "news" without waiting for school officials to investigate. Apparently people will believe anything they read though as this thread proves.

[Anonymous]

Any room in any school is not a place for sex.

[Anonymous]

Yes, we should definitely believe random anonymous posters citing a friend of a friend over the mother of the child in question.