3rd Graders Witness S*x in Dunbar Locker Room

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Anonymous wrote:I cannot get pass the “clapping” comment. That itself is traumatizing once you realize what is actually going on.

It might have been bodies slapping, not actual clapping.

Maybe your third grader has watched sex acts and knows the sounds of bodies slapping, but these children had been shielded from porn and used the only verb that made sense to them. WTF.

Or did they hear clapping and one student has been exposed, so they make it sexual in nature, and put that idea in the others heads. There are so many possibilities here that make more sense than "gay orgy in a high school locker room at 10 am."

Yeah maybe the high schoolers were naked in the locker room playing pattycake and that’s the “lewd act” referred to in the article. Makes perfect sense.

😂 this ^ My god, people are so freaking stupid

[Anonymous]

My daughter goes to another docs high school. Sex in bathrooms happens. The kids all know about it. So does drug use. I think it’s incredibly sad and dumb that dcps thought it was a good idea to have little kids swim lessons at Dunbar.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I cannot get pass the “clapping” comment. That itself is traumatizing once you realize what is actually going on.

I might be green but I don’t get it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I cannot get pass the “clapping” comment. That itself is traumatizing once you realize what is actually going on.

It might have been bodies slapping, not actual clapping.

Maybe your third grader has watched sex acts and knows the sounds of bodies slapping, but these children had been shielded from porn and used the only verb that made sense to them. WTF.

Or did they hear clapping and one student has been exposed, so they make it sexual in nature, and put that idea in the others heads. There are so many possibilities here that make more sense than "gay orgy in a high school locker room at 10 am."

Yeah maybe the high schoolers were naked in the locker room playing pattycake and that’s the “lewd act” referred to in the article. Makes perfect sense.

I really hope so. Maybe the kids saw something they didn’t understand and the parents minds went directly to explicit content

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I cannot get pass the “clapping” comment. That itself is traumatizing once you realize what is actually going on.

I might be green but I don’t get it.

Clapping is the sound of flesh hitting flesh. Think about it….

[Anonymous]

Witnessing a gay orgy would be pretty traumatizing for these 9 year olds.

Sick

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Anonymous wrote:My daughter goes to another docs high school. Sex in bathrooms happens. The kids all know about it. So does drug use. I think it’s incredibly sad and dumb that dcps thought it was a good idea to have little kids swim lessons at Dunbar.

Call me old fashioned, but the discovery of someone having sex or doing drugs in the school bathroom would have been a huge deal (and the hottest goss) at my high school. If this is so routine that kids are blasé about it, then that’s one of the biggest indictments of DCPS that I’ve heard yet.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My daughter goes to another docs high school. Sex in bathrooms happens. The kids all know about it. So does drug use. I think it’s incredibly sad and dumb that dcps thought it was a good idea to have little kids swim lessons at Dunbar.

Call me old fashioned, but the discovery of someone having sex or doing drugs in the school bathroom would have been a huge deal (and the hottest goss) at my high school. If this is so routine that kids are blasé about it, then that’s one of the biggest indictments of DCPS that I’ve heard yet.

I went to WT Woodson in the 90s and both of those things happened. And the student body was very different, in almost every way, shall we say, than the student body at Dunbar. It’s not just them poor inner city kids who like sex and experiment with drugs. Hate to break it to you!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My daughter goes to another docs high school. Sex in bathrooms happens. The kids all know about it. So does drug use. I think it’s incredibly sad and dumb that dcps thought it was a good idea to have little kids swim lessons at Dunbar.

Call me old fashioned, but the discovery of someone having sex or doing drugs in the school bathroom would have been a huge deal (and the hottest goss) at my high school. If this is so routine that kids are blasé about it, then that’s one of the biggest indictments of DCPS that I’ve heard yet.

I went to WT Woodson in the 90s and both of those things happened. And the student body was very different, in almost every way, shall we say, than the student body at Dunbar. It’s not just them poor inner city kids who like sex and experiment with drugs. Hate to break it to you!

Mine was more a comment about what seems to be a real failure of supervision and standards in school if kids consider this stuff normal than about what type of kids “like sex and experiment with drugs,” but go off.

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I went it to public school in NYC in the ‘90s. Of course kids snuck off to have sex. But doing it in the public area of a bathroom with an audience and/or 4 participants? No. That would get you expelled in a heartbeat. That’s not a normal thing to be happening in a HS or for kids to think is normal.

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Anonymous wrote:I went it to public school in NYC in the ‘90s. Of course kids snuck off to have sex. But doing it in the public area of a bathroom with an audience and/or 4 participants? No. That would get you expelled in a heartbeat. That’s not a normal thing to be happening in a HS or for kids to think is normal.

And there is actually zero evidence that actually happened, other than one anonymous mother of ONE of the kids , in a news article. And the one kids moms story differs significantly from the statement released to the parents from the school.

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Anonymous wrote:I love all the people trying to excuse a 4-way witnessed by small children during the school day.

Literally what is wrong with you?

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My kids in APS do swimming field trips to Yorktown and have to change in the locker room. The teachers specifically solicit parents of both genders referencing the need for adults to monitor locker rooms.

I’m a pretty laid back parent about a lot of things (I’ve always been open about talking with my kids about the basics of sex, consent, gay marriage, respecting pronouns, etc. but I hope there is never a day that my response to 9 year olds witnessing other minors have sex in a school locker room is “meh.”

Well I would not want some unknown father to be “chaperoning” my perfectly capable 9 year old changing out of his swimsuit. No. I’d rather the teacher did a check of the Locker room to make sure no teenagers were making out or having sex in the showers and then I’d like them to change in privacy. Not under the watchful eye of Brayden’s father.

Well all the teachers are females (and also busy managing a large group of kids) so yeah they need a chaperone dad to do the sweep of the boys’ locker room and keep an ear out for anything unusual. (And ideally some moms to scan the girls’ locker room as well). I actually think it’s a good thing to have parents help instead of putting every single thing on teachers.

No one said the dad is going to be hovering over the changing kids, and the fact that is where your mind went is … weird.

But then again my elementary boys in APS have yet to walk in on any teen orgies in a locker room.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I went it to public school in NYC in the ‘90s. Of course kids snuck off to have sex. But doing it in the public area of a bathroom with an audience and/or 4 participants? No. That would get you expelled in a heartbeat. That’s not a normal thing to be happening in a HS or for kids to think is normal.

And there is actually zero evidence that actually happened, other than one anonymous mother of ONE of the kids , in a news article. And the one kids moms story differs significantly from the statement released to the parents from the school.

DP I’ll reserve judgment as to what actually happened, but the posters in here acting as if this is NBD and saying “you’re homophobic if you care about this” are absolutely unwell and I sincerely hope they do not have children.

[Anonymous]

My friend works here. This isn’t actually what happened.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I love all the people trying to excuse a 4-way witnessed by small children during the school day.

Literally what is wrong with you?

+1

My kids in APS do swimming field trips to Yorktown and have to change in the locker room. The teachers specifically solicit parents of both genders referencing the need for adults to monitor locker rooms.

I’m a pretty laid back parent about a lot of things (I’ve always been open about talking with my kids about the basics of sex, consent, gay marriage, respecting pronouns, etc. but I hope there is never a day that my response to 9 year olds witnessing other minors have sex in a school locker room is “meh.”

Well I would not want some unknown father to be “chaperoning” my perfectly capable 9 year old changing out of his swimsuit. No. I’d rather the teacher did a check of the Locker room to make sure no teenagers were making out or having sex in the showers and then I’d like them to change in privacy. Not under the watchful eye of Brayden’s father.

Well all the teachers are females (and also busy managing a large group of kids) so yeah they need a chaperone dad to do the sweep of the boys’ locker room and keep an ear out for anything unusual. (And ideally some moms to scan the girls’ locker room as well). I actually think it’s a good thing to have parents help instead of putting every single thing on teachers.

No one said the dad is going to be hovering over the changing kids, and the fact that is where your mind went is … weird.

But then again my elementary boys in APS have yet to walk in on any teen orgies in a locker room.

Was there a reason for the high school students to be there at the time? If not, a teacher of any gender can call out that they are coming in and check the place, same as cleaners do.

If the high school students have a reason to be there at the time, then, yeah, adult supervision is needed.