You are misinterpreting Jesus’ love as a blank check for sinful acts. Jesus loved everyone but didn’t condone their sinful acts. He saved the prostitute but that didn’t mean he condoned prostitution. We can love homosexuals as human beings without condoning homosexuality. We live in a society and we as a society decide what is right and wrong. Should we just let criminals run around because it’s not our responsibility to judge them or do something about it? Stealing and killing are sins. We love criminals as human beings but we asking them to repent and stop their sinful acts. |
DP. You're claiming homosexuality is a "sinful act" and at least implicitly you're comparing it to stealing and killing. Stealing and killing, yes, the Bible clearly says they're sinful, starting with the 10 commandments. What many here, including me, have been arguing is that the Bible, at least the New Testament, does not clearly establish homosexuality as sinful. |
DP. I'm pro-inclusion and anti-homophobia, but this is so dumb it needs a correction. the Bible is older than 2000 BC. The earliest text is from 2700 BC. |
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The fact that Jesus or the New Testament doesn’t explicitly mention homosexuality as sinful shouldn’t be interpreted as an allowance for homosexuality. The New Testament also nowhere mentions bestiality by name as a sin. Should it be interpreted as an allowance for bestiality? You can’t use the absence of explicit statements in the New Testament to weaken Jesus’ moral standards and justify immoral behaviors. |
This is poor logic and bestiality is a straw man. By your logic, the absence of explicit condemnation in the Bible should mean Jesus supports homosexuality. |
Matthew 5:17 (“Do not think that I have come to abolish Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them.”)
Jesus didn’t come to love everyone and tell everyone he loves them even if they sin. He came to offer salvation to sinners- all of us. 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 ESV Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God. |
This. Jesus offers all of us redemption from our sin. We all sin, every day, sometimes intentionally. |
Like the people who judge others over who they love? |
Sexual immorality isn’t love, it’s sin. |
1 Corinthians 6:18 ESV
Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. Hebrews 13:4 ESV Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous. 1 Corinthians 7:2 ESV But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. Proverbs 6:32 ESV He who commits adultery lacks sense; he who does it destroys himself. Colossians 3:5 ESV Put to death therefore what is earthly in you: sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry 1 Peter 2:11 ESV Beloved, I urge you as sojourners and exiles to abstain from the passions of the flesh, which wage war against your soul. |
We are not judging. We are holding to Biblical beliefs |
+1 I am not going to commit adultery and then be mad because people point at out it is sexual immorality according to God’s word. I understand that adultery is very common, and a percentage of married people commit adultery. Are people going to be judged for committing adultery and tell God: “but I loved him/her?” That’s going to make it ok? No. Each person can read the Bible and comprehend what it says. They can make their choices about their life, but they aren’t going to be able to call what’s wrong right, when judged by God. If adulterers want to pretend they are right, they can do so. But we can read that God calls adultery sexual immorality and that’s just how He sees it. If you are a Christian, you have to understand that you don’t do what you want to do, or what makes you happy, but what makes God happy. We all sin and fall short of the grace of God, no question. But pretending that it’s ok for our own reasons isn’t what we should do as Christians. I am not a Christian because I want to do whatever I want and be forgiven. I want to try, sometimes unsuccessfully, to do what is right according to the word of God. My fellow sinners, I am not going to tell them to sin. That’s not helpful to them as Christians and not how Christians should act. We help each other, we don’t encourage each other to sin. |
So what happened to love the sinner? Why is christian "love" so toxic? |
Telling someone they are sinning isn’t toxic nor does it mean you don’t love someone. How is it toxic to want your fellow Christian be saved? What makes sexual sin such a big deal? Modern culture has tried to redefine sexuality as a personal right to be exercised any way an individual wishes. Sexual behavior is considered a personal choice, akin to the decision of whether to buy a house or rent a condo. At the same time, popular opinion has all but removed the word sin from our culture’s vocabulary. The only sexual expression considered “wrong” is what is deemed distasteful to the definer. However, social acceptability varies so greatly that even the vilest of acts would be considered justified by many. So, before we can determine why sexual sin is such a big deal, we have to define sexual sin. Fortunately, man has never been given the privilege of defining sin. The One who created sexuality also has the right to set the boundaries for it, and the Bible is clear about the guidelines. When God created the first man, Adam, and brought to him the first woman, Eve, He joined them together in marriage and pronounced it “very good” (Genesis 1:31; 2:18, 24). At that time, God introduced sexuality and set the boundaries for its expression. God created a union between a husband and wife that He called “becoming one flesh” (Genesis 2:24; Matthew 19:6; Mark 10:8; Ephesians 5:31). He then defined any sexual activity outside of the husband-wife relationship as a violation of His gift. Fornication, homosexuality, pornography, and lust are all violations of God’s intent when He created the sexual act (1 Corinthians 6:9,18; Galatians 5:19-20; Jude 1:7; Matthew 5:28; Hebrews 13:4). Romans 13:13–14 outlines the life God desires us to live: “Let us behave decently, as in the daytime, not in carousing and drunkenness, not in sexual immorality and debauchery, not in dissension and jealousy. Rather, clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and do not think about how to gratify the desires of the flesh.” Sexual sin is one more way people gratify the flesh rather than walk in the Spirit (Galatians 5:16). Jesus said that the “pure in heart” will “see God” (Matthew 5:8). Unrepentant sexual sin defiles the heart, making it impossible to experience the power of the Holy Spirit in our lives. If we wish to be pure in heart, we cannot engage in sexual sin. https://www.gotquestions.org/sexual-sin.html All Christians struggle with sin. All of us do. None of us are able to live and not sin. No one has the distinction of being the “sinner” while the rest of us float around with halos on beaming with happiness because we finally figured out how not to sin. The answer is not to say ah screw it, imma do what I want and the blood of Jesus has me covered. I do know some very religious people who have that exact outlook on sin. They believe they are saved and covered by the Blood of Jesus and can do whatever they want and will be saved. I do not think they are correct. I don’t think the people posting here think that people can be baptized and call themselves Christians and commit adultery, steal, lie, etc. and be saved. I don’t think people who commit sexual immorality are covered by the Blood of Jesus, if they don’t call their sin, sin, confess it to God, and make their best, genuine effort to avoid sexual immorality. There is no hatred for my fellow sinners from me, a sinner, but there’s no way I can give my “permission” and support to someone who purposefully sins and demands I accept their sin. I don’t want to be part of that; I have enough problems with my own sin. I don’t ask anyone to tell me my sin is ok. I know it’s not. I am not going to lie to myself and ask you to lie to me to make me feel better. |