Similar experience at a different school. The middle class students tended to be a lot brighter than the well to do. So I think this is a good thing. Good for Princeton for taking on the pell grant students and the first generation and all of that. There's going to be a lot more talent there than at Choate. |
Original poster here and yes, exactly. I don’t want to go into too many details and out the student, but regardless of race, she is the type of superstar that even the top privates have only once every five years or so. Absolutely deserving of all her acceptances. I’ll add that my husband interviews for another of H/Y/S, and there was a similar off the charts student at another private high school three or four years ago. This student was Asian and she also got into multiple Ivies, including Harvard and Princeton. |
No, everything is not purely genetic. But kids who grew up in a poor environment may be extremely smart and just not had the opportunity to "shine" like a rich kid has. So that really smart kid is still really smart, despite the fact they haven't had every opportunity known to mankind while growing up. Princeton is choosing to find those kids and give them an opportunity for college and beyond. I grew up poor, ate free/reduced lunch many years when there was no income in the family. I worked my ass off with what I had (decent schools, but not the UMC/rich kid schools), but my school did not have as many opportunities as even the other High schools in our district where the "UMC/Rich kids" attended. I had to push to take Algebra 1 in time to be on path for Calc in 12th grade---initially my MS did not offer it and I had to find a way, but thankfully my dad got a job and we moved to a new district where I was able to take it. Otherwise, I was a great math student who might not have made it past pre-calc in HS due to where I lived (don't worry---I was prepared to switch MS if we hadn't moved in order to take the math I needed). Yet even at my new school, there were 600 kids in my senior class and only 13 of us were in Calculus. Meanwhile the two "rich kid's public HS" in our district had 20+ seniors each in "2nd year calculus". I got lucky and made my way to a T10 school with great aide and loans and did well in life. But I struggled in school and was bored and never had the opportunities to shine like some of my peers 15 miles away. I would have loved to have had the more advanced opportunities while growing up. But my parents couldn't afford them |
I totally agree, making college affordable to talented kids who didn't have the opportunity to shine in high school, largely due to finances, is a great thing. I think the risk is they take it too far and these kids actually aren't as talented as you were. Especially if they start dismissing all the potential markers of talent, like test scores. If a kid from a low income background has lousy test scores, spotty grades, writes kinda poorly, etc., it may be lack of finances getting in the way there, or it may just be lack of inherent talent. You can't just assume they would otherwise be a superstar if only daddy were an investment banker. |
Kids with lousy test scores and sporty grades aren’t being admitted to Princeton. |
They generally are not, but it's a question of degree. A lot of not so extraordinary kids are potentially getting in under the cover of lack of privilege while many extraordinary kids are getting rejected because they came from loving well-resourced homes, which is a bad thing nowadays, almost a mark of evil. |
100% If you came from a loving home and are well-adjusted, we don't want you. We want trauma and tragedy. If you had the benefit of a rigorous education due to your privilege, we don't want you. We are really do a psychological number on kids. |
Princeton has enormous resources to put toward figuring out which kids to take. They put a lot of energy into studying admission outcomes. There are two false assumptions on your post—that they are taking poorer kids of average abilities (I haven’t seen evidence of this) and that the richer/legacied kids they historically have taken are all great writers, high scorers, etc. Some are, but some are just really rich, or good at certain sports, or mega-legacies. |
Yes, they favor Pell recipients, because it's a way of verifying need, and easy stat to tout. It's not like for profit schools that target Pell recipients, pocket the money, and only provide a sham education. Princeton will loose money on the aid recipients. Also the Pell recipient would be eligible no matter where they attend, it's not like the tax payers are out something because this kid goes to Princeton instead of a CC. There's still room for the Joel Goodsens, not like that much has changed. |
I'm not making any assumptions. I am proposing that while Princeton in the past (and maybe many schools today) favored less talented kids because they came from means, maybe now they are favoring kids because they do not come from means and in the process "overdoing it"-- looking to solve the nation's alleged income inequality crisis at the expense of the university having the best student body it can assemble. |
People are going to roast you for implying that getting a bunch of poor kids with lesser qualifications is going to hurt Princeton’s reputation, but accepting all those rich kids with suspect credentials over the years has also detracted. Having the likes of George W. Bush, Teddy Kennedy, & Chris “Fredo” Cuomo running around with HYP-level degrees is why Thurston Howell III rang so true. |
But that is NOT the kids Princeton and other T25 are admitting. They are taking the smart kids from the low income areas---kids with good grades and taking the most advanced courses offered at their school (which may just be Pre-calc in senior year). They are taking the bright kids they see, who may only score 1300 on the SAT because they did not take specialized prep courses (I know---my own kid went from 1300 to 1520 with basically 4 hours of one-on-one private test prep after a placement test). |
Give it up---majority of kids are going to get rejected from a school that accepts only 4-6% of students. Your kid did not get rejected because they accept an inner city, poor kid with a 3.0 and 1200. Your kid got rejected because they accepted another UMC/Rich privileged kid who they consider better than your kid or because they accepted a first gen or low income student who has a 3.9 UW and has shined in a bad environment where they have had to overcome many struggles. to accomplish that. Hint: your kid is not that extraordinary in the pool of 50K applicants for each T25 school. If you truly look at kids who get into these school, majority have some "it" factor that just shows drive and determination a few steps above most kids with 1500+/3.99+UW/10Ap+ resumes |
DP. You're playing the disgruntled parent, and can't see things like the school. You think the applicant is so special, the school must take them. The school thinks the education they offer is so extraordinary, they can mold raw clay. Both perspectives are arrogant, but the school can do whatever they want, so you're SOL. That said, there are a lot of Pell-eligible lumps of clay out there, and the schools take only a tiny fraction of them, and they do pick carefully just like any other applicant. Even if you were dirt poor, your kid would have negligible odds--smart and wealthy still rules. |
Despite affirmative action being outlawed a lot of this discussion, specifically the race comments earlier on, seem to assume 'business as usual' with elite college (eg. Princeton) admissions. Is that the general view amongst parents? |