Fencing?!? Stop it. |
DP: grit isn’t exclusive to the poor and working class. Unfortunately, in the world of college admissions it is easier to measure or identify in the underprivileged kid. |
Princeton track and field is now among top in the US. |
Well, that supports the argument that we are better off without geniuses leading the country |
Seriously? If you don’t get it, you don’t get it |
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm not surprised that admissions officers would be more impressed by a kid who plowed through a mediocre or bad public school and came out with great math and writing schools. As opposed to a similar kid who was educated in a private school greenhouse where the teachers were uniformly great, the peers were equally motivated, and the expectations were always high.
Colleges' ultimate goal is to graduate kids who will go on to do great things. The kid with "grit" is more likely to do that than a kid who has been coddled.[/quote] This is the myth. We all fight tooth and nail to give our kids the best upbringing yet simultaneously buy into the idea that years of neglect and under investment k-12 can be compensated for by some extra tutoring, and even confers intangible advantages like “grit.”[/quote] DP: grit isn’t exclusive to the poor and working class. Unfortunately, in the world of college admissions it is easier to measure or identify in the underprivileged kid. [/quote] Seriously? If you don’t get it, you don’t get it [/quote] Honestly it’s probably more difficult to survive some cutthroat upper echelon environment than to coast through with no competition in some broken or mediocre public school system. |
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm not surprised that admissions officers would be more impressed by a kid who plowed through a mediocre or bad public school and came out with great math and writing schools. As opposed to a similar kid who was educated in a private school greenhouse where the teachers were uniformly great, the peers were equally motivated, and the expectations were always high.
Colleges' ultimate goal is to graduate kids who will go on to do great things. The kid with "grit" is more likely to do that than a kid who has been coddled.[/quote] This is the myth. We all fight tooth and nail to give our kids the best upbringing yet simultaneously buy into the idea that years of neglect and under investment k-12 can be compensated for by some extra tutoring, and even confers intangible advantages like “grit.”[/quote] DP: grit isn’t exclusive to the poor and working class. Unfortunately, in the world of college admissions it is easier to measure or identify in the underprivileged kid. [/quote] Seriously? If you don’t get it, you don’t get it [/quote] Honestly it’s probably more difficult to survive some cutthroat upper echelon environment than to coast through with no competition in some broken or mediocre public school system. [/quote] Hmm…I guess you just ignore likely food insecurity, possibly having to raise your younger siblings, work a FT job as well? But sure convince yourself it’s harder for those rich kids. |
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm not surprised that admissions officers would be more impressed by a kid who plowed through a mediocre or bad public school and came out with great math and writing schools. As opposed to a similar kid who was educated in a private school greenhouse where the teachers were uniformly great, the peers were equally motivated, and the expectations were always high.
Colleges' ultimate goal is to graduate kids who will go on to do great things. The kid with "grit" is more likely to do that than a kid who has been coddled.[/quote] This is the myth. We all fight tooth and nail to give our kids the best upbringing yet simultaneously buy into the idea that years of neglect and under investment k-12 can be compensated for by some extra tutoring, and even confers intangible advantages like “grit.”[/quote] DP: grit isn’t exclusive to the poor and working class. Unfortunately, in the world of college admissions it is easier to measure or identify in the underprivileged kid. [/quote] Seriously? If you don’t get it, you don’t get it [/quote] Honestly it’s probably more difficult to survive some cutthroat upper echelon environment than to coast through with no competition in some broken or mediocre public school system. [/quote] Hmm…I guess you just ignore likely food insecurity, possibly having to raise your younger siblings, work a FT job as well? But sure convince yourself it’s harder for those rich kids.[/quote] It potentially is because the poor kids who land at Ivy League schools a) aren’t not eating and b) aren’t being challenged. It sucks to be poor but it mainly involves a lot of sitting around. |
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm not surprised that admissions officers would be more impressed by a kid who plowed through a mediocre or bad public school and came out with great math and writing schools. As opposed to a similar kid who was educated in a private school greenhouse where the teachers were uniformly great, the peers were equally motivated, and the expectations were always high.
Colleges' ultimate goal is to graduate kids who will go on to do great things. The kid with "grit" is more likely to do that than a kid who has been coddled.[/quote] This is the myth. We all fight tooth and nail to give our kids the best upbringing yet simultaneously buy into the idea that years of neglect and under investment k-12 can be compensated for by some extra tutoring, and even confers intangible advantages like “grit.”[/quote] DP: grit isn’t exclusive to the poor and working class. Unfortunately, in the world of college admissions it is easier to measure or identify in the underprivileged kid. [/quote] Seriously? If you don’t get it, you don’t get it [/quote] Honestly it’s probably more difficult to survive some cutthroat upper echelon environment than to coast through with no competition in some broken or mediocre public school system. [/quote] Hmm…I guess you just ignore likely food insecurity, possibly having to raise your younger siblings, work a FT job as well? But sure convince yourself it’s harder for those rich kids.[/quote] It potentially is because the poor kids who land at Ivy League schools a) aren’t not eating and b) aren’t being challenged. It sucks to be poor but it mainly involves a lot of sitting around. [/quote] I am trying to understand your point but it is hard to translate a**speak. Anybody on DCUM able to translate for me? |
I am imagining myself as a 17 year old at a crap school with my IQ. I could pretty easily skate by and get As while getting 1400. Versus getting As at Andover or whatever and getting 1550. Yeah it is lame and shitty to be poor but not necessarily too hard to stand out academically. You’ve got no competition |
I don’t get it…did you have an UMC upbringing? I mean imagine your entire life being poor…not just somehow transporting yourself to 17 only poor at that one moment in time. You are implying your intelligence was hereditary. Let’s pull a Trading Places. Take some billionaire’s kid and have them grow up poor in a terrible neighborhood and do the reverse for the poor kid. They get all the trappings of wealth and get to go to Exeter. I will bet you $1 how it turns out. |
Depending on where you live, $170k is not UMC. In NYC for example, it is MC and hard to live on if you have kids. |
Our kids are in a private in Manhattan, and this is my observation too. |
The scientific evidence shows that intelligence is largely hereditary/genetic. Look into it. |
Do you have any significant assets or no? |