Ladies, how did you meet your rich husband?

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Anonymous wrote:We met at uni in Scotland. He came from a rich family (you've probably heard of them), so everyone knew who he was, but I made sure to "accidentally" bump into him. The breakthrough was when we became roommates. But beware, some of these rich families don't get along. For instance, my BIL and his wife seem to have taken a dislike to me for some reason.

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Anonymous wrote:Online. But I was already top 10% NW for my age and I earn in the top 5% for women.

I am at 1% NW and 3% income for my age as a woman. Having hard times finding a match by the lifestyle: no interest in going back to cheap sushi places with my date where I wouldn't even invite my friends. How long did it take you online to find a "financial and lifestyle" match?

Being high NW lowers a woman’s dating prospects.

You do sound like a materialistic, big spender.

You can be a big spender when you earn a lot.

Yes women do tend to be prone to lifestyle creep.

What’s a lifestyle creep for some people could be a bare necessity for me. I simply don’t have time to spend half a day grocery shopping on weekends, or repair a poor quality car. I cook very well from high end ingredients at home and only would go for fine dining places once a month for experiences (eg dress up, dine on nice plates something I wouldn’t have time to cook at home). No point for me for cheap takeouts or places as it takes 15 min to fix a dinner on my own. I save a lot still, contributing 60-80k a year into my pension plan, so I am not a big spender relative my income. I consider myself very reasonable just picky about lifestyle choices. I don’t stay at Ritz when I travel but not Holiday Inn either: I rent nice apartments with modern appliances

And obviously I am not in debt or anything, with over 5 million NW.

In your situation I’d be okay with marrying someone who made $180-$250K+ with a solid prenup; bc your premarital assets would be protected anyway.

Prenups are regularly thrown out in court

No. Post nips are prenups not so much. Also her assets would be premarital. But with her attitude I’m not sure why she would want to marry unless she wants kids in which case she will have to risk losing half her future earnings like the rest of us.

Responding to this, I don’t want kids or marry. I do want to find a partner in a similar position and views to co-habilitate and enjoy joint retirement on what we both earn.

Then who cares what he earns. Look for compatibility.

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Anonymous wrote:I was an obscure actress and he was the layabout dim-witted brother of the heir. I am smarter than he is so it wasn’t too difficult to wow him and lure him away since people were mostly watching the actual heir.

People who sponsored us were aligning the stars for me to run for White House as a biracial royal but odds doesn't look as favorable as we all imagined.

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Anonymous wrote:We met at uni in Scotland. He came from a rich family (you've probably heard of them), so everyone knew who he was, but I made sure to "accidentally" bump into him. The breakthrough was when we became roommates. But beware, some of these rich families don't get along. For instance, my BIL and his wife seem to have taken a dislike to me for some reason.

Lol! I doubt she was the only teen who dreamt of becoming a princess or felt infatuated with the handsome prince.

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Anonymous wrote:We met at uni in Scotland. He came from a rich family (you've probably heard of them), so everyone knew who he was, but I made sure to "accidentally" bump into him. The breakthrough was when we became roommates. But beware, some of these rich families don't get along. For instance, my BIL and his wife seem to have taken a dislike to me for some reason.

Lol! I doubt she was the only teen who dreamt of becoming a princess or felt infatuated with the handsome prince.

We know of a woman in her late 30's who bumped into another prince though she was naive and ignorant so didn't know most famous family on the planet.

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Anonymous wrote:Online. But I was already top 10% NW for my age and I earn in the top 5% for women.

I am at 1% NW and 3% income for my age as a woman. Having hard times finding a match by the lifestyle: no interest in going back to cheap sushi places with my date where I wouldn't even invite my friends. How long did it take you online to find a "financial and lifestyle" match?

Being high NW lowers a woman’s dating prospects.

You do sound like a materialistic, big spender.

You can be a big spender when you earn a lot.

Yes women do tend to be prone to lifestyle creep.

What’s a lifestyle creep for some people could be a bare necessity for me. I simply don’t have time to spend half a day grocery shopping on weekends, or repair a poor quality car. I cook very well from high end ingredients at home and only would go for fine dining places once a month for experiences (eg dress up, dine on nice plates something I wouldn’t have time to cook at home). No point for me for cheap takeouts or places as it takes 15 min to fix a dinner on my own. I save a lot still, contributing 60-80k a year into my pension plan, so I am not a big spender relative my income. I consider myself very reasonable just picky about lifestyle choices. I don’t stay at Ritz when I travel but not Holiday Inn either: I rent nice apartments with modern appliances

And obviously I am not in debt or anything, with over 5 million NW.

In your situation I’d be okay with marrying someone who made $180-$250K+ with a solid prenup; bc your premarital assets would be protected anyway.

Prenups are regularly thrown out in court

No. Post nips are prenups not so much. Also her assets would be premarital. But with her attitude I’m not sure why she would want to marry unless she wants kids in which case she will have to risk losing half her future earnings like the rest of us.

Responding to this, I don’t want kids or marry. I do want to find a partner in a similar position and views to co-habilitate and enjoy joint retirement on what we both earn.

Then who cares what he earns. Look for compatibility.

Men who earn too little relative female partners are compatible in lifestyle choices. They wound always consider her “spilt” making her lifestyle choices, they won’t be able to agree on joint travel budget, he will be keeping scores for his/contributions non stop etc. I’ve been there already so I know

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Anonymous wrote:Online. But I was already top 10% NW for my age and I earn in the top 5% for women.

I am at 1% NW and 3% income for my age as a woman. Having hard times finding a match by the lifestyle: no interest in going back to cheap sushi places with my date where I wouldn't even invite my friends. How long did it take you online to find a "financial and lifestyle" match?

Being high NW lowers a woman’s dating prospects.

You do sound like a materialistic, big spender.

You can be a big spender when you earn a lot.

Yes women do tend to be prone to lifestyle creep.

What’s a lifestyle creep for some people could be a bare necessity for me. I simply don’t have time to spend half a day grocery shopping on weekends, or repair a poor quality car. I cook very well from high end ingredients at home and only would go for fine dining places once a month for experiences (eg dress up, dine on nice plates something I wouldn’t have time to cook at home). No point for me for cheap takeouts or places as it takes 15 min to fix a dinner on my own. I save a lot still, contributing 60-80k a year into my pension plan, so I am not a big spender relative my income. I consider myself very reasonable just picky about lifestyle choices. I don’t stay at Ritz when I travel but not Holiday Inn either: I rent nice apartments with modern appliances

And obviously I am not in debt or anything, with over 5 million NW.

In your situation I’d be okay with marrying someone who made $180-$250K+ with a solid prenup; bc your premarital assets would be protected anyway.

Prenups are regularly thrown out in court

No. Post nips are prenups not so much. Also her assets would be premarital. But with her attitude I’m not sure why she would want to marry unless she wants kids in which case she will have to risk losing half her future earnings like the rest of us.

Responding to this, I don’t want kids or marry. I do want to find a partner in a similar position and views to co-habilitate and enjoy joint retirement on what we both earn.

Then who cares what he earns. Look for compatibility.

Men who earn too little relative female partners are compatible in lifestyle choices. They wound always consider her “spilt” making her lifestyle choices, they won’t be able to agree on joint travel budget, he will be keeping scores for his/contributions non stop etc. I’ve been there already so I know

Not compatible, typo again

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He was my divorce lawyer. I picked him because he was ugly and I thought I’d get a better settlement if I wasn’t distracted by my lawyer’s hotness. He is not as rich as my first husband, but he has a heart of gold.

Lol. Charlotte!

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Anonymous wrote:I was an obscure actress and he was the layabout dim-witted brother of the heir. I am smarter than he is so it wasn’t too difficult to wow him and lure him away since people were mostly watching the actual heir.

People who sponsored us were aligning the stars for me to run for White House as a biracial royal but odds doesn't look as favorable as we all imagined.

Shockingly rising his fame while dissing its source has turned out to be more problematic than we imagined. Now we must economize by only living in a modest $14K place when really wealthy people in our neighborhood have much more, and had to relinquish our second home. Ladies, take note!

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^riding

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^I meant $14M of course. But we all must make compromises on starter homes.

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I didn’t know 400k salary was rich

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Anonymous wrote:I didn’t know 400k salary was rich

It’s over 4x the average HHI for DC and well over the median HHI for Bethesda & McLean.

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Anonymous wrote:I didn’t know 400k salary was rich

According to Biden’s tax plan that’s actually the cutoff for rich.

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Anonymous wrote:I didn’t know 400k salary was rich

According to Biden’s tax plan that’s actually the cutoff for rich.

The problem is when the average person thinks rich they envision private jets, mansions, yachts, spending without a care in the world, etc. People who make 400k get lumped in with the billionaire class even though they have nothing in common. Even someone with 20M net worth is way above the typical 400k/yr worker.