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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Online. But I was already top 10% NW for my age and I earn in the top 5% for women.[/quote]

I am at 1% NW and 3% income for my age as a woman. Having hard times finding a match by the lifestyle: no interest in going back to cheap sushi places with my date where I wouldn't even invite my friends. How long did it take you online to find a "financial and lifestyle" match?[/quote]

Being high NW lowers a woman’s dating prospects.

You do sound like a materialistic, big spender.[/quote]

You can be a big spender when you earn a lot.[/quote]

Yes women do tend to be prone to lifestyle creep.[/quote]

What’s a lifestyle creep for some people could be a bare necessity for me. I simply don’t have time to spend half a day grocery shopping on weekends, or repair a poor quality car. I cook very well from high end ingredients at home and only would go for fine dining places once a month for experiences (eg dress up, dine on nice plates something I wouldn’t have time to cook at home). No point for me for cheap takeouts or places as it takes 15 min to fix a dinner on my own. I save a lot still, contributing 60-80k a year into my pension plan, so I am not a big spender relative my income. I consider myself very reasonable just picky about lifestyle choices. I don’t stay at Ritz when I travel but not Holiday Inn either: I rent nice apartments with modern appliances [/quote]

And obviously I am not in debt or anything, with over 5 million NW. [/quote]

In your situation I’d be okay with marrying someone who made $180-$250K+ with a solid prenup; bc your premarital assets would be protected anyway. [/quote]

Prenups are regularly thrown out in court[/quote]

No.  Post nips are prenups not so much. Also her assets would be premarital. But with her attitude I’m not sure why she would want to marry unless she wants kids in which case she will have to risk losing half her future earnings like the rest of us.[/quote]

Responding to this, I don’t want kids or marry. I do want to find a partner in a similar position and views to co-habilitate and enjoy joint retirement on what we both earn. [/quote]

Then who cares what he earns. Look for compatibility. [/quote]

Men who earn too little relative female partners are compatible in lifestyle choices. They wound always consider her “spilt” making her lifestyle choices, they won’t be able to agree on joint travel budget, he will be keeping scores for his/contributions non stop etc. I’ve been there already so I know [/quote]

Not compatible, typo again [/quote]

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