I'm saving $160k per year my friend |
You’re the one who said you’d have to live in a porta potty if your income went down. |
Correct |
Not if you’re saving $160k/year. |
| I could if we didn't have to pay someone to shuttle our tweens around (and we probably wouldn't have that cost if our take home was at $7K). |
Tell me that you have an <3% mortgage on a house you bought >10 years ago without telling me. |
| We did that for a long time. That was with a SAHM so we didn't have to pay for daycare. |
I am. |
Or they live in a condo, TH or less trendy area. Don’t be house poor. |
Correct. I’m not the PP but I bought my house for $398,000 in 2020. You just have to not be in DC proper. |
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It's doable but you definitely need to keep the big ticket expenses (housing, childcare) in check. In this area it's easy to spend that amount in just a mortgage payment and daycare for a couple kids alone!
We had around that amount take home pay when our youngest was born. We bought a modest house 9 years ago when interest rates were low, so our PITI is only $2k per month, so there was some luck there too with timing. That would be much harder to achieve today. We chose an in-home daycare over a center for the infant years so daycare was only $1300 per month. By the time we had our second, our salaries had both increased slightly and now our monthly take home pay is closer to $9k per month, which provides a lot more breathing room. $7k per month would have been harder with two kids in daycare, we might have had to space them out more. |
| Sure. I'm 60 and have never had HHI of $7,000 monthly after taxes. |
| We have about the same take home after taxes and after 401k contributions. We have 2 kids. Public school, drive old cars, live in a small house w modest furniture/decor/nothing fancy, no maid service or lawn service, strict budget for groceries, kids activities thru rec center or parks dept not $$ activities, cheap vacations like road trips/camping/bring your own food, hope and pray you never have a medical emergency that insurance doesn’t cover. |
+1 to this, always in the back of my mind and a bit stressful. And an emergency fund for car repairs because you'll need it eventually. Also my kids will go to community college first (or maybe commute to UMD if they get in) to save on costs there. |
+1 it's like those people who claim illegal immigrants get free everything, and how great that must be. Uh.. yea, ok, try going over the border, lose your passport, and make the dangerous trek across the border. I grew up lower income. It sucked. Never again. I also have lived through two recessions and a layoff. I make sure we have at least one years worth of living expenses in liquid assets. And, we try to live on one income for basic needs. If you want to live a very basic life, with not quality food, used clothing, junky cars, go ahead and be low income. I've done all of that. Never ever again. |