| I live on 6000 after taxes. It’s totally doable if you budget correctly. |
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Sure.
Our current take home is about $12k, and that is about $5k for the nanny, about $4k for PITI, and $3k for everything else. If that went down to $7k, we'd probably have had to space our kids out more and just have one in childcare at a time (yay DC PK-3!), plus use daycare. So childcare would drop to $2k. Then we'd have gotten a cheaper house, so let's say $2.5k PITI. And then other cuts for another $500 less, that would bring us to $7k total. |
You are not alone buddy, 200 million of Americans live on less than that. |
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Family of 3, we live on about this (income fluctuates a little year to year) and it's doable. But this assumes 401k and pension contributions, and health insurance, are coming out first. I don't know how else to calculate it since those come out before taxes. But after those, here's our monthly budget roughly:
2600 mortgage/property taxes 300 water/gas/electric/trash/landscaping 600 ordinary food expenses (groceries, school lunch, does not include dining out) 400 childcare (aftercare is cheap, but this includes occasional sitters and spreading camp funds out over the course of the year) 300 cell phones/streaming services/books/internet 200 gas/car insurance/other transportation (we only pay cash for cars so no car payment, and no car commute but we do spend about 80/mo on other transportation) 500 entertainment outside the house (restaurants, bars, movies, etc.) 200 clothes/shoes/miscellaneous consumer items (we buy very little and when we do, we look for consignment/buy nothing options, then sales, and only pay full price if those options are not sufficient) 500 Roth IRA 1000 split between child's savings account and 529 Remainder goes to ordinary savings. We also throw any cash gifts and tax returns there. We maintain about 40k in an emergency fund (built up well before we had a kid). It's used to pay out occasional expenses like a new washer dryer, but then we replenish with whatever our monthly surplus is, plus any additional cash we receive. We determine vacations based on the surplus over 40k, and any excess over that goes into I-bonds or a brokerage account. Some years that's nothing, other years it's 20k. Depends whether we want to splurge a bit on vacation, as well as the size of our tax return, and the cost of one-off expenses. Like if we buy a car, vacations are cheap and local and no extra money for investments. But that's once every 8-12 years. Also sometimes our parents will write us a bigger check as a Christmas gift (no idea why they sometimes do this, it's random and we don't count on this money but we will randomly get a check for 4k some years). It's pretty doable. I don't feel rich but also far from poor. I think we enjoy our lives but are also good savers and I feel okay about both college for DC and our retirement. We'll never be rich but we'll be fine. |
In lower COL. |
| No definitely not. Like I would have to clean my own house??? Better to be homeless. |
Emotional damage!! |
Start a Gofund me. You totally need it. |
If PP is a single parent that is absolutely tight. |
| We are just over $20k per month after taxes and live in a townhouse. Can't imagine 1/3 of that I assume I would live in a porta potty |
Lol |
Daycare alone for one kid is $1300+/month. |
You’re terrible with money. |
| I have that paycheck. I spend from savings to make up difference. |
Nope. I am in DC and always have been. |