Would you suggest implants ?

[Anonymous]

I was an A cup before I had a baby and never had issues dating because of that.

[Anonymous]

Don't do it. You are already early 40s with what sounds like a great body. Why tempt fate.

[Anonymous]

I’m built exactly like you and I also went through a phase where I thought I wanted implants. Then I came to my senses. Clothes look so much better on me than they would if I had implants. I can rock a silk blouse with just a pair of nippies and look like a million bucks. Why would I want to change that? Sure, bathing suits can be tricky because 95% are designed for people with boobs. But let me tell you, those 5% that are designed for us flat girls look awesome. There’s a mom at our pool who looks like she could be on the cover of sports illustrated. Guess what. She’s built like you. Of course plastic surgeons are going to tell you that you need them. It’s how they make their money. But you’re built like a supermodel. Own it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m built exactly like you and I also went through a phase where I thought I wanted implants. Then I came to my senses. Clothes look so much better on me than they would if I had implants. I can rock a silk blouse with just a pair of nippies and look like a million bucks. Why would I want to change that? Sure, bathing suits can be tricky because 95% are designed for people with boobs. But let me tell you, those 5% that are designed for us flat girls look awesome. There’s a mom at our pool who looks like she could be on the cover of sports illustrated. Guess what. She’s built like you. Of course plastic surgeons are going to tell you that you need them. It’s how they make their money. But you’re built like a supermodel. Own it.

My plastic surgeon tries to talk me out of it - he says something similar “ he doesn’t like to play with what looks good already”. It’s really my hang up mostly because I see all these women in the summer wearing crop tops with huge boobs. I had sex with 4 men in my life they didn’t say anything. Two were very attentive to that area in bed which makes me very excited. Other 2 were not (and the relationships didn’t last), and I think maybe they didn’t like me being small.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why is this in the relationship forum?

OP here: because it is interesting for me to find out what drives men’s dating choices. Are they going to continue a relationship if boobs are smaller than they expected? Or in modern world and in the US where women have really big boobs I am being ruled out from get go ? If they are used to DD average, what would they feel like with a woman with B cup? Like they “settled” because she’s nice person otherwise or really enjoy her looks and body? Intimacy is important to me so if men think of small tits like settling for less and would be less satisfied long term, I would rather have implants.

What country are you from that makes you think Americans all have big breasts? (You wrote that several pages back). Everything you've written makes me think your breast size isn't the problem.

I am European. Don’t want to specify but women in Denmark, Germany, Finland have way smaller boobs. US women are huge in that area. Many have implants (not as common in Europe). I went to the gyms here and in Europe so I can say for certain. Just feel like I am an outcast or something

No they don't. I'm German, and have lived in Denmark as well. That's just your bias and weird observation. Women in Northern Europe come in all sizes. There are fewer implants, sure, but there aren't that many in the DC area either. It's not Miami or LA. You sound a bit nuts in all of your posts.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m built exactly like you and I also went through a phase where I thought I wanted implants. Then I came to my senses. Clothes look so much better on me than they would if I had implants. I can rock a silk blouse with just a pair of nippies and look like a million bucks. Why would I want to change that? Sure, bathing suits can be tricky because 95% are designed for people with boobs. But let me tell you, those 5% that are designed for us flat girls look awesome. There’s a mom at our pool who looks like she could be on the cover of sports illustrated. Guess what. She’s built like you. Of course plastic surgeons are going to tell you that you need them. It’s how they make their money. But you’re built like a supermodel. Own it.

My plastic surgeon tries to talk me out of it - he says something similar “ he doesn’t like to play with what looks good already”. It’s really my hang up mostly because I see all these women in the summer wearing crop tops with huge boobs. I had sex with 4 men in my life they didn’t say anything. Two were very attentive to that area in bed which makes me very excited. Other 2 were not (and the relationships didn’t last), and I think maybe they didn’t like me being small.

Yuck. Take it to the explicit forum, nobody wants to hear about your sex life.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Big boobs just make you look heavy, especially as you age.

Implants don’t necessarily mean big boobs. I went from an A to a C.

C is a big size!

C is not big at all.

[Anonymous]

OP, I'm a thin woman with a nice face and small breasts and that has never held me back from getting attention from men. My boyfriends/husband were drawn to me and there are men out there who love the thin, elegant body look. Just be confident!

Im now 42 and my breasts have been on a journey... They did increase in size a bit whenever I went on birth control pills, and when I was nursing both kids they were just fantastic. They went up to a C cup and I got to experience what that was like I will admit that my husband liked them then. But he's perfectly happy now!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, I'm a thin woman with a nice face and small breasts and that has never held me back from getting attention from men. My boyfriends/husband were drawn to me and there are men out there who love the thin, elegant body look. Just be confident!

Im now 42 and my breasts have been on a journey... They did increase in size a bit whenever I went on birth control pills, and when I was nursing both kids they were just fantastic. They went up to a C cup and I got to experience what that was like I will admit that my husband liked them then. But he's perfectly happy now!

Good for you ! I am thinking of size C implant not too big

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m built exactly like you and I also went through a phase where I thought I wanted implants. Then I came to my senses. Clothes look so much better on me than they would if I had implants. I can rock a silk blouse with just a pair of nippies and look like a million bucks. Why would I want to change that? Sure, bathing suits can be tricky because 95% are designed for people with boobs. But let me tell you, those 5% that are designed for us flat girls look awesome. There’s a mom at our pool who looks like she could be on the cover of sports illustrated. Guess what. She’s built like you. Of course plastic surgeons are going to tell you that you need them. It’s how they make their money. But you’re built like a supermodel. Own it.

Can you share some bathing suits that look good on women with small breasts?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why is this in the relationship forum?

OP here: because it is interesting for me to find out what drives men’s dating choices. Are they going to continue a relationship if boobs are smaller than they expected? Or in modern world and in the US where women have really big boobs I am being ruled out from get go ? If they are used to DD average, what would they feel like with a woman with B cup? Like they “settled” because she’s nice person otherwise or really enjoy her looks and body? Intimacy is important to me so if men think of small tits like settling for less and would be less satisfied long term, I would rather have implants.

You are a whole person, not a set of breasts. I have to write this, you seem dim witted snd one dimensional. I think that is what prevents you getting third dates.

Honestly, this. The problem is not your breasts, it's that you think it is. I've been a DD since 11th grade. I don't think my dating experience was better or worse than those of my smaller friends.

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Anonymous wrote:Big boobs just make you look heavy, especially as you age.

This. Big boobs can make you look matronly over time.

I’m a middle aged woman with big boobs and this is so true! I’m fit but look heavier than I am especially when I wear baggy shirts. I would love to have small, perky boobs!

[Anonymous]

OP, tune up your BJ skills and you won't have any issues attracting men.

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Anonymous wrote:I have no opinion either way, but consider it will not be a one time surgery. You have to get 'tune ups' and sometimes things go wrong, like implant leak or your body having autoimmune problems because it starts attacking your immune system. Buyer beware!

This is outdated information and not true for modern implants unless there is a problem.

The thing is problems are common. My surgeon told me they would need to be replaced in 10 years. My friend wore hers for 7, and then needed a replacement when one hardened

Not sure when you had your surgery, but this isn’t the case any longer. That being said, you have to be prepared in the event of a problem. I know many people with implants for over a decade with no issues, and I haven’t had any with mine either.

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Anonymous wrote:This whole thread is worthless without pics.

I actually tried to connect a modest photo but moderator won’t let me. Just find Kate Moss Perelli shoot gallery - that’s my exact body type.

A c cup would like look disproportional on you. If you were to do implants, it’s likely more like a small B and that’s the max.