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I flat-out do not trust school systems any more and certainly don’t trust them to handle even more money. I have a disabled child. I have become very pro-voucher and pro-charter, even though I wasn’t either pre-pandemic. You can’t gaslight me any more into claiming charter schools won’t educate my kid, because the standard school system has demonstrated that it is entirely uninterested in educating my kid. I might as well fight for charters and vouchers at this point. |
And your smart kid is now removed from the public school system. I wonder if they care... I also did homeschool-type activities during distance learning. When my son went back the teacher told me (without me prompting) that since he was so advanced he was getting an opportunity at enrichment by being a "math buddy" to a struggling student. This struggling student was throwing school supplies, making fart noises at my son when he was trying to teach and punched other students (not my son thankfully). My son cried that he hated math now. We ended up pulling him out for private school where he can do his work alone and concentrate. The first thing he said he liked about the new school was "It's so nice and quiet." I know this isn't the teacher's fault. This comes from much higher up. The struggling student who was throwing things and punching kids should have been in their own classroom and should have had an adult to be the "math buddy", not my child. Other problems include the time completely wasted on Chromebook games, Wellness activities like meditation to calm kids who are only getting one 15 minute recess, and schools seemingly unconcerned about plummeting test scores. At the local school board meeting they showed the staggering drop, patted themselves on the back about the scores not being even worse, and said "these don't mean much in the context of the pandemic." Why bother testing the kids if the scores don't mean anything? Why send your kids to a building full of professional teachers who are going to watch them put on headphones and mess around with computer games for hours? |
I would also like to know. Is PP talking about jailing parents? Taking the kids away from the parents? |
DP. I read that to mean, suspending students when necessary (this is a signal to parents that things are serious) and also giving kids real grades instead of inflated ones, as well as giving kids failing grades when they do not earn passing grades. Students who do not do well in school are their parents problem, as well as society's - but right now we are trying hard to hide the problem in the hopes that it will go away. Parents should know where their kids stand instead of being shielded. |
Apparently suspension isn't found to improve behavior: https://www.air.org/sites/default/files/2021-08/NYC-Suspension-Effects-Behavioral-Academic-Outcomes-August-2021.pdf |
To add: It also isn't found to have any impact on other students. "The severity of exclusionary disciplinary response has no effect on the behavior, academic outcomes, or attendance of peers in the same grade within the disciplined student’s school, nor does it have effects on students’ or teachers’ perceptions of school climate." |
Ok, and then what? I have seen suspension go either way...sometimes it is a wake up call and the parent starts taking things more seriously, but more often it's what the kid wants and with the exception of the little ones (<2nd grade) usually the parents just leave them home...kids gets to stay home, parent still goes to work- not a bad gig. |
I can tell you've not worked in schools. There are SOME parents of children with significant academic/behavioral concerns who have their head in the clouds and just need that wake up call to take responsibility, but many, many (most?) parents of these students KNOW "where their kid stands"...they just don't have the wherewithal or desire to do much about it. |
+1. What do you think a suspension does? It just gives a kid days off from school. Same with inflated grades. Schools give inflated grades to make themselves look good -- it isn't to make the student feel better about themselves. Even if you failed kids out of school, that kid will still continue to live. If they can't get a job, they will just turn to crime to get what they need. Your solutions to holding parents accountable don't do anything to improve the situation. |
So....what's the solution, then, to the behavioral issues that seem to be causing a whole lot of problems for teachers and other students? I know it's probably "end poverty and addiction" but what about the shorter term? |
Uninterested in educating your kid, or doesn't have the staff to do it? If you recall, MCPS had 90 open positions for special ed teachers in the start of the school year. Why do you think that is? Overworked? Over paperworked? Too many students and not enough teachers and paras? How do you get more of those teachers? You pay them more, and give them fewer students at once. |
so we are seeing significant behavior/mental health concerns in schools. getting rid of sel will help that? |
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Bring in the immigrants who grew up in genuine poverty in developing countries, got degrees in marketable areas or became entrepreneurs and are now American UMCs to be mentors to disadvantaged youth.
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Union rules demand that special ed teachers be paid the same as other teachers though anyone knows the job is infinitely more difficult. They should be paid a differential. |
What charters happily accept disabled students? Most try their hardest to get rid of them because they don't have the resources |