The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe if you women read the book and took some of the advice you wouldn’t be on here so often complaining about your miserable marriages and how you hate your husband.

I love my husband, am grateful for him and have never posted a complaint about him. Dr Laura can kiss my a$$.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Most women hate men on here so you won’t find them liking the advice.

I think most of those books in general are silly, but I have a very traditional marriage. I enjoy taking care of my husband pleasing and that includes cooking for him, sex usually whenever he wants, and alone time for him and us as a couple. In return he is a provider for our family. This doesn’t mean he is lazy - he does a lot of cooking, cleaning, and helping raise our kids, but I do think we have more defined roles and it works for us. He supports and respects me and I do the same for him. You would be surprised how easy supportive and loving a husband is when he has a wife who appreciates and respects him.

omg.. this made me barf. But, ok, you do you.

-signed happily married for 20 yrs woman

To each their own but it works for us. Some women actually enjoy being caretakers for their family. Sounds like you’re not one of them. I’m glad you felt like you needed to respond like a 5 year old. It shows your level of maturity.

troll

No but I guess your small mind can’t understand that some women like being in more traditional marriages. I love being a SAHM and a devoted wife. Funny how you call troll because you can’t fathom someone not hating men like you do. Hate to break it to you but we need to populate our country. I love men and don’t hate them.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Say what you want about her, but a lot of things she says are true, but people don't want to admit it.

Everybody has some good points but yes liberals won't acknowledge anything good in conservative values and vice versa. No surprise in that.

Didn't she have a 9 year affair with a married man that broke his marriage? Is this a "good conservative value"? Same with the gubernatorial candidate from OR who is married and a swinger.

Well, so did Einstein with her cousin while he was married from 1912-1919 and married her right after his divorce, did't take part in raising his children. That never stopped anyone from acknowledging his work. Trump and Clinton weren't actually into fidelity either.

Wait, did Einstein write a book giving advice on marriage?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Maybe if you women read the book and took some of the advice you wouldn’t be on here so often complaining about your miserable marriages and how you hate your husband.

I love my husband, am grateful for him and have never posted a complaint about him. Dr Laura can kiss my a$$.

Then that was not for you. Most of the people on this forum are women who post thread about unhappy they are and how much they hate their husbands.

[Anonymous]

I have listened to her radio show. She is actually a really mean person and very insulting to people. She is the opposite of a kind person - maybe she does that to be entertaining? Whatever it is, I would never take marriage advice from someone that is so horrible to people. She just sounds super bitter.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Distinguishing marks of a troll post:

1) controversial, divisive topic, e.g. mommy wars, SAH vs WOH, etc.
2) many ad hominem follow up posts attacking people on both sides
3) posts that appear to be conciliatory but actually fan the flames more with vague, ideologically overdetermined statements
4) not speaking from personal experience with any kind of believable emotion or detail
5) extreme positions, black/ white thinking encouraged, eg either you only devote yourself to your family or you aren’t nurturing

We know this board has been targeted by Russian trolls due to the Political section, and we know that these trolls are paid to increase social tensions and negative feelings on social media.

Yes please don’t feed the troll

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Maybe if you women read the book and took some of the advice you wouldn’t be on here so often complaining about your miserable marriages and how you hate your husband.

I love my husband, am grateful for him and have never posted a complaint about him. Dr Laura can kiss my a$$.

Then that was not for you. Most of the people on this forum are women who post thread about unhappy they are and how much they hate their husbands.

Is that why you decided to troll here? You don’t understand the first thing about American women.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Most women hate men on here so you won’t find them liking the advice.

I think most of those books in general are silly, but I have a very traditional marriage. I enjoy taking care of my husband pleasing and that includes cooking for him, sex usually whenever he wants, and alone time for him and us as a couple. In return he is a provider for our family. This doesn’t mean he is lazy - he does a lot of cooking, cleaning, and helping raise our kids, but I do think we have more defined roles and it works for us. He supports and respects me and I do the same for him. You would be surprised how easy supportive and loving a husband is when he has a wife who appreciates and respects him.

omg.. this made me barf. But, ok, you do you.

-signed happily married for 20 yrs woman

To each their own but it works for us. Some women actually enjoy being caretakers for their family. Sounds like you’re not one of them. I’m glad you felt like you needed to respond like a 5 year old. It shows your level of maturity.

troll

No but I guess your small mind can’t understand that some women like being in more traditional marriages. I love being a SAHM and a devoted wife. Funny how you call troll because you can’t fathom someone not hating men like you do. Hate to break it to you but we need to populate our country. I love men and don’t hate them.

Laura seems the one filled with hate actually.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Most women hate men on here so you won’t find them liking the advice.

I think most of those books in general are silly, but I have a very traditional marriage. I enjoy taking care of my husband pleasing and that includes cooking for him, sex usually whenever he wants, and alone time for him and us as a couple. In return he is a provider for our family. This doesn’t mean he is lazy - he does a lot of cooking, cleaning, and helping raise our kids, but I do think we have more defined roles and it works for us. He supports and respects me and I do the same for him. You would be surprised how easy supportive and loving a husband is when he has a wife who appreciates and respects him.

omg.. this made me barf. But, ok, you do you.

-signed happily married for 20 yrs woman

To each their own but it works for us. Some women actually enjoy being caretakers for their family. Sounds like you’re not one of them. I’m glad you felt like you needed to respond like a 5 year old. It shows your level of maturity.

Why do we have to populate our country?

troll

No but I guess your small mind can’t understand that some women like being in more traditional marriages. I love being a SAHM and a devoted wife. Funny how you call troll because you can’t fathom someone not hating men like you do. Hate to break it to you but we need to populate our country. I love men and don’t hate them.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Say what you want about her, but a lot of things she says are true, but people don't want to admit it.

Everybody has some good points but yes liberals won't acknowledge anything good in conservative values and vice versa. No surprise in that.

Yup, as an immigrant this is what I find very hard to understand in US. Everything is liberals vs conservatives or dems vs reps. All is black or white, no nuances. Both sides can have something good to bring at the table

Have you heard the way Dr. Laura talks about liberals? She absolutely contributes to that divide.

Yes. Most is fairly accurate.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have listened to her radio show. She is actually a really mean person and very insulting to people. She is the opposite of a kind person - maybe she does that to be entertaining? Whatever it is, I would never take marriage advice from someone that is so horrible to people. She just sounds super bitter.

She was different when she started out, eons ago. She was much more open and thoughtful originally. I think there’s value to be found in the books she wrote early in her career. She definitely got more strident and rigid as time went on and her fame grew.

I’m honestly surprised how strongly people are reacting to this thread. She hasn’t really been relevant in literally decades.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have listened to her radio show. She is actually a really mean person and very insulting to people. She is the opposite of a kind person - maybe she does that to be entertaining? Whatever it is, I would never take marriage advice from someone that is so horrible to people. She just sounds super bitter.

Even though I find some of her points pretty solid, all you said rings true.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Most women hate men on here so you won’t find them liking the advice.

I think most of those books in general are silly, but I have a very traditional marriage. I enjoy taking care of my husband pleasing and that includes cooking for him, sex usually whenever he wants, and alone time for him and us as a couple. In return he is a provider for our family. This doesn’t mean he is lazy - he does a lot of cooking, cleaning, and helping raise our kids, but I do think we have more defined roles and it works for us. He supports and respects me and I do the same for him. You would be surprised how easy supportive and loving a husband is when he has a wife who appreciates and respects him.

omg.. this made me barf. But, ok, you do you.

-signed happily married for 20 yrs woman

To each their own but it works for us. Some women actually enjoy being caretakers for their family. Sounds like you’re not one of them. I’m glad you felt like you needed to respond like a 5 year old. It shows your level of maturity.

troll

No but I guess your small mind can’t understand that some women like being in more traditional marriages. I love being a SAHM and a devoted wife. Funny how you call troll because you can’t fathom someone not hating men like you do. Hate to break it to you but we need to populate our country. I love men and don’t hate them.

Why do we need to populate our country?

[Anonymous]

She's anti-gay, misogynist, always blames the victims, and also racist. I couldn't imagine taking any advice from her. I actually think she is a narcissist.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Love this letter to Dr. Laura in response to her opinion that gay people are "mistakes of nature."

Dear Dr. Laura,

Thank you for doing so much to educate people regarding God’s Law. I have learned a great deal from your show, and I try to share that knowledge with as many people as I can. When someone tries to defend the homosexual lifestyle, for example, I simply remind him that Leviticus 18:22 clearly states it to be an abomination. End of debate.

I do need some advice from you, however, regarding some of the specific laws and how to best follow them.

a) When I burn a bull on the altar as a sacrifice, I know it creates a pleasing odor for the Lord (Lev 1:9). The problem is my neighbors. They claim the odor is not pleasing to them. Should I smite them?

b) I would like to sell my daughter into slavery, as sanctioned in Exodus 21:7. In this day and age, what do you think would be a fair price for her?

c) I know that I am allowed no contact with a woman while she is in her period of menstrual uncleanliness (Lev 15:19-24). The problem is, how do I tell? I have tried asking, but most women take offense.

d) Lev. 25:44 states that I may indeed possess slaves, both male and female, provided they are purchased from neighboring nations. A friend of mine claims that this applies to Mexicans, but not Canadians. Can you clarify? Why can’t I own Canadians?

e) I have a neighbor who insists on working on the Sabbath. Exodus 35:2 clearly states he should be put to death. Am I morally obligated to kill him myself?

f) A friend of mine feels that even though eating shellfish is an Abomination (Lev 11:10), it is a lesser abomination than homosexuality. I don’t agree. Can you settle this?

g) Lev 21:20 states that I may not approach the altar of God if I have a defect in my sight. I have to admit that I wear reading glasses. Does my vision have to be 20/20, or is there some wiggle room here?

h) Most of my male friends get their hair trimmed, including the hair around their temples, even though this is expressly forbidden by Lev 19:27. How should they die?

i) I know from Lev 11:6-8 that touching the skin of a dead pig makes me unclean, but may I still play football if I wear gloves?

j) My uncle has a farm. He violates Lev 19:19 by planting two different crops in the same field, as does his wife by wearing garments made of two different kinds of thread (cotton/polyester blend). He also tends to curse and blaspheme a lot. Is it really necessary that we go to all the trouble of getting the whole town together to stone them? (Lev 24:10-16) Couldn’t we just burn them to death at a private family affair like we do with people who sleep with their in-laws? (Lev. 20:14)

I know you have studied these things extensively, so I am confident you can help.

Thank you again for reminding us that God’s word is eternal and unchanging.