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Anonymous wrote:Housing stock in Boulder is interesting. Their house may be be small AND expensive. What’s it like? If it’s in a good neighborhood and nice inside, it may cost more than you think.
Lots of people with money choose to spend it on things other than housing. Do they travel a lot? Eat out frequently? Have expensive hobbies? Do they ski? Do they maybe have a second home is Estes Park or Breckenridge? Etc.
Also, I know a lot of doctors who never quite over the experience if being a resident even when they advanced and started making a lot of money. They never really feel rich even when they are. This happens with doctors kids, too, if they have childhood memories if those very long hours without that much money. I know people whose parents paid out of pocket for college and grad school, helped them with a down payment, and pay fir annual family vacations to Europe or the Caribbean, but describe their parents as “middle class”. Their early experience skewed their perception and it never adjusted.
You just described my childhood! I thought we were poor all through elementary and middle school because we drove to vacation (which were always to battlefields, historical sites, state parks, etc) and stayed in crappy motels. Always went places off season, no name brand clothes, few Christmas presents. I thought we were poor and my friends whose parents drove trucks and worked at the GM plant were rich because they always had the nice cars and cool clothes. My dad was just in a different frame of mind as he was building his practice. We suddenly had a vacation HOME and moved into a giant house when I was in 8th grade, and I was like “oh wait, are WE rich?!” My parents are multimillionaires now but still fly coach, drive their cars until they wear out, wear cheap watches, and reuse everything. That mindset is hard to shake even when you’ve sent three kids through boarding school and private college.