I get this because I felt this way too. I'm sure it also happens in lots of other occupations these days too, like big law, etc. But we did make it through raising our kids, mostly because my DH really prioritized going to as many family events as he could and being a supportive Dad despite the long hours and weekend work. This was the main reason I was a SAHM for many years, it really kept my husband sane- he didn't have to worry about anything with the household or getting the kids anywhere, figuring out who was going to stay home with sick kids, and that was priceless to us looking back. Although I did not have a career where I would have earned a big salary, so for us (we have more than the typical 2 kids) and no family nearby at all, so I'm not sure what we would have done if I did have more earning potential. I think that's the other piece of the puzzle for docs. What does their spouse do? Many of my DH colleagues did not have the student loans he did, and married another MD, or another professional who could support the household, save for retirement, etc. while they were making hardly anything during residency and fellowship. |
I didn't realize NYU did this. That is amazing! |
| A friend of ours is a pediatric eye surgeon. She makes $100k/year for each day of the week that she works. Right now she’s working 3 days a week but has worked as little as 1 and as much as 5. Seems like a good gig to me. |