I’ve never seen that. How do they not know if the guy she’s been dating for ten years has foreign ancestors or not? |
It’s Hello Kitty. Liking cute things is not related to being assaulted by creepy men who assault children. |
They track your family ancestry through your family registrar. Did you know Japan has its own caste of “untouchables” that are shunned by society. You can never escape it due to your family registrar and name. |
| Well, naturalized citizens in the US (like my daughter who was adopted as a baby) still cannot be president in the United States. So it does not surprise me that a more traditional and homogenous culture like Japan would frown (rather than embrace) a transplanted family member. |
| *Hello Kitty (not Miss Kitty). |
Your bitterness is glorious, some many occupants living in your head rent-free. |
What coy thing? She is a highly educated woman, with an independent career, who knows what she wants and stood by her choice with incredible poise and dignity. |
I appreciate your post. The protests and hatred seemed so disconnected to anything that I could understand. I think the English and American media have their own issues with how they often report and don’t report on racism and discrimination. The British press would have to face the all too close parallels with the racism that their own Royal Family handled less than wonderfully, and their own press handled abysmally. The US press would have to have writers and editors capable of an uncommon amount of nuance when writing about cultural issues in a historical context. We don’t do this well when discussing the US, let alone when discussing other countries and cultures. |
Looks like your sense of humor is as miserable as you are. |
Holy crap no I did not. Well Kei having Korean ancestry explains the level of animosity that I was detecting and for the life of me had no idea where it was coming from since he was born and raised in Japan and speaks Japanese. |
I’m also wondering what’s behind that comment. I think the grace under public pressure and the ability of this polished woman to make decisions about her well-being and destiny that are true to herself despite family pressures and even public protests is the opposite of what I would call “coy”. |
| I meant the photo (which PP loved) portrayed her as coy. |
NP. Yes, I see that. And I think it's a very common look/act for Japanese women -- the head down but looking up, mouth closed but with a small smile, hands folded in lap. Women are supposed to appear meek and submissive. I know women there who still cover their mouths when they laugh (giggle) because opening their mouth and showing teeth is not considered attractive. |
Her look is a combination of demure and confident. She does look coy, but if you think about who they are, who she is and what the circumstances are, you'd realize that's not it. |