No karma for OW

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:She needs to blame her husband not the OW. If it wasn't this woman, it would have been someone else. Husband is 100% to blame.

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Yeah that's been said 1,000 times. Yes, she was just a warm hole and any OW would suffice. She's not that special, it could have been anyone. She's the one that opened her legs easily.

Get a life, lady. You're obviously posting this "warm hole" and "open legs" stuff repeatedly and it is pathetic.

Every time one of these threads comes up about some AP/OW there are these psycho losers crawling out of the woodwork to call her easy, slutty, whatever. So what? Your husband went for it. He's easy. He's a slut. It may feel easier to focus (obsess) on the woman involved, but it takes two to tango and your greasy husband is the one who betrayed your marriage and promises HE made to you, not the woman.

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The name calling just shows how vile and bitter these women are. Not surprising that their husbands broke their vows - imagine being married to someone as nasty as that.

wow, the DW really came after you didn't she! hope you learned your lesson, don't F with someone's family!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Not my circus, not my monkeys, but just something I noticed. A good friend was cheated on by DH with a young OW for almost a year, nearly killed her but they patched things up after a very hard struggle. OW kept sending DW sordid details of their affair to try to get her to dump him. We all kept thinking the OW would get some karma, but nope, she married a rich (single) guy, bought a 3m home and just had her first kid. Bet the new husband knows nothing about her role in the affair. Just doesn’t seem fair.

Life isn't fair. Kindergarten 101.

Pretty simple in my book. I would have sent her new husband all the stuff she sent me about the affair. Then he could see what a lovely he married. Oh trust me PP with that kind of woman she is already getting her Karma. You just haven't found out yet.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She needs to blame her husband not the OW. If it wasn't this woman, it would have been someone else. Husband is 100% to blame.

+1

Yeah that's been said 1,000 times. Yes, she was just a warm hole and any OW would suffice. She's not that special, it could have been anyone. She's the one that opened her legs easily.

Get a life, lady. You're obviously posting this "warm hole" and "open legs" stuff repeatedly and it is pathetic.

Every time one of these threads comes up about some AP/OW there are these psycho losers crawling out of the woodwork to call her easy, slutty, whatever. So what? Your husband went for it. He's easy. He's a slut. It may feel easier to focus (obsess) on the woman involved, but it takes two to tango and your greasy husband is the one who betrayed your marriage and promises HE made to you, not the woman.

+1

The name calling just shows how vile and bitter these women are. Not surprising that their husbands broke their vows - imagine being married to someone as nasty as that.

wow, the DW really came after you didn't she! hope you learned your lesson, don't F with someone's family!

Sorry to disappoint, but I'm not an AP. Just calling out the nasty women on DCUM.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She needs to blame her husband not the OW. If it wasn't this woman, it would have been someone else. Husband is 100% to blame.

+1

Yeah that's been said 1,000 times. Yes, she was just a warm hole and any OW would suffice. She's not that special, it could have been anyone. She's the one that opened her legs easily.

Get a life, lady. You're obviously posting this "warm hole" and "open legs" stuff repeatedly and it is pathetic.

Every time one of these threads comes up about some AP/OW there are these psycho losers crawling out of the woodwork to call her easy, slutty, whatever. So what? Your husband went for it. He's easy. He's a slut. It may feel easier to focus (obsess) on the woman involved, but it takes two to tango and your greasy husband is the one who betrayed your marriage and promises HE made to you, not the woman.

Yes PP! How vulgar can one be! I say the OW is a town bicycle, and a strumpet! A bit of a bint as well.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What karma are you hoping for your friend's husband, who actually had the affair?

This. What your friend's husband did (have an affair while married) was far, far worse than what the OW did (have an affair with a married man while single). Yet your friend took him back. The OW did not break any vows nor was she disloyal to anyone. I am not saying I condone single people sleeping with married or otherwise partnered people, but the married person is the one who has an obligation.

Exactly.

All of this venom shows how women can't face up to their own failings - in a marriage and choosing a partner. They want to assign blame elsewhere.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She needs to blame her husband not the OW. If it wasn't this woman, it would have been someone else. Husband is 100% to blame.

+1

Yeah that's been said 1,000 times. Yes, she was just a warm hole and any OW would suffice. She's not that special, it could have been anyone. She's the one that opened her legs easily.

Get a life, lady. You're obviously posting this "warm hole" and "open legs" stuff repeatedly and it is pathetic.

Every time one of these threads comes up about some AP/OW there are these psycho losers crawling out of the woodwork to call her easy, slutty, whatever. So what? Your husband went for it. He's easy. He's a slut. It may feel easier to focus (obsess) on the woman involved, but it takes two to tango and your greasy husband is the one who betrayed your marriage and promises HE made to you, not the woman.

+1

The name calling just shows how vile and bitter these women are. Not surprising that their husbands broke their vows - imagine being married to someone as nasty as that.

wow, the DW really came after you didn't she! hope you learned your lesson, don't F with someone's family!

Sorry to disappoint, but I'm not an AP. Just calling out the nasty women on DCUM.

Oooooh you mean calling other poster names because you DISAGREE! Got it, thanks...............

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She needs to blame her husband not the OW. If it wasn't this woman, it would have been someone else. Husband is 100% to blame.

+1

Yeah that's been said 1,000 times. Yes, she was just a warm hole and any OW would suffice. She's not that special, it could have been anyone. She's the one that opened her legs easily.

Get a life, lady. You're obviously posting this "warm hole" and "open legs" stuff repeatedly and it is pathetic.

Every time one of these threads comes up about some AP/OW there are these psycho losers crawling out of the woodwork to call her easy, slutty, whatever. So what? Your husband went for it. He's easy. He's a slut. It may feel easier to focus (obsess) on the woman involved, but it takes two to tango and your greasy husband is the one who betrayed your marriage and promises HE made to you, not the woman.

+1

The name calling just shows how vile and bitter these women are. Not surprising that their husbands broke their vows - imagine being married to someone as nasty as that.

wow, the DW really came after you didn't she! hope you learned your lesson, don't F with someone's family!

Sorry to disappoint, but I'm not an AP. Just calling out the nasty women on DCUM.

Oooooh you mean calling other poster names because you DISAGREE! Got it, thanks...............

Just calling out the nasty behavior.....and lazy assumptions.

No wonder their DHs cheated.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What karma are you hoping for your friend's husband, who actually had the affair?

This. What your friend's husband did (have an affair while married) was far, far worse than what the OW did (have an affair with a married man while single). Yet your friend took him back. The OW did not break any vows nor was she disloyal to anyone. I am not saying I condone single people sleeping with married or otherwise partnered people, but the married person is the one who has an obligation.

Exactly.

All of this venom shows how women can't face up to their own failings - in a marriage and choosing a partner. They want to assign blame elsewhere.

Yes kind of like the victim whose been swindled. They believed it all hook, line and sinker. Seems kind of weird to blame the victim because I would blame the actual wrong doers. The DH and the AP own it, not the clueless wife.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She needs to blame her husband not the OW. If it wasn't this woman, it would have been someone else. Husband is 100% to blame.

+1

Yeah that's been said 1,000 times. Yes, she was just a warm hole and any OW would suffice. She's not that special, it could have been anyone. She's the one that opened her legs easily.

Get a life, lady. You're obviously posting this "warm hole" and "open legs" stuff repeatedly and it is pathetic.

Every time one of these threads comes up about some AP/OW there are these psycho losers crawling out of the woodwork to call her easy, slutty, whatever. So what? Your husband went for it. He's easy. He's a slut. It may feel easier to focus (obsess) on the woman involved, but it takes two to tango and your greasy husband is the one who betrayed your marriage and promises HE made to you, not the woman.

+1

The name calling just shows how vile and bitter these women are. Not surprising that their husbands broke their vows - imagine being married to someone as nasty as that.

wow, the DW really came after you didn't she! hope you learned your lesson, don't F with someone's family!

Sorry to disappoint, but I'm not an AP. Just calling out the nasty women on DCUM.

Oooooh you mean calling other poster names because you DISAGREE! Got it, thanks...............

Just calling out the nasty behavior.....and lazy assumptions.

No wonder their DHs cheated.

You're assuming every one of them had cheating husbands who disagrees with you, lol. Here's a clue. In society we label people that behave badly. Yep those terms are in the dictionary as has been posted!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She needs to blame her husband not the OW. If it wasn't this woman, it would have been someone else. Husband is 100% to blame.

+1

Yeah that's been said 1,000 times. Yes, she was just a warm hole and any OW would suffice. She's not that special, it could have been anyone. She's the one that opened her legs easily.

Get a life, lady. You're obviously posting this "warm hole" and "open legs" stuff repeatedly and it is pathetic.

Every time one of these threads comes up about some AP/OW there are these psycho losers crawling out of the woodwork to call her easy, slutty, whatever. So what? Your husband went for it. He's easy. He's a slut. It may feel easier to focus (obsess) on the woman involved, but it takes two to tango and your greasy husband is the one who betrayed your marriage and promises HE made to you, not the woman.

Actually you're right about the husband. He's no good and imo used up goods at that point. Still many DWs have to stay for finances, kids, etc. Maybe health reasons, I've seen it all. The AP is a co-cheater, and also responsible for interjecting herself into a couples marriage. They are also responsible for the wrath of the DW, and the kids. Don't blame that pp for correctly calling the AP what she is. I call a bank robber/thief exactly what they are. Do you call them a over zealous withdrawer???
Sadly people are trying to deflect away from correct labeling. Maybe it's a harsh term, but nevertheless it's accurate. Calling other posters psycho because you don't agree isn't winning your case fyi.

You have a single data point on OW's sex life - you know that she had sex with one person, who was married. That does not make her a slut, literally by its definition. You don't know how long she 'dated' the guy for before hooking up with him, so calling her easy seems to be a stretch, too. If he wined and dined her for months, is she still easy? I don't agree with OW's behavior but using gendered terms for promiscuity for the woman while glossing over the person who broke their vows and was sleeping with two people at the same time is sexist and absurd.

And I do think looking up your friend's husband's AP's house address and price is psycho. As is the level of obsession with the OWs from other women talking about her 'hole' with a large degree of fixation.

Not sure what you mean by friend's husband's AP? Another poster maybe, but yes anyone that would date a married person is deserving of many terms. In other dictionarys slut is used for a woman with loose sexual morals. In other words that PP was correct in her terminology. If it makes you feel better I can name many terms that would apply to the cheating husband.
From the Urban Dictionary to describe both cheaters and fairly! -

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Cheater

hahaha! I just noticed the dirty diaper one.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What karma are you hoping for your friend's husband, who actually had the affair?

This. What your friend's husband did (have an affair while married) was far, far worse than what the OW did (have an affair with a married man while single). Yet your friend took him back. The OW did not break any vows nor was she disloyal to anyone. I am not saying I condone single people sleeping with married or otherwise partnered people, but the married person is the one who has an obligation.

Exactly.

All of this venom shows how women can't face up to their own failings - in a marriage and choosing a partner. They want to assign blame elsewhere.

Yes kind of like the victim whose been swindled. They believed it all hook, line and sinker. Seems kind of weird to blame the victim because I would blame the actual wrong doers. The DH and the AP own it, not the clueless wife.

We are talking about the nasty women posting on DCUM. They are responsible for their own words.

Or maybe they're just a ViCTiM 24x7 and they aren't ever responsible for their own actions because they're a ViCTiM?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What karma are you hoping for your friend's husband, who actually had the affair?

This. What your friend's husband did (have an affair while married) was far, far worse than what the OW did (have an affair with a married man while single). Yet your friend took him back. The OW did not break any vows nor was she disloyal to anyone. I am not saying I condone single people sleeping with married or otherwise partnered people, but the married person is the one who has an obligation.

Exactly.

All of this venom shows how women can't face up to their own failings - in a marriage and choosing a partner. They want to assign blame elsewhere.

Yes kind of like the victim whose been swindled. They believed it all hook, line and sinker. Seems kind of weird to blame the victim because I would blame the actual wrong doers. The DH and the AP own it, not the clueless wife.

We are talking about the nasty women posting on DCUM. They are responsible for their own words.

Or maybe they're just a ViCTiM 24x7 and they aren't ever responsible for their own actions because they're a ViCTiM?

The only victims are the people who have been cheated on going by this thread. The perpetrators are the two cheaters that caused the harm. I don't think I would call anyone nasty for calling out a cheater. Various terms have been correctly applied.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not my circus, not my monkeys, but just something I noticed. A good friend was cheated on by DH with a young OW for almost a year, nearly killed her but they patched things up after a very hard struggle. OW kept sending DW sordid details of their affair to try to get her to dump him. We all kept thinking the OW would get some karma, but nope, she married a rich (single) guy, bought a 3m home and just had her first kid. Bet the new husband knows nothing about her role in the affair. Just doesn’t seem fair.

OP you know nothing about what her life is like. You're looking at the outside. Obviously going by her actions you described, she is unstable. Those patterns are likely to repeat unless she got help, and changed. My relative was left by her DH. It too looked good for a few years until it wasn't. They both brought their dysfunction into the relationship, and actually the OW died. She had sent coupons in the mail to the DW. I guess to tell her she would be broke because they were fighting over the home at the time. However, the DW got the home in the divorce. I feel like rotten people get Karma at some point. Or all that negative energy finally comes their way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What karma are you hoping for your friend's husband, who actually had the affair?

This. What your friend's husband did (have an affair while married) was far, far worse than what the OW did (have an affair with a married man while single). Yet your friend took him back. The OW did not break any vows nor was she disloyal to anyone. I am not saying I condone single people sleeping with married or otherwise partnered people, but the married person is the one who has an obligation.

Exactly.

All of this venom shows how women can't face up to their own failings - in a marriage and choosing a partner. They want to assign blame elsewhere.

Yes kind of like the victim whose been swindled. They believed it all hook, line and sinker. Seems kind of weird to blame the victim because I would blame the actual wrong doers. The DH and the AP own it, not the clueless wife.

We are talking about the nasty women posting on DCUM. They are responsible for their own words.

Or maybe they're just a ViCTiM 24x7 and they aren't ever responsible for their own actions because they're a ViCTiM?

The only victims are the people who have been cheated on going by this thread. The perpetrators are the two cheaters that caused the harm. I don't think I would call anyone nasty for calling out a cheater. Various terms have been correctly applied.

The "cheater" is the spouse breaking a vow.

[Anonymous]

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I think it’s weird to focus so much on the other woman. She has moved on with her life. In the grand scheme of things, her affair will barely be a footnote in her story. Don’t let it take up any more chapters of yours.

As a former OW who still ruminates on this 10 years later, you could not be more wrong. I think every day about what I did to his wife, how it ruined both of our integrity, and how it has alienated me from deeper relationships bc to this day I have never told anyone, and anyone decent who heard it would be disgusted. I can never express my remorse to his wife bc I was selfish enough to want it at the time. It radically changed my self image. I try to do more things that are better for others now because I don't believe in an afterlife. If anything it is him who has moved on the most -- kept his marriage, assets and reputation and no one was the wiser outside of his marriage, in which he was discovered and has been forgiven. I meanwhile am wandering the earth like Cain. For all the betrayed wives out there, all I can tell you is that it's at best a growth experience and at worst life-ruining for the OW -- as so many novels will tell you.