Men, Do You Want..

[Anonymous]

I am dating a guy and told him I'm bisexual. I do find some women sexually attractive, but it's never been more that. I have never wanted to date a woman or get involved beyond sex. I am more attracted to men. My ex-boyfriends never had an issue with this, and some thought it was hot. My new boyfriend does no like it. He feels dating a bisexual woman means there will be always be a sexual need he can satisfy. I'm sure there are more men like him, but I feel a vast majority of men like it. Do most men want or care if their partner is bisexual? Does it make them feel insecure about satisfying her needs?

[Anonymous]

You're not bisexual, you just find women pretty.

[Anonymous]

It would be a huge plus for me, and for most men but we aren't your boyfriend so it doesn't matter.

[Anonymous]

What do you plan to do about your issue, OP?

[Anonymous]

He is insecure. Even if you hadn't told him you were bisexual, I'd bet he has insecurities about not being able to satisfy a woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You're not bisexual, you just find women pretty.

1. Rude. You don't get to tell someone what her sexuality is.

2. Being attracted to & wanting to have sex with the same sex is being bisexual. It doesn't matter that she prefers men and wouldn't want to date a woman long term.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You're not bisexual, you just find women pretty.

OP here. I think me having sex with women means I'm bisexual.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What do you plan to do about your issue, OP?

OP here. I'm not sure if I should break up with him.

[Anonymous]

No, don’t care.
No, I’m a secure person in any situation. If she needed her sexual needs filled by a woman as well as me, no problem. Hopefully, she would ask me to watch her and another woman.

[Anonymous]

Women are hot and I can’t blame you for wanting to have sex with them.

[Anonymous]

Young guys are insecure about it


Older men don’t give a shit

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You're not bisexual, you just find women pretty.

OP here. I think me having sex with women means I'm bisexual.

Your OP did not make clear that you have sex with women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What do you plan to do about your issue, OP?

OP here. I'm not sure if I should break up with him.

Do you really want to be with an insecure loser?

[Anonymous]

OP the question is for you. Are you going to be monogamous with a man in a long term relationship. the only reason men say they are "ok" with this is because they assume you will let them join in or watch. Have you done that before? Men are only ok when it includes what THEY want, not you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You're not bisexual, you just find women pretty.

OP here. I think me having sex with women means I'm bisexual.

From your post:

I do find some women sexually attractive, but it's never been more that.