Men, Do You Want..

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am dating a guy and told him I'm bisexual. I do find some women sexually attractive, but it's never been more that. I have never wanted to date a woman or get involved beyond sex. I am more attracted to men. My ex-boyfriends never had an issue with this, and some thought it was hot. My new boyfriend does no like it. He feels dating a bisexual woman means there will be always be a sexual need he can satisfy. I'm sure there are more men like him, but I feel a vast majority of men like it. Do most men want or care if their partner is bisexual? Does it make them feel insecure about satisfying her needs?

There are no such thing as "most men". And why do you care what majority of men like or dislike? Focus on the man that you are in relations with.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He is insecure. Even if you hadn't told him you were bisexual, I'd bet he has insecurities about not being able to satisfy a woman.

This. He's massively insecure.

[Anonymous]

I would be concerned that he is "not okay" with who YOU are. Deal breaker for me.

[Anonymous]

I'm a married bi woman, and DH is fine with my sexuality, and with me sleeping with other women (without him). I was honest about my sexuality while we were dating. I once dated a man who decided he could not marry me when I disclosed I was bi. I am so glad to have dodged that bullet. Now I'm married to someone who is not uncomfortable with my orientation, and I can act on my attraction to women, yay! I don't know how common this arrangement is OP. But I have had a total of 3 past boyfriends who didn't care I was bi, and 1 who did.