Men, Do You Want..

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think there are some men out there who don’t want to date women who have a lot of casual hook-ups.
The days where the gender of those hook-ups made them “hot” are over.

OP here. I don’t have many casual hookups. I’m 30 and have only been with 4 men. I’ve had sex with two women - one in my teenage years and another a couple of years ago.

[Anonymous]

If it was just casual dating I would be fine, and think its hot. But is we became exclusive I would expect that to mean you were only having sex with me

[Anonymous]

It comes down to fidelity! Will you commit to being faithful or will you have a need that he can not fulfill?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Male here and I don’t have casual sex and require a committed monogamous relationship. It wouldnt work for me, but I don’t judge others sexual desires, I have my own list of kinks/preferences.

nobody cares, and you sound disgusting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It comes down to fidelity! Will you commit to being faithful or will you have a need that he can not fulfill?

I'm bi and I committed to fidelity and we were, I thought, happily married for 12 years until I found out my husband had cheated. So you never know.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Male here and I don’t have casual sex and require a committed monogamous relationship. It wouldnt work for me, but I don’t judge others sexual desires, I have my own list of kinks/preferences.

nobody cares, and you sound disgusting.

Monogamy is disgusting?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If it was just casual dating I would be fine, and think its hot. But is we became exclusive I would expect that to mean you were only having sex with me

OP here. We have a monogamous relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Male here and I don’t have casual sex and require a committed monogamous relationship. It wouldnt work for me, but I don’t judge others sexual desires, I have my own list of kinks/preferences.

nobody cares, and you sound disgusting.

OP here. He doesn’t sound “ disgusting”. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and preferences. I believe in monogamy too. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be in a monogamous relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If it was just casual dating I would be fine, and think its hot. But is we became exclusive I would expect that to mean you were only having sex with me

OP here. We have a monogamous relationship.

OP here. I’m not having sex with anyone besides him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Male here and I don’t have casual sex and require a committed monogamous relationship. It wouldnt work for me, but I don’t judge others sexual desires, I have my own list of kinks/preferences.

nobody cares, and you sound disgusting.

What? This is a crazy response. PP sounds reasonable but you sound immature.

[Anonymous]

Since you find a woman's body and sex with a woman to be arousing, that is something he can't give you. He knows that you are sacrificing sexual pleasure and arousal by being with him. Men and women have different bodies and genitals and so if you are attracted to and aroused by parts he doesn't have, it isn't unreasonable to feel you aren't the right partner.

I am a woman and I wouldn't date a bisexual man for the same reason. If he is aroused by and sexually attracted to a Nan's body and sex with make genitals, then I can only provide partial sexual satisfactions dn a big part of what he loves sexually and is attracted to would be off limits.

[Anonymous]

I don't think having a sexual experience with the same sex makes one bisexual. People can have sex with someone they aren't really attracted to out of curiosity, boredom, intoxication, or just to scratch an itch. The same thing can happen with an opposite sex partner.

I don't care if my partner had a same sex experience but I would not date someone whose sexual orientation was bisexual. I think an open relationship is better suited to someone who is bisexual so they can have their sexual needs met. One partner can't do that for someone who is bisexual.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If it was just casual dating I would be fine, and think its hot. But is we became exclusive I would expect that to mean you were only having sex with me

another man here and +1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If it was just casual dating I would be fine, and think its hot. But is we became exclusive I would expect that to mean you were only having sex with me

OP here. We have a monogamous relationship.

OP here. I’m not having sex with anyone besides him.

I think you should not tell a new boyfriend or girlfriend about being bi right off. It’s similar to you starting a relationship and your new girl/boyfriend says she or he prefer a tall really busty woman. Now you happen to be short and flat chested. You point this out and she/he says I like your personality.

Put a post up in the LGTQ section. I think you will get a more realistic prospective.

[Anonymous]

Giggity.