Men, Do You Want..

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You're not bisexual, you just find women pretty.

OP here. I think me having sex with women means I'm bisexual.

From your post:

I do find some women sexually attractive, but it's never been more that.

I'm a man and I can look at some men and say they're good looking, but that's as far as it goes. I dont' want to hop in bed with them. Does that make me bisexual now?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It would be a huge plus for me, and for most men but we aren't your boyfriend so it doesn't matter.

Does not sound like you have any experience with this type of thing. Most men think they will like the idea but they do not. It’s not just a male thing. Women are even worst about. They do not like bi men. You may have some fantasy about two hot women servicing you but you do not get to pick the other woman. The other woman most likely will not be someone you find attractive(think roseanne barr or Ellen DeGeneres). She is into your girlfriend and girls not you. Most will be appalled about having a threesome or having you watch. It comes down to the other woman is attracted to your girlfriend who is attract to her. There is no you in that scenario.

People always think the bi will leave or cheat on you with the opposite sex. Its not really fair to bi people but it is a reality.

[Anonymous]

Jeez, PPs. Try reading.

Anonymous wrote:I am dating a guy and told him I'm bisexual. I do find some women sexually attractive, but it's never been more that. I have never wanted to date a woman or get involved beyond sex. I am more attracted to men. My ex-boyfriends never had an issue with this, and some thought it was hot. My new boyfriend does no like it. He feels dating a bisexual woman means there will be always be a sexual need he can satisfy. I'm sure there are more men like him, but I feel a vast majority of men like it. Do most men want or care if their partner is bisexual? Does it make them feel insecure about satisfying her needs?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You're not bisexual, you just find women pretty.

OP here. I think me having sex with women means I'm bisexual.

From your post:

I do find some women sexually attractive, but it's never been more that.

Yeah, OP is a troll

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What do you plan to do about your issue, OP?

OP here. I'm not sure if I should break up with him.

Do you really want to be with an insecure loser?

nice try. if the roles had been reversed you'd be screaming to dump the guy. seriously, GFY.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You're not bisexual, you just find women pretty.

OP here. I think me having sex with women means I'm bisexual.

From your post:

I do find some women sexually attractive, but it's never been more that.

I'm a man and I can look at some men and say they're good looking, but that's as far as it goes. I dont' want to hop in bed with them. Does that make me bisexual now?

Nope, it doesn't make you bi-sexual. However, it may help you get a new job, a gov't loan, etc!

[Anonymous]

Male here and I don’t have casual sex and require a committed monogamous relationship. It wouldnt work for me, but I don’t judge others sexual desires, I have my own list of kinks/preferences.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It would be a huge plus for me, and for most men but we aren't your boyfriend so it doesn't matter.

Does not sound like you have any experience with this type of thing. Most men think they will like the idea but they do not. It’s not just a male thing. Women are even worst about. They do not like bi men. You may have some fantasy about two hot women servicing you but you do not get to pick the other woman. The other woman most likely will not be someone you find attractive(think roseanne barr or Ellen DeGeneres). She is into your girlfriend and girls not you. Most will be appalled about having a threesome or having you watch. It comes down to the other woman is attracted to your girlfriend who is attract to her. There is no you in that scenario.

People always think the bi will leave or cheat on you with the opposite sex. Its not really fair to bi people but it is a reality.

Pp you are responding to, I'm still totally fine with the scenario, although admittedly if it was Roseanne Barr it would kill my desire to watch

[Anonymous]

My wife evolved towards bisexuality after we were married for several years. Totally fine with me in general but we scratch that itch together.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You're not bisexual, you just find women pretty.

OP here. I think me having sex with women means I'm bisexual.

From your post:

I do find some women sexually attractive, but it's never been more that.

Yeah, OP is a troll

How is OP a troll?

[Anonymous]

DH here: he’s probably concerned that you are actually a lesbian and are going to figure that out someday. I’m not saying that’s true, but it’s reasonable to have some concern along those lines. Nobody wants to be in a situation where their wife figures out she is really gay at 45.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH here: he’s probably concerned that you are actually a lesbian and are going to figure that out someday. I’m not saying that’s true, but it’s reasonable to have some concern along those lines. Nobody wants to be in a situation where their wife figures out she is really gay at 45.

OP here. I'm not gay. I do like women but I like men much more. I would give up sleeping with women ( only happened a couple of times) over giving up men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You're not bisexual, you just find women pretty.

OP here. I think me having sex with women means I'm bisexual.

From your post:

I do find some women sexually attractive, but it's never been more that.

OP here. I meant that I find them sexually attractive but I don't want anything beyond sex. I don't have romantic feelings or want to date women. It's purely sex but only with certain women. I don't find all women attractive like I do a majority of men.

[Anonymous]

I think there are some men out there who don’t want to date women who have a lot of casual hook-ups.
The days where the gender of those hook-ups made them “hot” are over.

[Anonymous]

No one here can tel, you definitively how many men are and are not okay with it. All you can get is individual anecdotes, which you already have from your dating history. So I’m not really sure what you’re looking for here other than attention.