Why do some women choose to be a sidepiece?

[Anonymous]

Is it low self-esteem? Trauma? Are they just gullible to the "my wife won't do xyz" crap? Why would any woman willfully choose to share a man?

[Anonymous]

Because the D is so good.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Because the D is so good.

This. Plus some women are also in a marriage where they can't get the sex they need.

There is also something super hot about being devoured by a sex starved hot married man.

Not saying any of it's is right but you asked why.

[Anonymous]

I'm a side piece. Part self esteem issues. Part anger issues (AP is my side piece). Part sexual attraction. Part gullible. Part wishful thinking. Part pure selfishness.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a side piece. Part self esteem issues. Part anger issues (AP is my side piece). Part sexual attraction. Part gullible. Part wishful thinking. Part pure selfishness.

So you don't care that he's intimate with his wife or SO or anybody else?

[Anonymous]

The passion, intensity, creativity, and willingness to try to please you. He will bring his A game to the bedroom if he is married. This is different if they are single and just dating around.

Married men who cheat are desperate. The traveling married businessmen are the best lovers. They have a finite time to impress you and get you in bed. The ring comes off as soon as they land.

Do you unpack your husband's belongings. You might be surprised at what you find in his luggage.

[Anonymous]

Thots

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The passion, intensity, creativity, and willingness to try to please you. He will bring his A game to the bedroom if he is married. This is different if they are single and just dating around.

Married men who cheat are desperate. The traveling married businessmen are the best lovers. They have a finite time to impress you and get you in bed. The ring comes off as soon as they land.

Do you unpack your husband's belongings. You might be surprised at what you find in his luggage.

What am I supposed to find? Trophies? I’m clueless I guess.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a side piece. Part self esteem issues. Part anger issues (AP is my side piece). Part sexual attraction. Part gullible. Part wishful thinking. Part pure selfishness.

Thanks for reminding us that humans are complex beings and not everything is black or white.

[Anonymous]

He’s good in bed, we have fun together, and I’m not looking for anything more committed from him. I couldn’t care less if he sleeps with his wife, although if he were really all that satisfied with her, he wouldn’t be in my bed so often.

[Anonymous]

That might be all the relationship they are capable of

[Anonymous]

It feels good to be desired. Someone is so into you that they are willing to risk it all. Excitement, lust, being chosen sexually over someone else.

All the good parts without any of the baggage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It feels good to be desired. Someone is so into you that they are willing to risk it all. Excitement, lust, being chosen sexually over someone else.

All the good parts without any of the baggage.

Like love and commitment? Wow.

Can't you get this with someone who isn't a dirty cheater? Someone who also cares about you?

I did.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It feels good to be desired. Someone is so into you that they are willing to risk it all. Excitement, lust, being chosen sexually over someone else.

All the good parts without any of the baggage.

Like love and commitment? Wow.

Can't you get this with someone who isn't a dirty cheater? Someone who also cares about you?

I did.

No. Monogamous relationships are boring, predictable, safe, tiresome. The desire leaves and you are left lying next to a snoring, farting man child.

You can keep that. I get the good part.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It feels good to be desired. Someone is so into you that they are willing to risk it all. Excitement, lust, being chosen sexually over someone else.

All the good parts without any of the baggage.

Like love and commitment? Wow.

Can't you get this with someone who isn't a dirty cheater? Someone who also cares about you?

I did.

No. Monogamous relationships are boring, predictable, safe, tiresome. The desire leaves and you are left lying next to a snoring, farting man child.

You can keep that. I get the good part.

Uh, you're still next to a snoring, farting man child. (If that's how you really want to describe half the humans on Earth.) He just kicks you out in the morning and goes home to his wife and kids.

Plus, I don't know how old you are, or what your childhood looked like (I'm guessing bad), but the desire doesn't leave. It changes, for people who love each other. It's not a bad thing for all of us.