Gave my cheating husband another chance...

[Anonymous]

Needed somewhere to vent! We were separated for a few years. We went to counseling and now he’s back living with me and our child. I’m trying to make the marriage work for child’s sake, but I’m completely miserable. It’s only been 3 months, but I’m still seeing the same behavior as before. Behaviors he claimed he’s changed. Constantly going to happy hour, hanging out late nights with friends/family (so he says). Plus he invites his relatives over and they’re very disrespectful towards me and he allows it. I was really trying to make this work for our child’s sake, but I don’t think I can do it. I don’t trust him at all and he’s not showing me that he can be trusted. I just don’t think this is going to work.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you didn't do a very good job setting down the ground rules for him to move back in.

[Anonymous]

You did your best. You gave it a shot. Now time to move on without him knowing that you've done your best.

[Anonymous]

You are doing your child no favors staying in this environment. Do you not realize that a child can be raised in a single family and be happy and secure? Leave this man now before you child starts to learn all his bad and nasty habits. Raise your child to be an honest, respectful person. Move out and file for divorce. You have only one life, why should you be miserable? You are important! Peace to you and your child.

[Anonymous]

Are you still in counseling? You need to be, and to discuss these behaviors while they are happening.

[Anonymous]

You gave it your all and it did not work out. Time to move on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You gave it your all and it did not work out. Time to move on.

This. So sorry.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like you didn't do a very good job setting down the ground rules for him to move back in.

I did, clearly he didn’t take it seriously.

[Anonymous]

File now! Get your life back ASAP.

[Anonymous]

Just remember. This was YOUR call.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just remember. This was YOUR call.

No. It wasn't. He knew the rules he broke them it was HIS call for the marriage to end.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Just remember. This was YOUR call.

No. It wasn't. He knew the rules he broke them it was HIS call for the marriage to end.

YOU took him back.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Just remember. This was YOUR call.

No. It wasn't. He knew the rules he broke them it was HIS call for the marriage to end.

YOU took him back.

She took him back because he lied and said he changed and he didn't so... bye felicia!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Just remember. This was YOUR call.

No. It wasn't. He knew the rules he broke them it was HIS call for the marriage to end.

YOU took him back.

She took him back because he lied and said he changed and he didn't so... bye felicia!

Exactly my point.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are doing your child no favors staying in this environment. Do you not realize that a child can be raised in a single family and be happy and secure? Leave this man now before you child starts to learn all his bad and nasty habits. Raise your child to be an honest, respectful person. Move out and file for divorce. You have only one life, why should you be miserable? You are important! Peace to you and your child.

I agree. I tried my best to make it work, but I refuse to be miserable. I’m even more miserable now than I was before.