Have to now wear a bra at the house now. Is this fair?

[Lozzzy]

Hi

I hope this is the right section

I just wanted to ask if this is fair or is my mom being weird?

Because of obvious comfort reason, I haven't ever worn a bra when I'm at the house but my moms male friend is here now living with us and my mom randomly demanded I wear one now. I don't dress in any dirty way. I have a top on but because of comfort, I don't put a bra on in the house

She's acted really strangely with it

Am I missing something? I'm kinda lost because its never been asked of me to wear one

Thanks

[Anonymous]

I am sure he doesn’t mind.

[Anonymous]

Your mom doesn’t want her creepy male friend checking you out, which he will if you don’t wear a bra.

[Lozzzy]

Ok but what I mean is I'm not naked. I have a top on

[Anonymous]

how old are you? I would not be alone with this guy at all ever. Very creepy! Tell an adult if you feel uncomfortable or if anything happens

[Lozzzy]

Anonymous wrote:how old are you? I would not be alone with this guy at all ever. Very creepy! Tell an adult if you feel uncomfortable or if anything happens

Oh no. He's a nice guy. It's my mom who told me to

[Anonymous]

Lozzzy wrote:Ok but what I mean is I'm not naked. I have a top on

He can envision you naked when he sees the movements.

[Anonymous]

My mom asked me to wear a bra around my dad. He was not a perv, it just made him uncomfortable. It always bothered me. You should be able to be comfortable in your home without having to police your body. I’m sorry you are experiencing this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My mom asked me to wear a bra around my dad. He was not a perv, it just made him uncomfortable. It always bothered me. You should be able to be comfortable in your home without having to police your body. I’m sorry you are experiencing this.

But men are visual, and they will see it and think of sex. It’s biology and gross. Same with the teenagers wearing things at the pool. It’s not right, but it’s the way it is.

[Lozzzy]

I'm 18 btw and it just seems unfair

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My mom asked me to wear a bra around my dad. He was not a perv, it just made him uncomfortable. It always bothered me. You should be able to be comfortable in your home without having to police your body. I’m sorry you are experiencing this.

But men are visual, and they will see it and think of sex. It’s biology and gross. Same with the teenagers wearing things at the pool. It’s not right, but it’s the way it is.

Not gross. Just biology.

[Anonymous]

There is a male you're not romantically involved with in the house, wear a bra. Sorry.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There is a male you're not romantically involved with in the house, wear a bra. Sorry.

Pretty much this. This is how our whole extended family operates.

[Anonymous]

It is unfair.

Is this friend romantically involved with your mom?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My mom asked me to wear a bra around my dad. He was not a perv, it just made him uncomfortable. It always bothered me. You should be able to be comfortable in your home without having to police your body. I’m sorry you are experiencing this.

But men are visual, and they will see it and think of sex. It’s biology and gross. Same with the teenagers wearing things at the pool. It’s not right, but it’s the way it is.

Not gross. Just biology.

Grown men looking at young women/teenagers is gross.