Have to now wear a bra at the house now. Is this fair?

[Lozzzy]

Anonymous wrote:It is unfair.

Is this friend romantically involved with your mom?

yes she is

Btw I'm new here. Doesn't matter at all but why is everyone anonymous?

Thanks

[Anonymous]

Lozzzy wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It is unfair.

Is this friend romantically involved with your mom?

yes she is

Btw I'm new here. Doesn't matter at all but why is everyone anonymous?

Thanks

so people can say whatever they want to say. it gets pretty nasty. if i were you, i'd not start DCUM. i truly regret finding this site.

[Anonymous]

This is an anonymous forum. The only people who sign in are in the weird sex forum. Just sign out and post...

[Anonymous]

OP, it’s because she’s concerned he’ll even unintentionally think of you sexually. Not fair but it’s the reality.

Also, like PP said, this site can get really nasty. If you stick around, just be aware of that.

[Anonymous]

It could also be it makes him uncomfortable as it is noticeable even without really looking. He could feel at risk of being accused of something or his upbringing / cultural / personal beliefs may make him uncomfortable to be around a teenager whose breasts are visible.

Since you are a teen, living with your mom and in your mom's house, you will need to wear a bra. Once you live in your own place, you can do as you please.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My mom asked me to wear a bra around my dad. He was not a perv, it just made him uncomfortable. It always bothered me. You should be able to be comfortable in your home without having to police your body. I’m sorry you are experiencing this.

But men are visual, and they will see it and think of sex. It’s biology and gross. Same with the teenagers wearing things at the pool. It’s not right, but it’s the way it is.

Not gross. Just biology.

It's not biology to look at a daughter and think sex ... so it is within this man's ability to not think sex... but if he is creepy he will think sex.

It's a choice, stop saying men are controlled by their biology.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My mom asked me to wear a bra around my dad. He was not a perv, it just made him uncomfortable. It always bothered me. You should be able to be comfortable in your home without having to police your body. I’m sorry you are experiencing this.

But men are visual, and they will see it and think of sex. It’s biology and gross. Same with the teenagers wearing things at the pool. It’s not right, but it’s the way it is.

Not gross. Just biology.

It's not biology to look at a daughter and think sex ... so it is within this man's ability to not think sex... but if he is creepy he will think sex.

It's a choice, stop saying men are controlled by their biology.

girl friend's daughter, not his daughter.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My mom asked me to wear a bra around my dad. He was not a perv, it just made him uncomfortable. It always bothered me. You should be able to be comfortable in your home without having to police your body. I’m sorry you are experiencing this.

But men are visual, and they will see it and think of sex. It’s biology and gross. Same with the teenagers wearing things at the pool. It’s not right, but it’s the way it is.

Not gross. Just biology.

It's not biology to look at a daughter and think sex ... so it is within this man's ability to not think sex... but if he is creepy he will think sex.

It's a choice, stop saying men are controlled by their biology.

It is biology to look at a woman's body and think sex. That is what has enabled the human race to continue to exist.

In this society / culture, breasts are sexualized and seen as sexual. It can be considered sexual assault to touch a breast (but not an arm). Women show breast cleavage to be sensual and sexual. Going topless for women is considered scandalous.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It could also be it makes him uncomfortable as it is noticeable even without really looking. He could feel at risk of being accused of something or his upbringing / cultural / personal beliefs may make him uncomfortable to be around a teenager whose breasts are visible.

Since you are a teen, living with your mom and in your mom's house, you will need to wear a bra. Once you live in your own place, you can do as you please.

[Anonymous]

A+ trolling. Perv.

[Anonymous]

Its not your house so yes it's fair.

If you live with other people it's reasonable to respect each other and consider the comfort levels of those you live with otherwise your just being selfish.

[Anonymous]

You’re going bra less in front of non Family members?

[Anonymous]

Perhaps you need to find a more comfortable bra. Breathable cotton, no wire, etc... these days they make really nice ones. Your mother will be delighted to pay for a few!

This is what you need to learn in life. When people want something from you, make them give you something in return. Win-win

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My mom asked me to wear a bra around my dad. He was not a perv, it just made him uncomfortable. It always bothered me. You should be able to be comfortable in your home without having to police your body. I’m sorry you are experiencing this.

But men are visual, and they will see it and think of sex. It’s biology and gross. Same with the teenagers wearing things at the pool. It’s not right, but it’s the way it is.

Not gross. Just biology.

Grown men looking at young women/teenagers is gross.

Yes, it is. So face the facts, and dress appropriately. Tons of comfortable options.

Does anyone need links for comfortable clothing?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Lozzzy wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It is unfair.

Is this friend romantically involved with your mom?

yes she is

Btw I'm new here. Doesn't matter at all but why is everyone anonymous?

Thanks

so people can say whatever they want to say. it gets pretty nasty. if i were you, i'd not start DCUM. i truly regret finding this site.

+1

There are some awesome supportive communities on reddit.

Here, people just attack the OP and accuse them of instigating whatever problem they’re having.