Have to now wear a bra at the house now. Is this fair?

[Anonymous]

It’s not fair. i loathe wearing a bra at home. But it’s your moms place. Can you find a bralette to switch into when home? Comprise.

[Anonymous]

It's your mom's house, and it's not an unreasonable thing to ask. I would never go braless in front of anyone besides my husband, let alone a man I'm not related to. Get a wireless sleep bra or bralette or tank top with a built-in shelf bra or sports bra or whatever is the most comfortable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Perhaps you need to find a more comfortable bra. Breathable cotton, no wire, etc... these days they make really nice ones. Your mother will be delighted to pay for a few!

This is what you need to learn in life. When people want something from you, make them give you something in return. Win-win

This is wise advice, OP. And yes, make your mom buy you some comfy ones - I have dedicated 'house bras' that are super-comfortable but minimize movement.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Perhaps you need to find a more comfortable bra. Breathable cotton, no wire, etc... these days they make really nice ones. Your mother will be delighted to pay for a few!

This is what you need to learn in life. When people want something from you, make them give you something in return. Win-win

This is wise advice, OP. And yes, make your mom buy you some comfy ones - I have dedicated 'house bras' that are super-comfortable but minimize movement.

Yep. Another vote for the comfy bralettes, or the camis with shelf bra, or whatever works for you, and yes Mom pays!

[Anonymous]

In a few months you can wear sweatshirts

[Anonymous]

We are sick prudes in America. We were all born naked. In other countries, it’s normal and nobody is “uncomfortable”.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It could also be it makes him uncomfortable as it is noticeable even without really looking. He could feel at risk of being accused of something or his upbringing / cultural / personal beliefs may make him uncomfortable to be around a teenager whose breasts are visible.

Since you are a teen, living with your mom and in your mom's house, you will need to wear a bra. Once you live in your own place, you can do as you please.

Yes, it boils down to her house, her rules.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Perhaps you need to find a more comfortable bra. Breathable cotton, no wire, etc... these days they make really nice ones. Your mother will be delighted to pay for a few!

This is what you need to learn in life. When people want something from you, make them give you something in return. Win-win

This is wise advice, OP. And yes, make your mom buy you some comfy ones - I have dedicated 'house bras' that are super-comfortable but minimize movement.

Yep. Another vote for the comfy bralettes, or the camis with shelf bra, or whatever works for you, and yes Mom pays!

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's your mom's house, and it's not an unreasonable thing to ask. I would never go braless in front of anyone besides my husband, let alone a man I'm not related to. Get a wireless sleep bra or bralette or tank top with a built-in shelf bra or sports bra or whatever is the most comfortable.

This or just wear a baggy sweatshirt.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My mom asked me to wear a bra around my dad. He was not a perv, it just made him uncomfortable. It always bothered me. You should be able to be comfortable in your home without having to police your body. I’m sorry you are experiencing this.

But men are visual, and they will see it and think of sex. It’s biology and gross. Same with the teenagers wearing things at the pool. It’s not right, but it’s the way it is.

Not gross. Just biology.

It's not biology to look at a daughter and think sex ... so it is within this man's ability to not think sex... but if he is creepy he will think sex.

It's a choice, stop saying men are controlled by their biology.

He's not her dad. He's banging her mom and the mom is afraid he will want to be with the daughter instead.

[Anonymous]

Her house, her rules. And this is not even an outrageous ask.

Growing up my mom never wore bras at home. In the summer when a heat wave comes through, she'd even go topless at the dinner table. I'd always wished she wore at least something. I'm a woman, and I find it distracting. This is not sexual, it's about common courtesy when you are in a shared space with other people.

[Anonymous]

Wear a camisole under your shirt. More comfortable than a bra, but will appease your mom.

[Anonymous]

Her house, her rules

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My mom asked me to wear a bra around my dad. He was not a perv, it just made him uncomfortable. It always bothered me. You should be able to be comfortable in your home without having to police your body. I’m sorry you are experiencing this.

But men are visual, and they will see it and think of sex. It’s biology and gross. Same with the teenagers wearing things at the pool. It’s not right, but it’s the way it is.

Not gross. Just biology.

It's not biology to look at a daughter and think sex ... so it is within this man's ability to not think sex... but if he is creepy he will think sex.

It's a choice, stop saying men are controlled by their biology.

He's not her dad. He's banging her mom and the mom is afraid he will want to be with the daughter instead.

OP doesn't say it's her mom's boyfriend either. Whatever, she ghosted us. One and done OP.

[Anonymous]

There seems to be an OP who.is obsessed with braless teenage girls.