For the men on here in relationships
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Anonymous
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Would it bother you if you found out your wife was "checking up" on you to make sure you aren't cheating?
Nothing super invasive, just casually looking at your phone, email, pockets, etc.? Particularly if you know you aren't guilty of cheating. |
Anonymous
| Yes |
Anonymous
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Can I answer on behalf of my husband?
No. He is fine. I checke everything and vice versa. I even installed an app Life360 on both our phones to track Our commute. ... |
Anonymous
| Yes |
Anonymous
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Anonymous
| Yes absolutely. Shows a complete lack of trust in me, and trust is a very important part of any marriage. I would never Snoop in on her either |
Anonymous
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If a man did this to his wife, DCUM women would shriek that he is needy, insecure, and controlling.
One could also wonder if she is projecting. |
Anonymous
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If you think you need to check then you must not really know me.
If you're inclined to secretly go thru my pockets and my phone and emails then I must not really know you. If we don't really know each other then we don't need to be together. |
Anonymous
| Marital stalking is juts as weird as non-marital stalking. |
Anonymous
| I wouldn’t care, I would find it amusing. I also know my wife wouldn’t do this. |
Anonymous
| It would bother me and also be a waste of her time. |
Anonymous
| Yes it woudl bother me. If I was cheating, she would be able to detect it in our relationship like my attitude towards her, being vacant etc. |
Anonymous
| it would definitely bother me. |
Anonymous
| I’m not a man and this would bother me. |
Anonymous
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You must have done something at some point to raise suspicion. Be honest.
Did you ever cheat? Even back when you were dating? Even on another GF? Have you recently friended an old GF on social media and you’re interacting a lot with her? Are you paying a lot of attention to a new young hire at work while your wife is at home with young kids? Going on regular lunches with a female colleague or old friend at work? Getting home late from work a lot? |