Former friend is dating (not yet ex) husband
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Anonymous
| Is this ok or not? Sometimes it's hard to see clearly. Kids are involved all around. |
Anonymous
| Oh, no! This is not a good thing. |
Anonymous
| Not ok. |
Anonymous
| Bad idea on their part. Very bad idea. |
Anonymous
| Need more details about how close the friend is to you. |
Anonymous
| Oh helllllll naw. I'm not even divorced, but under no circumstances would this ever be ok-either now or in the future. |
Anonymous
| Well, only OK now that the friend is "former." Sorry, OP. |
Anonymous
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Not okay
But if it's a former friend I doubt they care about it being okay |
Anonymous
| People are weird. I would find it not OK and disrespectful. Dump the friend, OP. |
Anonymous
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I am so sorry.
When I was a teen this happened to a family we were acquainted with. All the kids were around the same age/gender and were friends too who had grown up socializing with one another and going to activities together A woman's husband and her best friend started messing around, then moved in together when it was discovered. They married after divorcing their spouses (all friends, now former). Mom A kept her kids. Mom B kept her kids. It affected the kids for a long time, and at least one is still a somewhat messed up adult. I have zero respect for someone who would do that to their family. I am sorry OP. |
Anonymous
| It’s trashy. |
Anonymous
Legally it is adultery and could have an impact on alimony |
Anonymous
| OP it seems there was a fox in the hen house all along. I would talk to your husband because you're both still legally married. Tell him this is going to impact quite a bit if he doesn't break it off. As in friends and family are off limits. |
Anonymous
| Pathetic. Is she that desperate and incapable of finding someone who won’t generate school yard gossip? |
Anonymous
| Talk to your lawyer and document. |