Former friend is dating (not yet ex) husband

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My Mom married my Dads friend/coworker. I love my stepDad. My Dad passed away years ago but he and my Mom became friends and my Mom was heartbroken when my father died. Life is strange.

Jack? Rebecca?? MIGUEL???

LOL!!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I dated my ex wife's friend for about six months. My ex went batshit crazy and started sleeping around. Her behavior got so bizarre that she lost a few of her closest friends and almost lost her job. She checked out of being a mom. Her friend came around to check on us since I became a single dad overnight.

There was something about her that made me comfortable enough to be open and admit that I was not okay. She started helping out around the house. We started talking a lot. Before you knew it, we both had grown attached. We ended up dating for almost a year. We're still good friends now. My ex still hates her more than anything in the world.

As well she should. That hussy was on the hunt, and didn’t even hide it. A true friend would have helped her girlfriend - not you. Your ex-wife became a single parent too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I dated my ex wife's friend for about six months. My ex went batshit crazy and started sleeping around. Her behavior got so bizarre that she lost a few of her closest friends and almost lost her job. She checked out of being a mom. Her friend came around to check on us since I became a single dad overnight.

There was something about her that made me comfortable enough to be open and admit that I was not okay. She started helping out around the house. We started talking a lot. Before you knew it, we both had grown attached. We ended up dating for almost a year. We're still good friends now. My ex still hates her more than anything in the world.

This seems to bear little resemblance to OP’s situation given that OP didn’t come in with batshit ranting but rather with a calm request for a perspective check, and hadn’t followed up with any trashing of ex or friend that I can recall.

The initial post asked if it was okay and stated that sometimes it's hard to see clearly. I shared my experience and the reasons behind it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I dated my ex wife's friend for about six months. My ex went batshit crazy and started sleeping around. Her behavior got so bizarre that she lost a few of her closest friends and almost lost her job. She checked out of being a mom. Her friend came around to check on us since I became a single dad overnight.

There was something about her that made me comfortable enough to be open and admit that I was not okay. She started helping out around the house. We started talking a lot. Before you knew it, we both had grown attached. We ended up dating for almost a year. We're still good friends now. My ex still hates her more than anything in the world.

This seems to bear little resemblance to OP’s situation given that OP didn’t come in with batshit ranting but rather with a calm request for a perspective check, and hadn’t followed up with any trashing of ex or friend that I can recall.

The initial post asked if it was okay and stated that sometimes it's hard to see clearly. I shared my experience and the reasons behind it.

Cool story, bro.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My Mom married my Dads friend/coworker. I love my stepDad. My Dad passed away years ago but he and my Mom became friends and my Mom was heartbroken when my father died. Life is strange.

Jack? Rebecca?? MIGUEL???

LOL!!!

Happy someone got it!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I dated my ex wife's friend for about six months. My ex went batshit crazy and started sleeping around. Her behavior got so bizarre that she lost a few of her closest friends and almost lost her job. She checked out of being a mom. Her friend came around to check on us since I became a single dad overnight.

There was something about her that made me comfortable enough to be open and admit that I was not okay. She started helping out around the house. We started talking a lot. Before you knew it, we both had grown attached. We ended up dating for almost a year. We're still good friends now. My ex still hates her more than anything in the world.

This seems to bear little resemblance to OP’s situation given that OP didn’t come in with batshit ranting but rather with a calm request for a perspective check, and hadn’t followed up with any trashing of ex or friend that I can recall.

The initial post asked if it was okay and stated that sometimes it's hard to see clearly. I shared my experience and the reasons behind it.

Dude, this is not okay. Your wife’s friend used you.