Do you tell guys to date women they’re not attracted to?

[Anonymous]

Do you tell them they should give the woman with frizzy hair, glasses, plainly dressed, and small chested a chance because she’s smitten with him and will make a kinder, and more loving mate than the fashionista who thinks she’s gods gift?

If you don’t why do you think it’s okay to tell women to date men they are not attracted to.?

Are you so steeped in misogyny that you do not believe women care about physical attraction?

Do you believe men are entitled to attention and dated just because?

Sick of this double standard.

- happily married to someone I’m attracted to.

[Anonymous]

When men who have trouble attracting women come in with complaints similar to the one in the thread you’re obliquely referring to, they get lit up like a Christmas tree, so the answer is clearly yes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When men who have trouble attracting women come in with complaints similar to the one in the thread you’re obliquely referring to, they get lit up like a Christmas tree, so the answer is clearly yes.

Really? I’ve never once seen a male be advised to date someone they are not instantly attracted to if they complain about being single.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you tell them they should give the woman with frizzy hair, glasses, plainly dressed, and small chested a chance because she’s smitten with him and will make a kinder, and more loving mate than the fashionista who thinks she’s gods gift?

If you don’t why do you think it’s okay to tell women to date men they are not attracted to.?

Are you so steeped in misogyny that you do not believe women care about physical attraction?

Do you believe men are entitled to attention and dated just because?

Sick of this double standard.

- happily married to someone I’m attracted to.

What are you blathering about? Who says this? I can't think of anyone who thinks women don't care about physical attraction. Why do you even care about dating "double standards" if you're married?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When men who have trouble attracting women come in with complaints similar to the one in the thread you’re obliquely referring to, they get lit up like a Christmas tree, so the answer is clearly yes.

Really? I’ve never once seen a male be advised to date someone they are not instantly attracted to if they complain about being single.

They’re just told to have realistic expectations and then called loser incels.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When men who have trouble attracting women come in with complaints similar to the one in the thread you’re obliquely referring to, they get lit up like a Christmas tree, so the answer is clearly yes.

Really? I’ve never once seen a male be advised to date someone they are not instantly attracted to if they complain about being single.

Guys suggest to each other to date pretty much any woman that walks by who isn’t fat.

[Anonymous]

Who are these dating advice gurus? No one has ever given me dating advice, other than, "He's a jerk, dump him!".

Also, that frizzy hair girl you find unattractive is someone else's Venus.

[Anonymous]

Most men would have sex with most women. But 80% of women are only attracted to 10% of men. So you can see why the advice to expand your dating pool is necessary for women, but not for men.

[Anonymous]

Men are attracted to a very high percentage of reasonably healthy (i.e. not obese), age approprriate women. They are actually shockingly unpicky. You never hear single men complain about being single due to lack of appealing options. Single men are either single because they enjoy playing the field or because they can’t find any women AT ALL who will date them.

Not everything is an organized oppression.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Most men would have sex with most women. But 80% of women are only attracted to 10% of men. So you can see why the advice to expand your dating pool is necessary for women, but not for men.

If so, they can’t agree what that 10% is!

Women have wildly different things that they find attractive. If you think women only like the same handful of physical traits (AKA a Chad), then you are an incel or at least an incel apologist.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you tell them they should give the woman with frizzy hair, glasses, plainly dressed, and small chested a chance because she’s smitten with him and will make a kinder, and more loving mate than the fashionista who thinks she’s gods gift?

If you don’t why do you think it’s okay to tell women to date men they are not attracted to.?

Are you so steeped in misogyny that you do not believe women care about physical attraction?

Do you believe men are entitled to attention and dated just because?

Sick of this double standard.

- happily married to someone I’m attracted to.

Someone has watched too many teen rom-coms.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you tell them they should give the woman with frizzy hair, glasses, plainly dressed, and small chested a chance because she’s smitten with him and will make a kinder, and more loving mate than the fashionista who thinks she’s gods gift?

If you don’t why do you think it’s okay to tell women to date men they are not attracted to.?

Are you so steeped in misogyny that you do not believe women care about physical attraction?

Do you believe men are entitled to attention and dated just because?

Sick of this double standard.

- happily married to someone I’m attracted to.

Do what?!?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Most men would have sex with most women. But 80% of women are only attracted to 10% of men. So you can see why the advice to expand your dating pool is necessary for women, but not for men.

Is this true? Most of my past bf's and and my husband are pickier than I am about women (they seem more critical of their looks) and all their past gf's were very hot. I don't believe they would sleep with most women.

[Anonymous]

Men and women are different. Hence, their dating advice is different.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you tell them they should give the woman with frizzy hair, glasses, plainly dressed, and small chested a chance because she’s smitten with him and will make a kinder, and more loving mate than the fashionista who thinks she’s gods gift?

If you don’t why do you think it’s okay to tell women to date men they are not attracted to.?

Are you so steeped in misogyny that you do not believe women care about physical attraction?

Do you believe men are entitled to attention and dated just because?

Sick of this double standard.

- happily married to someone I’m attracted to.

Hey, that's me. And at least a few people have thought I was attractive enough to date and f^ck and ultimately marry. And hell yes, they were attracted to me. ... Stop denigrating us frizzy-haired glasses-wearing small chested women. I can't help what nature gave me. Or didn't give me.